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What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

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Reviled · 04/05/2026 12:11

What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

Ill go first Caitlyn and Leah

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Redhairandhottubs · 04/05/2026 21:09

Rachel and Karen at primary school.
Tricia, Suzy and Elaine at secondary.

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 21:08

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 20:54

Change therapists.

Nah my therapist is great and I'm a lot better than I was.

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 20:54

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 20:52

I am in extensive therapy. I have wished I was dead since I was 5.

But I truly believe there are people who deserve cancer and those who get cancer that don't deserve it.

Change therapists.

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 20:52

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 20:45

You should get therapy. It’s not normal to find it funny that a woman dies from cancer, and wish it on her sister too. I feel bad for you.

I am in extensive therapy. I have wished I was dead since I was 5.

But I truly believe there are people who deserve cancer and those who get cancer that don't deserve it.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 04/05/2026 20:50

Danielle. She spat on me for a whole term when I walked into assembly. It only stopped because she told me when my younger sister was going to start that she was going to beat her up so I agreed to meet her by the school pond she was going to beat me up all her mates were there but I launched the first punch and she never bothered anyone ever again.

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 20:45

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 20:02

Bullied all my life and that bitch and her sister were the worst. Thrown into a pond by them for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Im glad she got her karma and I hope the rest of the trash get it too.

You should get therapy. It’s not normal to find it funny that a woman dies from cancer, and wish it on her sister too. I feel bad for you.

AmericaIsSoBloodyGreat · 04/05/2026 20:02

Carl. Cunt

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 20:02

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 19:10

I’m sorry you were bullied, but this is just batshit. How evil can you actually be if you find it funny that someone died from cancer? What is wrong with you?

Bullied all my life and that bitch and her sister were the worst. Thrown into a pond by them for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Im glad she got her karma and I hope the rest of the trash get it too.

starrynight009 · 04/05/2026 19:52

Joanna, her little gang, and Claire. Although Joanna and her ‘cool girls’ clique bullied some of my friends more than they bullied me. I wish I’d had the confidence back then to stand up to them.

MaryBennetThe2nd · 04/05/2026 19:50

Elaine at primary and Linda at secondary. ☹️

MegMortimer · 04/05/2026 19:39

Michelle. She thought she was my friend but I didn't like her at all because she was nasty and violent. I befriended her to stop her punching me.

As usual, I told my mother and she wouldn't help me.

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 04/05/2026 19:38

Sophie, William, Vivian.

asdbaybeeee · 04/05/2026 19:37

Kelly
Cheryl
Lynsey
emma
shelley
lindsey
denella

fucking cows the lot of them and the boys weren’t much better

steven
stephen
aaron
andrew
andrew

TheeNotoriousPIG · 04/05/2026 19:30

Heather, Lydia, Rachel, Sam, Shanice, Jasmin, Curtis, Elliot, Jordan, Joanna, Jade x2, Kayleigh, Chloe, and on and on and on... I had a facial difference that I couldn't hide, so I was the target for a lot of bullying by most people who noticed it (including one specific teacher, Miss Whitley, who was probably a bully in her own schooldays). It's no wonder that I'd spend the last night of every school holidays crying and asking not to have to go back to school. People started treating me a bit better when my deformity started to be fixed. By the time I left, I barely spoke to anyone, because I just wanted to be invisible and go unnoticed.

One got slapped and threatened by a sibling's friend. He never came near me after that. Funnily enough, he had a similar deformity, but not as bad... and WTF tries bullying someone because they have a recently deceased parent?! (Fortunately, I wasn't too bothered about the death of an abusive parent...).

One only apologised years later, when my sibling refused to sit with him, and told the mutual friend why. He eventually moved to New Zealand. Good riddance, in my opinion...

I've seen one once, with a ropey-looking boyfriend and a gang of offspring. She knew exactly who I was. I gave her a filthy look and told my dog (then a friendly puppy) in a nice loud voice that we don't associate with such people. Thankfully, my puppy was very obedient in avoiding her!

I suspect that a lot of them don't realise how much damage they cause, but what possesses people to be so unkind? I wouldn't wish their treatment on my own worst enemy. I'm really glad that I moved far enough away that my own DC will never meet theirs, or attend the same schools that I did.

LittleMissLateForWorkAgain · 04/05/2026 19:20

Karen and Susan.
Karen was just pure evil. Nasty little peroxide bitch with her evil comments and little gang.
Susan was a cow but I found out later on her mum had died when we were in year 7 so I guess she just hated everyone.
I think if she'd told people this maybe she would have been a better person and less hated.

Tanya a very "mature" 14 year old who liked to laugh at anyone who was a virgin.
Well most of us then.

Taxta · 04/05/2026 19:15

Mel, or ‘big Mel’ as she was known.

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I’m sorry you were bullied, but this is just batshit. How evil can you actually be if you find it funny that someone died from cancer? What is wrong with you?

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 04/05/2026 19:07

Ruth. Nasty piece of work.

JontyGentooey · 04/05/2026 19:07

3 x Sarahs
2 X Sophies
Can't bear those names even to this day.

Ollie
Isobel
Caitlin

ArcticBells · 04/05/2026 19:05

Penelope

TheChosenTwo · 04/05/2026 19:02

Jenna - not sure why, she just had it in for me. Would see me coming down the corridors and try to trip me up, wasn’t anything too terrible, just slyly nasty - never really interacted with her, we were in opposite sides of the year and didn’t have any classes together. She just took an instant dislike to me.
Ironically our paths crossed years later, she was a HCA looking after my mum in hospital.

ayvasili · 04/05/2026 18:59

NOT miller, I'm sure she was just lovely at school!

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iloveeverykindofcat · 04/05/2026 17:46

Tracy.

Her mother was a dinner lady and she was the epitome of a cry-bully: the kid who'd single you out, bully you, then somehow manipulate and twist the situation so you were the one who ended up in trouble.

Before her was Hannah, a more straightforward sort of bully, which is a shame as I really like the name Hannah. I wasn't massively bullied though, those girls were awful to everyone. I wasn't popular either, most of my interests were outside school and I sort of had the knack of not drawing attention to myself. I'm sure the vast majority of my classmates wouldn't remember me.

VikingLady · 04/05/2026 17:43

Alison, Michelle, another Michelle, Stephanie, Aaron, Charlotte.

In hindsight at least two were already prostitutes by 16, so I think they had a lot of crap going on in their lives. Whilst I wouldn’t be friends with them if we met now I wouldn’t hold a grudge. Aaron can fuck off though.