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Do I tell her?

162 replies

03cg73 · 20/01/2026 17:53

i have a slight situation with a friend of mine and the name she has chosen for her little girl

my friend is French, living in London where this child will grow up. She’s 39 and this is a very much longer for baby

shes been saying since the start that she wanted a Latin name. Her partner is Spanish and they thought the Latin influence would connect them. All lovely. Very excited for them. Until this afternoon when she sent me a picture of a baby blanket she’s had personalised to reveal the name to me and the name they have chosen is Saline.

I’ve checked and it genuinely is a Latin girls name. I asked the pronunciation thinking it could be said like Celine or something. But no. Pronunciation is Saline. Like the wound wash

normally I’d just keep my mouth shut but years ago a friend of SIL (again, English was not this persons first language) named her baby Chanel, thought it looked better spelled with 2 N’s and ended up naming her poor kid Channel. No one said anything, and when it came out months later she was annoyed that no native English speakers had pointed this out at the time and has since removed the extra N

so do I tell my friend she is naming her daughter after a surgical wash? Or keep my mouth shut and hope the the kid doesn’t grow up getting the piss ripped out of her? friend absolutely loves the name and has been gushing about how perfect it is 😬

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BadgernTheGarden · 22/01/2026 09:16

I don't think it's that bad, it is just salty water (like honey is just honey) and will likely be shortened to Sal as she gets older. Young children will have no idea it has a meaning other than their friends name. Apparently it might mean salt marshes or a salt works in French, so she must know the salty connection. You could point it out, but she may well be aware.

BaldMouse · 22/01/2026 09:14

@Bloozie , Saline is pronounced SAY-line in the UK.

@Goldwren1923 , Saline is salin/saline in French, salina in Spanish. Check facts before calling people ignorant.

@Hedgehogbrown , you have no idea if the pp was white or English.

@03cg73 , is the name actually written as 'Saline'? Might it be written as Selín or Selain in Spanish? Selín is celery in Spanish. Selain is except.

tara66 · 22/01/2026 09:13

Tell her she must google word 'saline' - a row of bottles for sale come up - it is salt and sterilised water and the word means 'salty'. It's a fact no need for tact!!

Imdunfer · 22/01/2026 09:04

With their heritages, they will be calling her Sal-een. I don't see the issue other than potentially a bit of bullying at school. Her French speaking parent surely will already know what it means in his own language? There are plenty of very odd names around these days!

I would, though, jokingly ask if they're going to call her Salty as a nickname, just in case they don't realise.

inickedthisname · 22/01/2026 09:03

Here in the midlands, saline is pronounced “say-leen” and means “salt solution” usually used as a medical wash… I would tell her!

LamentableShoes · 22/01/2026 08:56

Ask her if she would like to hear your opinion on the name or whether it would make her salty...

Bloozie · 22/01/2026 08:55

The French word for saline (salty) is saline.

So no, I wouldn't tell her.

(I also pronounce saline as Say-Line, not Say-Leen. Do I say it wrong?)

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 08:20

Sorry this sounds a bit patronising. You think a French speaker doesn’t know what a word Saline means?? It comes from Latin FYI and means salty in French AND in Spanish

just because for English speakers who don’t know Latin it is only associated with saline solution (which originally is salty solution) doesn’t mean she’s ignorant

maybe you are though

ShodAndShadySenators · 22/01/2026 08:19

I'd also tell her, as she intends to bring her DD up in the UK. As a sterile salty water product I'd think Sayline, as a name I automatically read it as Sayleen. But still, if she wouldn't call her child a version of Calpol in France, she might not want to call her Sterile Salty Water either. It's easier to replace a blanket than to change baby's name after they're registered.

I can't imagine her being angry enough to sever the friendship either, seems ridiculous. If I were living abroad and wanted to give my baby a name that wasn't quite quite, I'd hope that my friends would tell me! It's hardly a deadly insult, is it?

HundredsandHundreds · 22/01/2026 08:16

03cg73 · 20/01/2026 19:54

Thanks everyone. Have spoken to another friend who also received the photo and was feeling the same as me. we’ve agreed that we need to mention it.

when I asked her about pronunciation it was over WhatsApp. I asked if it was pronounced like Celine and she replied saying no, it was pronounced say-leen. Which is exactly how people round here (I’m not from London) pronounce the medical wash

But that’s how you pronounce ‘Céline’.

museumum · 22/01/2026 08:14

I would ask her about the meaning. I don’t think of would wash but I wouldn’t want a baby called “salty”. Maybe explain what salty means when applied to people.

UncannyFanny · 22/01/2026 08:10

Just explain what it means in English and leave it there. If she still goes ahead she can’t say nobody told her.

