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Do I tell her?

162 replies

03cg73 · 20/01/2026 17:53

i have a slight situation with a friend of mine and the name she has chosen for her little girl

my friend is French, living in London where this child will grow up. She’s 39 and this is a very much longer for baby

shes been saying since the start that she wanted a Latin name. Her partner is Spanish and they thought the Latin influence would connect them. All lovely. Very excited for them. Until this afternoon when she sent me a picture of a baby blanket she’s had personalised to reveal the name to me and the name they have chosen is Saline.

I’ve checked and it genuinely is a Latin girls name. I asked the pronunciation thinking it could be said like Celine or something. But no. Pronunciation is Saline. Like the wound wash

normally I’d just keep my mouth shut but years ago a friend of SIL (again, English was not this persons first language) named her baby Chanel, thought it looked better spelled with 2 N’s and ended up naming her poor kid Channel. No one said anything, and when it came out months later she was annoyed that no native English speakers had pointed this out at the time and has since removed the extra N

so do I tell my friend she is naming her daughter after a surgical wash? Or keep my mouth shut and hope the the kid doesn’t grow up getting the piss ripped out of her? friend absolutely loves the name and has been gushing about how perfect it is 😬

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Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 13:29

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 13:10

What’s wrong with Daria?

It's fine in itself, but it sounds rather close to diarrhoea, especially depending on the accent.

I think it's normally pronounced as DAH-ree-uh, but it's not the best-known name; so if people aren't familiar with it, they're likely to guess that it might rhyme with the far more common Maria.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 13:25

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 13:06

It’s none of your business if someone wants to give a non British name including - gasp! - an Indian one

I'm not saying it is. I'm just saying that I would not want my child to have a name that everybody would laugh at in the culture in which they were being brought up.

Establish yourself in Italy and then freely call your new DD Pippa, if you like - so that every time she meets somebody new in her own home country, she is effectively introducing herself to everybody as "Hello, I'm blow job". She might even find that her own name is censored on her school/work intranet as obscene and all of her emails are instantly blocked. I'm just saying that most parents would care enough about their children not to do that.

Just like, if I had moved from a country with a different language, I wouldn't insist on them only speaking my own native language and not learning the language of what is now their country. Wonderful if they can become fluent in both; but they do need to be able to communicate freely in their home country.

I don't know why you specifically picked up on the Indian example rather than any of the European ones - we're obviously talking about language here, not race or skin colour, if that was where your mind was going.

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 13:10

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 13:08

To be fair, Chlamidya and Diarrhoea also sound pretty and pleasant to the ear - if you don't know what they actually mean!

In fact, I'd also avoid using Daria for that very purpose!!

What’s wrong with Daria?

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 13:09

Didimag48 · 22/01/2026 11:43

Saline also means SALTY in French. :-) Tell her this!

oh yeah tell a French person what it means in her own language
smh

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 13:08

Spirallingdownwards · 22/01/2026 11:59

Ah so it isn't pronounced like the English pronunciation of salt water at all (say-line).

Say-leen sounds much prettier. In that case I would not mention it at all.

To be fair, Chlamidya and Diarrhoea also sound pretty and pleasant to the ear - if you don't know what they actually mean!

In fact, I'd also avoid using Daria for that very purpose!!

Goldwren1923 · 22/01/2026 13:06

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 11:54

But she lives in the UK and that's where her DD will grow up. You don't move to a different country and then live there in a vacuum.

Would you think it wise if an Indian family who had moved to the UK and become long-term established here called their DS Dikshit - which is a not-uncommon Indian name?

If you lived in France, would you call your DS Peter, which means 'to fart' in French?

If you lived in Italy, would you call your DD Nicola or Andrea, and leave everybody puzzling over why she has (to them) a boy's name?

It’s none of your business if someone wants to give a non British name including - gasp! - an Indian one

YourBrickTiger · 22/01/2026 13:05

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 11:54

But she lives in the UK and that's where her DD will grow up. You don't move to a different country and then live there in a vacuum.

Would you think it wise if an Indian family who had moved to the UK and become long-term established here called their DS Dikshit - which is a not-uncommon Indian name?

If you lived in France, would you call your DS Peter, which means 'to fart' in French?

If you lived in Italy, would you call your DD Nicola or Andrea, and leave everybody puzzling over why she has (to them) a boy's name?

Dikshit?! 😅It makes Saline pale into insignificance!

LamentableShoes · 22/01/2026 12:24

Just because a name isn't English or a non English speaker gives their child a legitimate name in their culture that sounds 'funny' or 'silly' or 'like a word in your country' to you means absolutely nothing and is actually pretty racist to even think like that.

That's not true. It isn't racist to think that a name sounds like a word in a different language.
Why would thinking that Peter sounds like "fart" be racist? Which race is affected?

inmyera · 22/01/2026 12:23

in Latin it definitely won't be pronounced as saline. however, English people will read and pronounce it that way. I'd say something too

ukathleticscoach · 22/01/2026 12:22

No that would be just adding salt to the wound!

She has google its on her. Its not just mouthwash though sea water is a saline solution so you both are missing something!

Just checked and it means the same in French!

Spirallingdownwards · 22/01/2026 11:59

03cg73 · 20/01/2026 19:54

Thanks everyone. Have spoken to another friend who also received the photo and was feeling the same as me. we’ve agreed that we need to mention it.

when I asked her about pronunciation it was over WhatsApp. I asked if it was pronounced like Celine and she replied saying no, it was pronounced say-leen. Which is exactly how people round here (I’m not from London) pronounce the medical wash

Ah so it isn't pronounced like the English pronunciation of salt water at all (say-line).

