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Do I tell her?

162 replies

03cg73 · 20/01/2026 17:53

i have a slight situation with a friend of mine and the name she has chosen for her little girl

my friend is French, living in London where this child will grow up. She’s 39 and this is a very much longer for baby

shes been saying since the start that she wanted a Latin name. Her partner is Spanish and they thought the Latin influence would connect them. All lovely. Very excited for them. Until this afternoon when she sent me a picture of a baby blanket she’s had personalised to reveal the name to me and the name they have chosen is Saline.

I’ve checked and it genuinely is a Latin girls name. I asked the pronunciation thinking it could be said like Celine or something. But no. Pronunciation is Saline. Like the wound wash

normally I’d just keep my mouth shut but years ago a friend of SIL (again, English was not this persons first language) named her baby Chanel, thought it looked better spelled with 2 N’s and ended up naming her poor kid Channel. No one said anything, and when it came out months later she was annoyed that no native English speakers had pointed this out at the time and has since removed the extra N

so do I tell my friend she is naming her daughter after a surgical wash? Or keep my mouth shut and hope the the kid doesn’t grow up getting the piss ripped out of her? friend absolutely loves the name and has been gushing about how perfect it is 😬

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OrigamiAnimal · 22/01/2026 10:29

There's also a Scottish village called Saline pronounced Sah-Lin so that's what I think of when I see it.

Whosthetabbynow · 22/01/2026 10:28

Yes tell her x

ThreeSixtyTwo · 22/01/2026 10:24

Saline just means salty, or solution of salt in water. It's being used in product names - to represent a water solution of salt.
Is it really that bad?

Sure, mention it once - but don't gossip about it with friends. And don't expect your friend to be surprised by the meaning or even change the name.

YourBrickTiger · 22/01/2026 10:22

But she's French? Shouldn't it be a case of her choice if she wants to give the child a French name?

joyava · 22/01/2026 10:21

Many years ago my French au pair confided in me that if she had a daughter in the future she’d name her Fanny. Well that was awkward conversation. Anyway roll on 20+ years and her daughter is named Sophie. Phew.

ShodAndShadySenators · 22/01/2026 10:16

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 09:33

It’s not a brand name.
and French person knows what Saline means

honestly English people sometimes make me laugh, they think they know everything better than anyone else and all other nations are idiots 😁

I'm not English, but thanks for making assumptions. And don't tell me what I think or believe about other nations, you're totally wrong.

Tbf kids have a much wider variety of names now than they did when I was at school, so on reflection I don't think they'll think anything of it. There was a child called Pirate in my child's class. The adults were mildly surprised, the children were not. They really don't care when they're very young. Secondary school age... more likely, but at that point kids will use anything to get at others if they're the bullying type.

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 22/01/2026 10:11

I think you have to tell her or her child will be teased forever. Of course she might still decide to go with the name but I think if she does they'll change the pronunciation of it pretty quickly.
Just mention it, your friend might not have even thought of that.

WimpoleHat · 22/01/2026 10:10

Thinking about it, I had a similar-ish situation with a South African friend, who was considering a name for her DD which was - about 25 years ago - very closely associated with a comedy character on a TV show. If I remember correctly, I said something along the lines of “it’s a lovely name - but just so you’re aware, some British people might think of this character”. And I googled it for her. She was (I’m pretty sure!) grateful for the heads up (as the “Channel” lady would have been, by the sound of it) and her DD is now called something else. I think I’d take the “just so you’re aware in a British context…..” approach here.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 09:58

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 22/01/2026 09:54

You've got to tell her.

Yes, it's only fair. No need to say it in a 'how stupid, what were you thinking?' way but just neutrally.

"We're calling her Saline."
"Ah, as in the salty solution used in medication and to clean contact lenses?"

"We're calling him Adolf."
"Ah, as in the former evil Nazi leader of Germany who was responsible for millions of innocent deaths?"

BaldMouse · 22/01/2026 09:56

@Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService , my name was never on the pencil cases and souvenirs. I didn't care.
A friend with a common name used to get ones but with the slightly more popular spelling. Grin

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 22/01/2026 09:54

You've got to tell her.

amusedbush · 22/01/2026 09:52

FerrisWheelsandLilacs · 22/01/2026 09:45

I would probably pronounce the IV fluid as Say-leen (in the UK), likely because of my embarrassing amount of exposure to US hospital TV shows and lack of exposure to UK hospitals in any regard.

But interestingly when I saw it written as a name I read it as Sah-leen (so closer to Celine).

Yep, I have always said say-leen so it makes complete sense if I have picked it up from American hospital dramas 😅

And same - I read it as sah-LEEN.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 09:50

But although the other kids can get pencil cases, Coke bottles and Toblerone with their names on, how cool will you be as the only one with half of your bathroom cabinet already personalised to you?! Grin

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 09:48

LeedsLoiner · 20/01/2026 18:42

I was friends with a lad who’s surname was Clark and was invited to their daughters christening.
I felt uneasy about the choice of her name but couldn’t think why until we went to “wet the baby’s head”.
In the pub toilets I was drying my hands and suddenly realised why you shouldn’t call your baby Kimberley Clark!

