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What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

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Reviled · 04/05/2026 12:11

What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

Ill go first Caitlyn and Leah

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Purplewarrior · 04/05/2026 16:36

Marie and Tracey

dapsnotplimsolls · 04/05/2026 16:34

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Rozendantz · 04/05/2026 13:31

Actually, thinking about it there were loads of girls at school who were dreadful bullies - but I can't think of a single boy. Why is it that boys have much simpler relationships with each other? Girls seem to have more complex relationships are meaner to one another which is just sad😔

God the boys were the worst I’ve realised I didn’t mention boys names on my first post though. Jonathon and Archie and Joseph were the worst

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IrisDaisyMarigoldLillyRose · 04/05/2026 16:31

Wasn’t bullied.

chattyness · 04/05/2026 16:29

I've just remembered two more that tried to bully me Marianne & Kerry but I stood up to them & left them crying

Staceyeatscarrots · 04/05/2026 16:23

I was a bully but I didn’t realise til recently. I was bullied by my mother and my siblings and Karma got me with a life of mental illness.

AlwaysSometimesNever · 04/05/2026 16:21

Charlotte. Horrible girl. So unkind and so spoilt.

Moll2020 · 04/05/2026 16:18

Natalie

almondflake · 04/05/2026 16:16

Debra and Catherine

NoisyBuilder · 04/05/2026 16:10

Rebecca.

She's still awful & just plain mean - spiteful as ever with her equally horrible mum & sister sniggering along like snuffling pigs.

When people leave shitty little, mean-spirited, unhelpful responses on threads here where people are asking for help, I automatically assume it's her.

Flourshiba · 04/05/2026 16:05

Vicky. She was eventually expelled but not before making life hell for lots of people including me

ASixtySix · 04/05/2026 16:05

Gillian

HotChocolateBubbleBath · 04/05/2026 16:04

I can’t say I was bullied really just a few nasty comments from a Fiona which I managed to close down pretty quickly. Her ds and my ds both now 24, have been really good friends since senior school. The nasty comments have never been mentioned, lol

MrsLFii · 04/05/2026 15:59

I was never bullied, but Sammi-Jo (violent aggressive cow who’d punch people for looking at her ‘wrong’… or breathing near her) and Chelsea (absolute bitch who had snide little comments to make about everyone all the time, the type to really chip away at someone until they can’t cope), and Bradley (again, violent aggressive bellend), were the worst in my year at secondary. Primary was a tiny village school where everyone was lovely 😅

Rozendantz · 04/05/2026 15:54

Owly11 · 04/05/2026 13:43

Absolute rubbish. Boys get horrendously bullied by other boys too.

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Well it's not 'absolute rubbish' that I can't think of any boy bullies at school, and happily my DS never encountered any at school either. And I still maintain that girls have more complex relationships than boys... And obviously boys are capable of bullying, I just have only personally encountered girl bullies.

However, I suspect that modern tech means that bullying is generally quite different to what it was when I was at school because it no longer needs to be done face to face.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 04/05/2026 15:43

None at primary.
Belinda at secondary. Fortunately I had a great and close group of friends and the attempts at bullying (and trying to get the entire class to join in with her) fell flat. But I still feel a visceral hatred at the mention of the name (and I don't hate many people).

SorrelForbes · 04/05/2026 15:34

Kelly, Vicki and the ringleader Maureen.

essentialwaitrosesmokedham · 04/05/2026 15:26

I was never bullied

RoseInBloome7 · 04/05/2026 15:13

Joanne …. Made my life hell in primary school.

JLou08 · 04/05/2026 15:11

Interesting that Rachael has come up a few times. There were two Rachael's in my year who were awful, one was the more quiet sly type who teachers loved but she was awful to pupils, the other was a very loud mouthed aggressive type. The quiet sly one seems like she is living a great life now, the other one looked like she was on hard drugs when I last seen her. There was another Rachael in my year who was a lovely girl.

DuskOPorter · 04/05/2026 15:02

I don’t remember my school bully but her Dad passed away when we were in the last year of school and it took all of the sting out of her behaviour.

She clearly had her own issues and obviously I’d prefer she hadn’t taken them out on me but thankfully it didn’t stay with me.

My older brothers and my parents behaviour though, the level of damage their bullying caused to me that lasted a lot longer and had a much deeper impact on me.

JuliettaCaeser · 04/05/2026 15:02

Not at school but had an evil boss called Cathryn. My blood runs cold when I see that spelling. I was warned by several strangers in the profession not to work for her but I needed the job. Gave me comfort that she was evil generally so it wasn’t me!

Devondevs · 04/05/2026 15:02

Emma.
Karma came back to bite her in her adult life and it was truly beautiful watching her suffer

hurtingApril · 04/05/2026 14:58

Rachael Sally and Mark. Utter scum bags

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PipMumsnet · 04/05/2026 14:37

Hello everyone, just a reminder to please not post full names or other identifying details on this thread. We have already removed a few posts which we felt were too identifying.
Thanks for your understanding.
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