Say-leen sounds much prettier. In that case I would not mention it at all.

IAmNotPrepared · 22/01/2026 11:58

Plenty of people in the UK say say-leen drip (I’m in NE England and hear it plenty). Either way the spelling is going to be an issue because of both pronunciation issues and connotations. Gently checking she understands the meaning of a chosen name within the context of the country they live in isn’t patronising. Knowing a word means “salty” in Latin languages is very different to knowing it’s an incredibly common medical product.

FindingSprites · 22/01/2026 11:57

OrigamiAnimal · 22/01/2026 10:29

There's also a Scottish village called Saline pronounced Sah-Lin so that's what I think of when I see it.

Same! my mind doesn't go to salty solution so it sounds fine as a name to me.

I probably wouldn't mention it - I'd think they are probably aware - most folk would at least do a quick search on a baby name.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 11:54

YourBrickTiger · 22/01/2026 10:22

But she's French? Shouldn't it be a case of her choice if she wants to give the child a French name?

But she lives in the UK and that's where her DD will grow up. You don't move to a different country and then live there in a vacuum.

Would you think it wise if an Indian family who had moved to the UK and become long-term established here called their DS Dikshit - which is a not-uncommon Indian name?

If you lived in France, would you call your DS Peter, which means 'to fart' in French?

If you lived in Italy, would you call your DD Nicola or Andrea, and leave everybody puzzling over why she has (to them) a boy's name?

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 22/01/2026 11:47

WimpoleHat · 22/01/2026 10:10

Thinking about it, I had a similar-ish situation with a South African friend, who was considering a name for her DD which was - about 25 years ago - very closely associated with a comedy character on a TV show. If I remember correctly, I said something along the lines of “it’s a lovely name - but just so you’re aware, some British people might think of this character”. And I googled it for her. She was (I’m pretty sure!) grateful for the heads up (as the “Channel” lady would have been, by the sound of it) and her DD is now called something else. I think I’d take the “just so you’re aware in a British context…..” approach here.

Was it Trigger? Or maybe Triggetta as a feminine version?!

Didimag48 · 22/01/2026 11:43

Saline also means SALTY in French. :-) Tell her this!

nOlives · 22/01/2026 11:38

Mt563 · 20/01/2026 18:00

Yes but those have positive connotations!

...like Marge (and Homer, obviously).

Theyikesdyke · 22/01/2026 11:29

allthingsinmoderation · 20/01/2026 20:57

Depends how close a friend you are and what your friendship is like.
It tricky, ihad a similar situation when a friend (from china) called her newborn daughter Chlamydia.
In the end i said are you certain about your daughter name choice and do you do know Chlamydia is a sexually acquired infection ?
She didn't believe me at first and insisted it was the name of a flower.
She did change the name though...

This has sent me into orbit !!! Baby chlamydia 😭😂😂😂😂😂

SqishySqashmas · 22/01/2026 11:28

I would, Celine is lovely though, very chic! Definitely not Saline.

I once heard of a Chanade (combo of Chanelle and Lemonade) instead od Sinead.

BaldMouse · 22/01/2026 11:25

@housethatbuiltme , Saline isn't a girl's name in the cultures involved, so your reply isn't relevant.

Warmlight1 · 22/01/2026 11:20

Yes definitely tell her

AltitudeCheck · 22/01/2026 11:12

Yes absolutely tell her that this is an English word that means salty water and has medical connotations to native English speakers.

housethatbuiltme · 22/01/2026 10:54

I'm firmly in the camp of mind your own business. Honestly the balls on some people.

Just because a name isn't English or a non English speaker gives their child a legitimate name in their culture that sounds 'funny' or 'silly' or 'like a word in your country' to you means absolutely nothing and is actually pretty racist to even think like that.

If I had had a penny for every person who thought to give their completely unwanted opinion on my non English name Id honestly be rich. Its luckily got better over time, the 90s where insanely racist, the 00s where a mix and by the 10s political correctness was taking off. Now I just get annoyingly interrogated as to why that name, wheres that from, where you from, where your parents from. I am English and an English speaker and my name sounds like a random word when said out loud (which people love to point out as if we are idiots that don't know, of course we know) and I frankly don't give a fuck of their opinions. No one is asking what you feel about their name so just shut up.

Saline isn't a bad word, it basically means 'salt water' and in most accents it sounds exactly like Celine/Selene sounds.

You want to talk about 'silly' theres a literal tonne of Amelia's running around right now and its straight up the medical term for a disability and means 'born without limbs'. It's completely OK though isn't it because thats popular and heavily used in England even though its an actual birth defect. It's obviously only ever a problem that needs 'correcting' if its seen as a 'foreign' name though.

KarmenPQZ · 22/01/2026 10:31

No need for the angst. Just say ‘it’s lovely given the heritage of the name. Most people in UK will be familiar with that pronunciation and spelling as a surgical wash for wounds. Just mentioning it in case you weren’t aware’ Then she’s informed and it’s up to her.

Potteryclass1 · 22/01/2026 10:31

There’s no way a Spanish guy would pronounce it like that.
in Spain it’s sah-lee-neh

I think you need to tell her English people would struggle with it and put the error on them rather than her choice of name.