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What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

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Reviled · 04/05/2026 12:11

What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

Ill go first Caitlyn and Leah

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CeciliaMars · 06/06/2026 21:23

Kyra. Her dad was the headmaster.

Brummiecurlz173 · 06/06/2026 21:08

Natalie
Robbie
Roman

they all ruined me.

astrozenica · 20/05/2026 10:59

Stephen/Steven - there were a couple of them actually
Kelly
Michelle
Michaela - this one stands out as being fairly unusual for the time

Looking back, the troubled kids who bullied others probably had horrible home lives.

notfeelingtoday · 18/05/2026 20:21

Linsey

PinkPonyAnonymous · 18/05/2026 20:01

Eleanor
Tabitha
Mary

moonshinepoursthroughmywindow · 18/05/2026 18:44

There was no one obvious school bully, not did anyone ever consistently bully me for a long time, but some people who were unkind to me in various ways were...

Jane (but most Janes I've known have been nice)
Angela
Sonia
Susan
Nigel
Paul
David (but again I've known a lot more nice ones)

In my children's generation, there were two quite unpleasant Shanices.

EverardDeTroyes · 18/05/2026 13:15

There was a group of them going from primary to secondary but the one whose name I remember was Tracy. She was vile. But my small pleasure is remembering walking behind her once at secondary school and she had the most revolting skinny ankles, the sort where all you see are tendons. My ankles were, and still are, much admired.

Taxta · 18/05/2026 13:08

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 17/05/2026 14:15

Melanie and Sharon although Sharon wasn’t so bad. She was more of a side kick. I remember my mum and Nan went up the school. I’m not sure how long after but I remember Melanie asking me if I wanted to play with them, and we had a ball and as young as I was 8 I remember think All the trouble that’s happened and the aggro my mums going to go mad at me for playing with these. We became friends after that. I left the school soon after though due to a house move.

The Mel that was a bully at my school had a sidekick called Sharon too!

Travsmam · 18/05/2026 12:51

Ihateboris · 04/05/2026 12:32

"The" Sienna???

As in Sienna Miller 😮

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 17/05/2026 14:15

Melanie and Sharon although Sharon wasn’t so bad. She was more of a side kick. I remember my mum and Nan went up the school. I’m not sure how long after but I remember Melanie asking me if I wanted to play with them, and we had a ball and as young as I was 8 I remember think All the trouble that’s happened and the aggro my mums going to go mad at me for playing with these. We became friends after that. I left the school soon after though due to a house move.

Marcipox · 17/05/2026 10:26

Hilary
Angela

Vitrolinsanity · 17/05/2026 10:17

Andrea

Vitrolinsanity · 17/05/2026 10:17

Andrea

Vitrolinsanity · 17/05/2026 10:17

Andrea

aurpod1980 · 17/05/2026 08:18

Lisa Primary and Sara Secondary :( Sara was one gaslighting, manipulative person, had me thinking she was my best friend but behind my back was doing so much bad stuff… eventually when it all came out she then turned proper evil. No idea what’s come of them now.

maddiemookins16mum · 17/05/2026 07:40

Andrew and Richard - twins. They were utterly vile. I can still see their faces to this day - 46 years later. They had a nickname for me, it was the name of a sex symbol at the time, every time they saw me they called out ‘here comes ’ - everyone would laugh and jeer. I was a typical plain, bespectacled 14 year old. They made my life an utter misery. I still feel such hate towards them.

50NotFat · 17/05/2026 07:39

Zoe. She was my best friend in primary school then started mixing with different girls in comp. Took a matter of weeks for her to turn. I changed schools eventually (not in relation to the bullying).

My biggest bully during my school years was actually my sister though.

Tomrrowandtomorrowandtommorrow · 17/05/2026 07:32

Penny. She went on to work in prisons.

TidyDancer · 17/05/2026 07:21

There were a few, I wasn’t a kid who fit in well. Frances, Zoe, Claire, Natalie, Alicia and Carly are ones that stand out in memory. Have seen and spoken to a few of them since. Some have seemingly changed, others not.

Spicysirracha · 17/05/2026 06:53

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 17/05/2026 06:40

Tracy.
Several years after leaving school her ex was in the paper for attacking her and her mother. Karma.

You’re better than that @Amiacoolorwarmcolour

sunnydisaster · 17/05/2026 06:48

Tania
My DD’s one would be Ruby - she was her ‘frenemy’

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 17/05/2026 06:40

Tracy.
Several years after leaving school her ex was in the paper for attacking her and her mother. Karma.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 17/05/2026 04:32

Samantha
Rutn

BebbanburgIsMine · 17/05/2026 01:38

Oh, and a Michelle!

BebbanburgIsMine · 17/05/2026 01:38

Carol
Julie
Joyce
Jill
Fiona
Linda
Valerie
Theresa

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