She must have been born some time ago, as she's now all grown up and a MN stalwart!

Coatsoff42 · 22/01/2026 09:45

Definitely tell her, if she stays in the UK it will be a source of mild amusement/confusion for everyone the poor girl meets for the rest of her life. It’s a bit of a cross to bear for the child. But mention it once, then drop it. It’s not as bad as chlamydia, or Maelena, or Rose if your surname is West.

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I would probably pronounce the IV fluid as Say-leen (in the UK), likely because of my embarrassing amount of exposure to US hospital TV shows and lack of exposure to UK hospitals in any regard.

But interestingly when I saw it written as a name I read it as Sah-leen (so closer to Celine).

BaldMouse · 22/01/2026 09:41

@Goldwren1923 , yes, I know. You are not the only French and Spanish speaker in the world.

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 09:41

BaldMouse · 22/01/2026 09:39

@Goldwren1923 , many of us here aren't English. Many of us are British, but British and English are not the same.

Whatever. Same sense of superiority

BaldMouse · 22/01/2026 09:39

@Goldwren1923 , many of us here aren't English. Many of us are British, but British and English are not the same.

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 09:37

BaldMouse · 22/01/2026 09:14

@Bloozie , Saline is pronounced SAY-line in the UK.

@Goldwren1923 , Saline is salin/saline in French, salina in Spanish. Check facts before calling people ignorant.

@Hedgehogbrown , you have no idea if the pp was white or English.

@03cg73 , is the name actually written as 'Saline'? Might it be written as Selín or Selain in Spanish? Selín is celery in Spanish. Selain is except.

I speak Spanish.
It is salino for masculine/salina for feminine, first of all, but it’s obvious to every Spanish speaker what Saline means and it comes from a word salty./salt related.

in French it’s salin for masculine and salinE for feminine. Meaning salty or salt related.
it is used in salt marshes, salty water etc.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 22/01/2026 09:35

I’d tell her if only to save her kid a lifetime of teasing whether she’s brought up in Spain or France rather than the UK. Disclaimer, I have an unusual name so got lots of teasing at school.

There are far better names like Selina, Celine etc.,

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 09:33

ShodAndShadySenators · 22/01/2026 08:19

I'd also tell her, as she intends to bring her DD up in the UK. As a sterile salty water product I'd think Sayline, as a name I automatically read it as Sayleen. But still, if she wouldn't call her child a version of Calpol in France, she might not want to call her Sterile Salty Water either. It's easier to replace a blanket than to change baby's name after they're registered.

I can't imagine her being angry enough to sever the friendship either, seems ridiculous. If I were living abroad and wanted to give my baby a name that wasn't quite quite, I'd hope that my friends would tell me! It's hardly a deadly insult, is it?

It’s not a brand name.
and French person knows what Saline means

honestly English people sometimes make me laugh, they think they know everything better than anyone else and all other nations are idiots 😁

Snakebite61 · 22/01/2026 09:31

03cg73 · 20/01/2026 17:53

i have a slight situation with a friend of mine and the name she has chosen for her little girl

my friend is French, living in London where this child will grow up. She’s 39 and this is a very much longer for baby

shes been saying since the start that she wanted a Latin name. Her partner is Spanish and they thought the Latin influence would connect them. All lovely. Very excited for them. Until this afternoon when she sent me a picture of a baby blanket she’s had personalised to reveal the name to me and the name they have chosen is Saline.

I’ve checked and it genuinely is a Latin girls name. I asked the pronunciation thinking it could be said like Celine or something. But no. Pronunciation is Saline. Like the wound wash

normally I’d just keep my mouth shut but years ago a friend of SIL (again, English was not this persons first language) named her baby Chanel, thought it looked better spelled with 2 N’s and ended up naming her poor kid Channel. No one said anything, and when it came out months later she was annoyed that no native English speakers had pointed this out at the time and has since removed the extra N

so do I tell my friend she is naming her daughter after a surgical wash? Or keep my mouth shut and hope the the kid doesn’t grow up getting the piss ripped out of her? friend absolutely loves the name and has been gushing about how perfect it is 😬

I'd definitely say something.

wishingonastar101 · 22/01/2026 09:30

I mean it's quite a pretty name... but I would tell her.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/01/2026 09:28

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 20/01/2026 18:44

But "saline" does not mean "wound wash". It means salty. In English and surely also in French - so she'll know?

You could say "some English think of that word in medical terms" and just see what she says.

And in English saline usually pronounced say-line, rather than sa-leen, which to me would be another reason for avoiding it as a name.

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