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Hate DD’s planned baby name. Is it ever ok to say that?

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Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:53

I expect the answer is to keep quiet but I fear by future grandchild will be teased mercilessly.

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SwedishEdith · 11/06/2025 22:37

sparklychair · 11/06/2025 22:12

Did Jupiter's have it off with all his moons? I know he did with Europa and Callisto - and Ganymede?

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Ganymede is a great name. I quite like Io. Didn't know anything about the name but it's quite cool. If they're not in the UK, it may not be so problematic.

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 11/06/2025 22:36

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:57

It’s hugely distinctive and identifying so I have name changed and will ask for this thread to be deleted.

its Io.

its from Greek mythology, a women who was raped by Zeus.

the child will spend her life being called “Lo” or “10” due to how it’s written.

I've actually met someone with this name! Tbh I thought the parents had made it up so that was ignorance on my behalf and once I had the initial oh that's unusual it didnt cross my mind again. It's honestly not the worst I have heard & you will gain nothing by mentioning it. Let them name their baby what they want to.

Devonshiregal · 11/06/2025 22:36

No. Never ever ever ever times a million trillion say anything. Please. I really, truly, would ask you to just keep your beak firmly shut in this one. She will never forget it. And if she doesn’t call the kid it she will always have your judgement there as a reason she didn’t use a name she loved. If she does use the name she will always have your judgement ringing in her ears and know you deep down don’t like it. Just keep quiet.

for what it’s worth I like the name. Never did any child (nor most adults) know the origins of a name, so while it’s not a nice story, it’s also really not like everyone knows it by any stretch of the imagination. Also, why is your judgement better than hers? Did you raise a child so silly she can’t Google names and come to her own conclusions? Jsut because you might not like a name doesn’t mean someone else wont

Moreteaandchocolate · 11/06/2025 22:33

Maybe Iona with Io for short?

EdisinBurgh · 11/06/2025 22:33

That’s really bad.

Hope you can find a way to change their minds.

SupposesRoses · 11/06/2025 22:33

I know a little girl called Io and she hasn’t had any of the problems you anticipate

CaptainMyCaptain · 11/06/2025 22:32

I think it's OK. They will have to write it with a bold capital I - not a straight line like this font but with serifs (?) at the top and bottom.

LifeExperience · 11/06/2025 22:32

Io is also the name of one of Jupiter's moons.

WelshDaffodil · 11/06/2025 22:31

I don't mind it. I've heard a lot worse! It makes me think of Jupiter's moon as others have said and also a verse of a Christmas carol. A later verse of Ding Dong Merrily on high I think. "And I-o I-o I-o"

Iona is a great idea, could still have Io as a nickname.

Ottersmith · 11/06/2025 22:30

They won't be bullied because of it. You are being old fashioned.

LifeExperience · 11/06/2025 22:30

Your dd gets to choose her child's name just like you got to choose her name. If you want a relationship with this child, keep your opinion to yourself.

ColinCaterpillarsNo1Fan · 11/06/2025 22:30

I'd mention it was an unusual choice baby name choice as the lady in question was raped by Zeus. Then leave it at that, no further comments or explanation required.

Tiswa · 11/06/2025 22:30

It is ee-oh isn’t it always remember as it is how the peacock came to be in Greek mythology and always remember the story. And yes Heracles was a descendent of hers. In a way it is a story of a strong woman

it is also a moon - I mean it’s like Ophelia from Hamlet isn’t it, Juliet or lots of other names that have meaning - I am named after a song.

It’s is a classic and rare name but not out there or unique or made up.

ODFOx · 11/06/2025 22:30

Io is a beautiful name. It’s lovely to say, pleasant to the ear. Why don’t you like it? Is it purely the way it looks written down unless the capital I has lines on the top and bottom?

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 11/06/2025 22:30

Ratisshortforratthew · 11/06/2025 22:01

Like one of Jupiter’s moons? I actually love it.

I suspect that’s the explanation they’ll give (and leave the whole Zeus rape thing to Granny).

SouthLondonMum22 · 11/06/2025 22:28

I like Io and I knew it was eye-oh immediately and not Lo.

I'd keep quiet, you've named your babies.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 11/06/2025 22:28

I actually like it, a lot. However maybe you could persuade her to change it to Iona, as more recognisable?

BunnyLake · 11/06/2025 22:27

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:57

It’s hugely distinctive and identifying so I have name changed and will ask for this thread to be deleted.

its Io.

its from Greek mythology, a women who was raped by Zeus.

the child will spend her life being called “Lo” or “10” due to how it’s written.

Oh dear, that is bad. 🫤

I am not the most subtle person though so if it were my dd I’d ask if they knew the story behind it and if they still kept the name I just wouldn’t say much more than Oh.

Branleuse · 11/06/2025 22:27

Thats a very cool name

aredcar · 11/06/2025 22:26

I would also suggest Iona for her. Io just seems too short to me

Craftycorvid · 11/06/2025 22:25

I was expecting something far more outlandish than Io. It’s rather pretty and unusual, I think. My own name isn’t wildly unusual but it was just not fashionable for my era - I was in an era of Debbie’s and Mandys galore.

TabbyCatInAPoolofSunshine · 11/06/2025 22:24

Lunde · 11/06/2025 22:22

Is it Io with and i rather that Lo with an L?

Because funnily enough my friend's daughter called her son Io with an i last year after the moon of Jupiter.

The moon of Jupiter is named after the princess Io.

HolidayBrochure · 11/06/2025 22:24

Re the pronunciation it’s definitely pronounced Eee-oh, I just checked. Kind of like the island Ios.

maybe tell her the correct pronunciation and she might change her mind? It’s a silly name

SapporoBaby · 11/06/2025 22:23

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:57

It’s hugely distinctive and identifying so I have name changed and will ask for this thread to be deleted.

its Io.

its from Greek mythology, a women who was raped by Zeus.

the child will spend her life being called “Lo” or “10” due to how it’s written.

Io is also the name of a moon of Jupiter. I think you’re underestimating people. And she wasn’t just raped by Zeus… Io was a Priestess, later Queen and ancestor of heroes like Perceus, Heracles, Minos and more.

It’s a beautiful, classical name.

Aimtodobetter · 11/06/2025 22:22

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:53

I expect the answer is to keep quiet but I fear by future grandchild will be teased mercilessly.

Definitely not ok to say anything even if it were awful. I also think Io is reasonably inoffensive. Unusual but still classic - yes she will have to spell for everyone but as it’s only two letters could be worse. Anyone who knows about the origins of the name to know about the rape in the original story should have enough context to understand that was pretty common in stories about the gods.