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Dakota - girl or boy?

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Ellein · 21/04/2026 16:01

Is Dakota meant to be for a girl or a boy? If you were told that someone you know had just named their baby Dakota, what gender would you automatically assume the baby is?

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Lion1618 · 02/05/2026 22:12

I know of two girls named Dakota (one a toddler and the other a pre-teen) however I think it's quite unisex and would work for a boy too.

Treadcarefully11 · 24/04/2026 03:40

I’d think it was a chavs girl name in the UK. Either way it’s a bizarre choice when you think of the myriad of names they could have chosen.

user1492757084 · 24/04/2026 02:52

I see Dakota as a boys' name and quite American.

Some well known girls have been called Dakota to it is possibly now unisex.

Ellery, Avery, Jordan, Charlie, Reece, Leslie and Ginger are other boys' names that are similarly sometimes unisex.

hahabahbag · 23/04/2026 21:55

Neither it’s a place. So many lovely names why use a non name

Zanatdy · 23/04/2026 21:53

I think of it being a girls name

Sparklinggreen · 23/04/2026 09:29

Girls name but not a fan as I think of place first

kscarpetta · 22/04/2026 20:56

I think it's one of the few truly unisex names, like Rowan or Taylor.

LilyLemonade · 22/04/2026 20:49

I'd assume girl. I like it.

HelloCheekyCat · 22/04/2026 05:59

Clearly no Secret Lives.of.Mormon Wives fans.on here 😄
There's a.very controversial man on that show called Dakota

CeciliaMars · 22/04/2026 05:52

Girl

LivingTheDreamish · 22/04/2026 02:48

Girl, I think it's the "a" ending. Not a name I like but I suppose it is fairly gender neutral.

mathanxiety · 22/04/2026 01:51

I'd assume girl, but I wouldn't bet money on it. It would depend on the age of the person. With an older person it could go either way. I'd say younger Dakotas are mostly girls.

ArtemisNutella · 21/04/2026 23:41

To me it’s a unisex name that fits better for a boy.
My first thought is the Dakota people and then the US state.

Greenknightsuccess · 21/04/2026 23:11

I would assume girl.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 21/04/2026 21:33

Aeroplane

Xmasallergies · 21/04/2026 21:31

Girl

AnotherName2025 · 21/04/2026 21:17

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How rude.

the little girl Dakota I know is gorgeous & it isn't an ugly name.

AnotherName2025 · 21/04/2026 21:15

HotChocolateBubbleBath · 21/04/2026 17:05

I wouldn't think 'Boy or Girl?', I'd think 'North or South?'

In reality, I know one, a 30 year old man.

🤣🤣

AnotherName2025 · 21/04/2026 21:14

Ellein · 21/04/2026 16:08

Good friends of ours just named their baby Dakota. I (foolishly) assumed that the baby was a girl when I heard the name, but he's actually a boy.

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Well, they're going to get a lot of that! They'll need to say they have a son/baby boy first & then the name if they want to avoid that 🙇🏻‍♀️

hope mum & baby are both well 💕

Wynter25 · 21/04/2026 20:33

Girl

BoleynMemories13 · 21/04/2026 20:31

My only point of reference is Dakota Fanning, so I would assume girl.

PurpleNightingale · 21/04/2026 20:29

Girl. I've never heard it used for a boy. It's super cute for a girl though!

wishfulthinking25 · 21/04/2026 20:27

Girl

ToadRage · 21/04/2026 20:27

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Holdonforsummer · 21/04/2026 20:26

Girl. American girl.