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Could Barbara work as an honour name?

92 replies

SDtome · 20/05/2026 12:57

Thoughts on Barbara? Could it work? There's an amazing woman in my life that I really admire named Barbara (goes by Barb), and I'd love to honour her. DH is supportive of the idea. The only potential problem that I can see is that the Barb in my life was born in the 1970s, so the name would have been much more common during that time. I do wonder if bullying should be a concern because it's not a very fashionable name at the moment (and probably won't be for at least a decade or longer). I worry that our daughter might not be able to pull it off and will hate her name.

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OriginalPedant · 20/05/2026 13:39

I think it would be cruel.

Could you use it as a middle name?

Pemba · 20/05/2026 13:38

X post with @Nottopanic . I might have known I wouldn't be the first one to mention DM and VC!

BrownRedPink · 20/05/2026 13:37

This is going to sound strange, but I really dislike when a person has a name that doesn't "match" their generation. I like when I'm able to accurately loosely imagine what a person will be like just by hearing their name or seeing it written down. I have a colleague called Lily and was expecting her to be much younger. She's in her 40s currently! Meeting someone born after the 80s named Barbara would give me this same feeling but reversed.

Pemba · 20/05/2026 13:36

David Mitchell (comedian) and his wife Victoria Coren (presenter) have a young daughter named Barbara, so likely it's coming back around. I quite like it. Would you call her Barbie for short though? 😊

Nottopanic · 20/05/2026 13:35

Barbara is a great name. Victoria Coren and David Mitchell have a young Barbara. She’s probably about aged ten now.
I know three Barbaras - two are in their 50s, but one is aged eight.

Juliadiesalone · 20/05/2026 13:31

Ilovegermany · 20/05/2026 13:30

I was born in the early 70s and one of my best friends at school was Barbara.

Well done! 👏🏻

Ilovegermany · 20/05/2026 13:30

Juliadiesalone · 20/05/2026 13:28

You don’t honour someone by making another person get saddled with their name. Bizarre. I was born in the 70s and have never ever met someone my age or younger called Barbara. It’s a grandmas name

I was born in the early 70s and one of my best friends at school was Barbara.

Juliadiesalone · 20/05/2026 13:28

You don’t honour someone by making another person get saddled with their name. Bizarre. I was born in the 70s and have never ever met someone my age or younger called Barbara. It’s a grandmas name

SleepingStandingUp · 20/05/2026 13:22

well i don't see how it's any more unusual these days as half the names on our school roll so whilst I'm not a fan, I don't think they'll be bullied.

ImInTheCooler · 20/05/2026 13:08

God awful for a baby / child

Peanutlicious · 20/05/2026 13:04

I would use it as a middle name

Floppyearedlab · 20/05/2026 13:04

Love it

Zoraflora · 20/05/2026 13:00

If its what you want go for it. I like the name.
Be confident about your name choice and your daughter will too x

LeeshaPaper · 20/05/2026 13:00

No

OrsolaRosso · 20/05/2026 12:59

Use it as a middle name?
She may end up being called Barbie, would you mind that?

Tablesandchairs23 · 20/05/2026 12:58

It's a very dated name. Maybe use it as a middle name.

Grumpie · 20/05/2026 12:57

I love it