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Do I tell her?

162 replies

03cg73 · 20/01/2026 17:53

i have a slight situation with a friend of mine and the name she has chosen for her little girl

my friend is French, living in London where this child will grow up. She’s 39 and this is a very much longer for baby

shes been saying since the start that she wanted a Latin name. Her partner is Spanish and they thought the Latin influence would connect them. All lovely. Very excited for them. Until this afternoon when she sent me a picture of a baby blanket she’s had personalised to reveal the name to me and the name they have chosen is Saline.

I’ve checked and it genuinely is a Latin girls name. I asked the pronunciation thinking it could be said like Celine or something. But no. Pronunciation is Saline. Like the wound wash

normally I’d just keep my mouth shut but years ago a friend of SIL (again, English was not this persons first language) named her baby Chanel, thought it looked better spelled with 2 N’s and ended up naming her poor kid Channel. No one said anything, and when it came out months later she was annoyed that no native English speakers had pointed this out at the time and has since removed the extra N

so do I tell my friend she is naming her daughter after a surgical wash? Or keep my mouth shut and hope the the kid doesn’t grow up getting the piss ripped out of her? friend absolutely loves the name and has been gushing about how perfect it is 😬

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03cg73 · 20/01/2026 18:06

Thank you. I think I’m going to gently bring it up. Might use the flora and honey thing and come at it from the angle of names that are also other things

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Magsbd · 20/01/2026 18:04

I think you should definitely tell your friend.

Mt563 · 20/01/2026 18:00

FuzzyWolf · 20/01/2026 17:59

I would say something but only the once, because it’s possible she knows and doesn’t mind.

There are plenty of names that have other meanings and it doesn’t stop people still loving them for their child eg Flora or Honey.

Yes but those have positive connotations!

Anewuser · 20/01/2026 18:00

Yes, tell her. Suggest Selene or Salina if she must use a ‘salty’ name.

Mt563 · 20/01/2026 17:59

As well as the spelling, does she know how English people will pronounce? Because she might not like that and Celine might come closer to what she is imagining

FuzzyWolf · 20/01/2026 17:59

I would say something but only the once, because it’s possible she knows and doesn’t mind.

There are plenty of names that have other meanings and it doesn’t stop people still loving them for their child eg Flora or Honey.

GKG1 · 20/01/2026 17:58

Tricky! I was ready to give the standard ‘none of your business’ baby name reply, but I do wonder if there could be a case in this instance, given she may not know the English meaning. That said, you can imagine it as quite an elegant sounding name. Maybe worth putting it like that but that you wonder if she knows she might be buying saline to spray up Saline’s nose in a few months when she gets her first cold!!

shellyleppard · 20/01/2026 17:57

I would definitely say something or the little ones in for a life time of Mickey taking

365RubyRed · 20/01/2026 17:56

Oh you have to say something. A personalised blanket isn't that expensive to replace. Better than a lifetime of teasing for the poor child.

HopingForTheBest25 · 20/01/2026 17:55

I think you should say something

ToKittyornottoKitty · 20/01/2026 17:55

If she’s a proper friend I’d let her no, if she’s more of an distant friend then no I wouldn’t

Littlefish · 20/01/2026 17:55

I think I would have to say something.

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