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What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

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Reviled · 04/05/2026 12:11

What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

Ill go first Caitlyn and Leah

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NewBrightonEel · 04/05/2026 14:07

A girl called Dorinda in the year above me used to be absolutely vile to everyone. Now my adult daughter is friends with her daughter (who is lovely) and I hear she worries in case her daughter finds out what she was like.

PutAGirdleRoundAboutTheEarthIn40Minutes · 04/05/2026 14:06

Vanessa and Angela. It was short lived, and Vanessa was the ringleader.

I haven’t seen either of them since leaving school but I understand that neither has had a particularly noteworthy life, whereas I came into my own afterwards and have had a very happy, fulfilling and interesting life and career. It’s curious how often that is the pattern.

Stardancerintheskye · 04/05/2026 14:00

At primary

Daniel
Stephen
Adam
Beverly
William
Claire
John
Jackie
Ben

At secondary
Keira
Nicola
Hayley
Joe
Sarah
Susan
Amanda
Ameila

The school years are not my favourite memories

The teachers did fuck all to stop it,in fact the primary teachers joined in with the bullying (fuck you Mrs Fisher,Mr Roberts and the rest,not Mrs York-you where lovely)

One of the primary bullies had a ds about the same time I had my ds and they became friends at school

Ill give her credit as her ds is a lovely lad (shes been through some serious crap and still managed to bring up lovely kids) but I saw that look cross her face when she realised who my ds's mum is

She did look ashamed (but never said a word) but I refused to drag innocent kids into our past so left it

One is now a drug dealer and another was an alcoholic and I think hes dead now

Another primary bully is a mental health nurse!

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 13:59

Sasha D
Stephanie H
Cunts

xOlive · 04/05/2026 13:58

I had several, the ringleader was called Chelsey.
Fucking bitch.
It’s been 16 years since I left school and she’s still a fucking bitch.

Dollymylove · 04/05/2026 13:56

Sandra. She led a small battalion of nasty little bitches .
I believe she died in her early 40s

MsTada · 04/05/2026 13:52

Carol

Besidemyselfwithworry · 04/05/2026 13:49

In my year there was a Paula and she was vile just a nasty piece of work - she ended up in prison and her various kids have all been removed.
every dog has its day as they say.

dapsnotplimsolls · 04/05/2026 13:48

Lulu then Rachel at primary school. Rachel continued into secondary school until I started to find some good friends in the third year.

Monty36 · 04/05/2026 13:47

Colette. Her mum was one of the teachers.

Dontcallmescarface · 04/05/2026 13:47

I can't name her as she's my sister.

PrincessofWells · 04/05/2026 13:47

I remember them well, but I've had a great time since school . . .

theleftsuitcase · 04/05/2026 13:47

ApricotTulip · 04/05/2026 12:27

Same

Same here, an awful Joanne.
Also Debbie.

BluebelllsRosesDaffodills · 04/05/2026 13:46

The worst bullies in my primary school were called Cascade (became an actress but only trivial minor parts) and Jordene (don’t know what happened to). Luckily, I managed to mainly avoid them.

Secondary- Marguerite (ended up an unemployed teenage Mum), Stephanie (don’t know what happened to), Rochelle (don’t know what happened to), Susan (joined the police- didn’t last long though).

Bullies rarely have successful lives.

ItIsAlwaysSwingsAndRoundabouts · 04/05/2026 13:46

Claire (primary), I bumped into her again (about 15 years later) and she still muttered ‘f off and go back to where you came from’ 😔
she was the worst of the lot (i was bullied for being the wrong race)

dailyconniptions · 04/05/2026 13:44

Gina.

GiddyDog · 04/05/2026 13:43

Christopher/Chris.
He was vile, bumped into him on a night bus home from the pub in my early 20's and he was still the same horrible bastard and tried to give me verbal abuse again.
Last time I saw him was driving past a few years ago as he was hanging over a bin being sick in the street at lunchtime on a Wednesday.
He's an alcoholic who's never had a job or left the council scheme we grew up in.

Owly11 · 04/05/2026 13:43

Rozendantz · 04/05/2026 13:31

Actually, thinking about it there were loads of girls at school who were dreadful bullies - but I can't think of a single boy. Why is it that boys have much simpler relationships with each other? Girls seem to have more complex relationships are meaner to one another which is just sad😔

Absolute rubbish. Boys get horrendously bullied by other boys too.

blueybluetoes75 · 04/05/2026 13:42

Julie and Rachel both bitches and still are

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 04/05/2026 13:41

Summerhouse21 · 04/05/2026 13:24

Claire from a Devon Grammar school. Even the boys felt threatened by her.
I had no problem with her, but I had been asked by the headteacher to mentor/look after a new younger girl (13) that had joined the school (she had gone through trauma, much older boyfriend had been sent to prison for sexual offences). Well, Claire and the new younger girl didn't get on and as a result Claire decided to take it out on me as well.
I was waiting at the bus stop one day, she walked right up to me with her entourage of boys and punched me in the face. The pain was awful, I had a split lip, blood everywhere.
Horrible girl....

See nowadays you’d report them to the police for assault wouldn’t you?

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 04/05/2026 13:40

ayvasili · 04/05/2026 12:31

I was once bullied by Sienna (she's an actress now)

Miller?!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 04/05/2026 13:39

Caroline apologised later I mean via fb messenger.

VivienneDelacroix · 04/05/2026 13:38

Gemma

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 04/05/2026 13:38

Caroline apparently but she didn’t bully me, she said she did, I don’t recall it at all. She apologised, felt guilty. Annabelle in secondary. Changed her name since. As soon as I didn’t dance to her tune and be her bestie she turned on me. Hasn’t changed years later though I have her a second chance. Apparently her mum bullied her so that’s why she bullied.

undercoverhero74 · 04/05/2026 13:37

Jason! I can’t think of a female bully but Jason was just vile to everyone!