SiberFox · 22/01/2026 08:03

GirlWithTheRedScarf · 21/01/2026 21:03

If you are prepared to lose your friend, tell her. Otherwise, be happy that she’s happy and don’t rain on her parade. She will not forgive you.

Wow. Do people really never forgive a friend for delicately bringing up a (valid) concern about a baby’s name? Or is this mumsnet central “livid, crying and shaking” kind of response

EdithBond · 22/01/2026 07:47

Hedgehogbrown · 22/01/2026 02:27

I say sayleen. I'm northern.

So do I and I’m southern.

However, if I saw Saline as a name, especially if I knew the parents were French/Spanish, I’d guess it was pronounced Sa-leen. As in Salina. Or little Sal. Or cross between Sally and Janine.

WimpoleHat · 22/01/2026 07:47

Also she lives in London so the kid wouldn't have the piss ripped out of her, because it is very multicultural and being bullied for an unusual name seems very provincial and old fashioned to me

My DD goes to school in London and has an absolutely standard British name. Think Elizabeth. Some of the boys in her A level class were teasing her last week. “Were you named after the Queen?” And calling her “Your Majesty”. Lighthearted and all very silly and not what you’d describe as “bullying”. Just silliness. But it gets a bit tiresome after about 5 minutes! And yes, you can believe that if she were called Calpol or Savlon she’d get that sort of thing far more often!

PrettyPickle · 22/01/2026 07:33

In Latin saline means salt or salty hence a saline wash etc for wound treatment. For many people, the first mental image is an IV bag, not a baby. Kids can be unkind, and “saline solution,” “saltwater,” or “salty” are easy targets. Even if adults find it pretty, children often latch onto literal meanings.

Personally I would drop it into the conversation that you think the idea of uniting cultures is good, but unfortunately Saline has other connotations in the UK and she could be lining her child up for years of ribbing. Particularly as the girl gets older as saline breast implants are widely known, the association can feel awkward.

Then leave it there, its their decision.

Farticus101 · 22/01/2026 07:18

LancashireButterPie · 22/01/2026 00:50

Eh??
I'm northern, older, spent a lifetime in the NHS and I've never heard saline pronounced "SayLeen" in my life.
Don't be blaming us northerners for this 😁

Whoops, that's me pronouncing it wrong for years then! I'm in the South though.

Selene is a good suggestion for her OP?

Januaryfalls · 22/01/2026 07:18

Mt563 · 20/01/2026 17:59

As well as the spelling, does she know how English people will pronounce? Because she might not like that and Celine might come closer to what she is imagining

I would say something I would say Saline is a surgical / antiseptic rinsing aid.

There are literally hundreds of beautiful Latin names from Ava to Octavia

Mapletree1985 · 22/01/2026 07:16

Selena, the moon goddess, is a very similar and very beautiful name.

bathsmat · 22/01/2026 06:04

Also she lives in London so the kid wouldn't have the piss ripped out of her, because it is very multicultural and being bullied for an unusual name seems very provincial and old fashioned to me

It always confuses me where people on these boards live as I meet people with all sorts of names daily including foreign ones!

bathsmat · 22/01/2026 06:01

It tricky, ihad a similar situation when a friend (from china) called her newborn daughter Chlamydia

My mate went with gonorrhoea

Mummyoflittledragon · 22/01/2026 05:42

Saline is the same word in French. But I think the Doliprane suggestion to explain why the name isn’t a good idea is excellent. If she wants a name starting with S, Solène would be so much nicer.

Beenwhereyouareagain · 22/01/2026 05:32

Hedgehogbrown · 22/01/2026 02:25

Wouldn't the French say it differently? With a shorter 'a' sound? Also she lives in London so the kid wouldn't have the piss ripped out of her, because it is very multicultural and being bullied for an unusual name seems very provincial and old fashioned to me. I wouldn't tell her, you would come across as a white English prude with no world experience, which is what the parents of these bullies would be who make fun of someone for their name.

Wow! Racist much??

Laura95167 · 22/01/2026 02:58

Id tell her but in a do you in English thats a specific term for X. As thats just a fact. But if ahe decided she was still happy with her choice id keep all my opinions to myself.

IridiumSky · 22/01/2026 02:50

allthingsinmoderation · 20/01/2026 20:57

Depends how close a friend you are and what your friendship is like.
It tricky, ihad a similar situation when a friend (from china) called her newborn daughter Chlamydia.
In the end i said are you certain about your daughter name choice and do you do know Chlamydia is a sexually acquired infection ?
She didn't believe me at first and insisted it was the name of a flower.
She did change the name though...

Hilarious!

What did she change the name to? Syphilis? Like the flower. 😃 Or the song: The girl from Treponema?

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