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Alternatives to Iona/Ailsa/Esther/Esme

33 replies

Babanynamehelp2025 · 14/08/2025 09:18

Looking for inspiration!

My husband and I are due with our second baby soon, and are struggling with girls names. We have Scottish heritage and Iona has been our favourite for years but we might not be able to use it, as we live abroad and there are some major cultural issues with it where we live. We therefore need to find an alternative that we like as much, and are really struggling.

Names we have like but aren’t 100% sold on for various reasons are:

  • Ailsa (ideally don’t want a name beginning with A)
  • Esther (ideally don’t want a name ending “-er”)
  • Iris (feels too predictable/matchy with our son’s name)
  • Esme
  • Cassia
  • Eliza
  • Leonora

For more context

  • We are both English but with strong Scottish heritage
  • Our current son is Arthur, so we’d rather avoid names starting with an “A”
  • Our surname ends “-er” so would also rather avoid names ending in that
  • We like strong names with an established history which ideally aren’t too popular
  • We don’t want something that is too predictable or “matchy” with Arthur
  • We will likely move back to the UK at somepoint and will be based in the south east

Any suggestions? We’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this and are struggling, so any input gratefully received 🙏

P.S we’ve not 100% ruled Iona out, but it really is problematic where we live and the baby will have citizenship of this country so will likely spend a lot of time here in their lifetime, so we need a strong backup/alternative to consider

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Unexpectedlysinglemum · 15/08/2025 00:03

Flora

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 15/08/2025 00:02

Isla
skye
shona
sheena

miniaturepixieonacid · 14/08/2025 23:38

Intrigued as to what the issues with Iona could be?!

If you like Iona but can't use it, I know two Scottish women with what I assume are variants. I don't know them well and have never seen their names written down but they sound like:
1st lady - Eona (Eee-ohna)
2nd lady - Irona (Eye-rohna)

Ailsa and Iona are two of my favourite Scottish names. I also love Iris and Cassia from your list.

My other favourite Scottish names are:
Bronte, Eilidh, Isobel, Catriona and Fenella
Also, not exactly a Scottish 'name' I guess but I once met a little girl called Eriskay which I actally think it really cute. And plenty of kids are called Skye so why not!

WIth criteria of a strong name with an established history which has Scottish roots, works in England and goes with Arthur, the first thing that comes to me is Fiona.

SkaneTos · 14/08/2025 22:39

Some ideas

Beth
Kirsty
Kirsten
Grizel
Catrìona

aintnospringchicken · 14/08/2025 17:51

Eilidh

MsSmartShoes · 14/08/2025 17:09

Estee as in Lauder is quite nice as a diminutive of Esther.

Jemima - Mima is lovely.

Flora/Florence/Florrie

timoteigirl · 14/08/2025 16:52

Ailsa - depending where you live, can they say it? Understand how it is said?
Iris - how about any other flowers such as Bryony or Clover or Sorrel
Leonora - what about Rona?

BarnacleBeasley · 14/08/2025 09:20

I quite like Morven for a Scottish girl.

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