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Baby name regret?

79 replies

amy480 · 10/12/2025 16:12

Recently had a baby girl (we didn’t know the gender) and I struggled to decide on a name (I’m naturally quite indecisive). I had 2 names in mind but when she was born my husband said she wasn’t either of those names which made the doubt set in. I also asked the opinions of close family and got negative feedback on the name I liked (Imogen). In the end we have gone for a popular name (Ava) which I have always liked but wasn’t a front runner until she was here. I now keep dwelling on the name Imogen and wondered if I should have pushed more?! Anyone else had this. For what it’s worth I do think Ava is a very pretty name and suitable for all ages (didn’t want anything too cutesy) I’m just concerned it is too popular and Imogen a bit more unique. Name choices are so hard and such a responsibility!!

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DinoDances · 10/12/2025 17:54

I think it's quite common to feel like this because naming a baby feels like such a big thing, and normally you've got to compromise with your partner so don't get your first choice. For what it's worth I love the name Ava and prefer it to Imogen. Maybe worth another conversation with your partner and see if they're willing to change if you want to, but don't involve family in the decision!

Imogen is still a top 100 name (number 64) so not rare, but I've not met any Ava's nor Imogen's in any baby class and I've got a 2 year old.

Mariammaom · 10/12/2025 16:43

It’s not too late to change it! Personally I prefer Imogen - classy and pretty.

Ava is nice but, along with Eva, Evie etc a little dull from overuse imo.

DaisyChain505 · 10/12/2025 16:18

They’re both beautiful names.

Sillysoggyspaniel · 10/12/2025 16:16

Luckily both names are fine 😂 I love Imogen (it's my daughter's middle name) and while Ava is pretty popular it's also a solid name. Sure she'll grow into it! You haven't saddled her with someone horrific so don't feel guilty.