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Please vote my girls names

32 replies

OneMoreCoffee3 · 29/04/2026 14:56

Hi, I posted the other day about Alessia and got positive feedback but I’m still not sure. I’m 33 weeks with number 4, the sex of the baby is a surprise.

The name for a boy is set in stone, Ivo (eye-vo). I’ve loved it since watching Child of our Time growing up, does anyone else remember that longitudinal docuseries?

I prefer “real” names that are not as common. My thoughts are Elva (old name and rare), Iva (as it is similar to Ivo so may scratch that itch?), Alessia (but we have no Italian roots) or Anna (classic and less commonly used at the moment). Sadly I don’t feel as strongly about any of them as I do Ivo.

Must be out of the top 100 or at least out of the top 80, I was one of four children with my name in a primary school class of 24 and felt I had no identity.

Other ideas welcome. Baby is Chinese/ Irish heritage and being raised in England. Despite the appearance of my list, I would prefer something recognisable but not commonly occurring.

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BrickProblems · 29/04/2026 15:32

What about Alicia? Or Alice? Isn’t there an Irish spelling - Alys? (Is that “ay liss”?

BrickProblems · 29/04/2026 15:30

Fair enough about the eels! To me Aoife and Elva sound a bit samey samey. Like Lorna and Lara or Milly and Marley.

OneMoreCoffee3 · 29/04/2026 15:09

Onefortheroad25 · 29/04/2026 15:07

Anna is the only one I remotely like, it’s my mother’s name. The other names sound a bit made up tbh.
What about the Irish name Ailbhe. Pronounced Alva.

I like that. I have an Aoife and that about as Irish as DH is prepared to get. My family would disown me if I used an anglicised spelling so Irish names are kind of off the table. Unless we went for Orla or something, I suppose.

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Onefortheroad25 · 29/04/2026 15:07

Anna is the only one I remotely like, it’s my mother’s name. The other names sound a bit made up tbh.
What about the Irish name Ailbhe. Pronounced Alva.

ExitPursuedByABare · 29/04/2026 15:06

What about Elvira?

OneMoreCoffee3 · 29/04/2026 15:04

Good point with Iva. I really don’t mind about the baby eel, is that strange? Baby eels don’t come up often in life 😅

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BrickProblems · 29/04/2026 14:59

I love Alessia and Anna. I think thanks to the footballer Alessia is going to be a very mainstream name in future (I mean that in a good way).

Poor Iva would constantly have people expecting a man called Ivor. I know two Petas “peter” who have had this their entire lives.

Elva I’m pretty sure is a homonym for a baby eel elver.