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Hate DD’s planned baby name. Is it ever ok to say that?

484 replies

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:53

I expect the answer is to keep quiet but I fear by future grandchild will be teased mercilessly.

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BlueandPinkSwan · 12/06/2025 06:14

Must admit I subconciously put an L on the end and got LOL, but then it's bland name anyway imo.

historyismything82 · 12/06/2025 06:11

Oh no. I'm sure Io was turned into a heifer. Pretty name though.

Dingalingalong · 12/06/2025 06:11

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 22:43

They have chosen it for the Greek myth not after Jupiter’s moons. DD is a classicist and intends to call any other kids after Greek mythological characters. If this has been a boy he would have been Eryx.

Also to add, my parents also chose names from Greek mythology and history for me and my 3 siblings, so maybe I'm too biased 😅

Custardcreams25 · 12/06/2025 06:11

I would say something. You need to think of your poor dgc. If my parents called me something like that I would grow up resenting them for it.

Dingalingalong · 12/06/2025 06:07

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:57

It’s hugely distinctive and identifying so I have name changed and will ask for this thread to be deleted.

its Io.

its from Greek mythology, a women who was raped by Zeus.

the child will spend her life being called “Lo” or “10” due to how it’s written.

Oh, I love it! My 1st language isn't English though, so maybe I don't see the same issue as you?
My grandparents always called me by a cute nickname (not linked to my name at all), even adult 🥰 maybe they hated my name? 🤣🤣

Edit to say: Zeus raped a lot of woman and goddesses, he is just an awful mythological figure! 😪

Wiltingasparagusfern · 12/06/2025 06:05

I am amazed that anyone thinks that Io is a bad name or that a child with that name will be teased with it. Maybe it’s my London bubble but seems fairly run of the mill to me? This isn’t the 1950s, we are a multicultural society with diverse names. I think it’s beautiful.

If your daughter is a classicist she will be well aware of the myth. So saying to her “oh, isn’t she raped by Zeus?” is just going to sound nasty. I agree with the two previous posters who say that most women in classical mythology are more than victims and that it’s kind of misogynistic to define them only that way.

Basically, keep your beak shut or it could damage your relationship.

Britneyfan · 12/06/2025 05:12

I think it’s kind of cool! But yes will probably get mistaken for “Lo” a lot when written. I wouldn’t say anything!

ChocolateGanache · 12/06/2025 04:50

Op it’s really not that bad. In fact it’s cute. Most people wouldn’t know the greek mythology.
They will think it’s short for something like Lois or Lola.

ChocolateGanache · 12/06/2025 04:48

Suggest Lois?

CuthbertStrange · 12/06/2025 04:42

Unlike most people, I find it absolutely acceptable to voice your opinion! It’s called Mum privilege. My mother voices hers and I either agree with her or disagree. No harm and we know where we both stand. Having said that, she and I tend to agree on most things :-) If you can’t speak up, what kind of relationship is it?

NJLX2021 · 12/06/2025 03:51

Mythology aside - I think it is very cute.

But then, like your daughter, I live in very diverse and international communities abroad where it wouldn't be out of place at all.

Honestly, unless it is offensive, I wouldn't say anything. the writing is a bit of a pain, but that is true for a lot of names. it is easy to say, and quite cute, so I think you will all get used to it very quickly.

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/06/2025 02:53

Maybe add another L?

pollyglot · 12/06/2025 02:41

Didn't Hera turn Io into a cow? Any issue with that? I love the name, actually, though have always pronounced it as Ee-o.

MissedItByThisMuch · 12/06/2025 02:28

TabbyCatInAPoolofSunshine · 11/06/2025 22:53

https://www.greekmythology.com/Myths/The_Myths/Zeus%27s_Lovers/Io/io.html

I really think reducing a fairly substantial mythological character to being defined as a woman Zeus raped is quite misogynistic.
An awful lot of the stories about women in Greek mythology include them being raped or kidnapped or married their brothers, but that aspect usually doesn't define the name or indeed the mythological character.

Honestly most names could be cast disparagingly if a person chose to pick a negative meaning/ look for a fictional or historical character with the name who did something bad or experienced something bad.

I agree completely with this. Rape, incest and tragic fates are rife in Greek mythology. People are suggesting all sorts of alternatives clearly with no knowledge of their stories, because most of them didn’t fare much better than Io.

I rather like Io. It’s simple and strong. But it’s none of OP’s business anyway.

SouthLondonMum22 · 12/06/2025 01:49

Topsyturvy78 · 12/06/2025 01:39

It's Lo just Lo as in how low can you go.😀😀😀

It's actually Io. eye-oh.

Topsyturvy78 · 12/06/2025 01:39

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/06/2025 01:29

Not Harris, is it? 😁

It's Lo just Lo as in how low can you go.😀😀😀

Topsyturvy78 · 12/06/2025 01:38

This is common now with grandparents. I'm never going to be a grandmother but must admit I don't like a lot of the modern names I hear of now. Then they moan nobody can pronounce it. What do they expect when they choose something just to be unusual and be the only one in the school.

But at least it's not as bad as X Æ A-12

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/06/2025 01:29

Not Harris, is it? 😁

LBFseBrom · 12/06/2025 01:29

Leda.
Have you told the parents that Leda was a rape victim? If they don't already know, they will change their minds quickly! Everyone should look up name meanings before giving one to a child. If they do know, they're bonkers. One thing is certain, she will not like Swan Lake.

StandingOvation · 12/06/2025 01:25

It’s baffling to me that Io is being mocked as "too out there” when names like Ophelia and Juliet—both tied to tragic stories—are perfectly fine. Many mythological names have uncomfortable associations, but they’re still widely accepted. Io’s myth is one of survival, transformation, and resilience, not just a victim story. She became revered as a Priestess. And is now known as a moon of Jupiter.
As for the bullying concern: children will find something to tease about no matter the name. Io is unique and strong, and it’s far more interesting than another tired, common name.

WhichWaytoHere · 12/06/2025 01:24

Can they keep the name just change the spelling? Iyo?

Thisshirtisonfire · 12/06/2025 01:03

Giggsie · 11/06/2025 21:57

It’s hugely distinctive and identifying so I have name changed and will ask for this thread to be deleted.

its Io.

its from Greek mythology, a women who was raped by Zeus.

the child will spend her life being called “Lo” or “10” due to how it’s written.

Omg my DH was set on this name for our second daughter.
After the moon of Jupiter.
I actually think it's beautiful but I was concerned.. and I like out there names.
I wouldn't worry about the Greek myth tho, most Greek names are like that. Both my DH and I have names from Greek myths that have really tragic back stories. And my name is a fairly common one.
We compromised in the end and Io is her middle name.

I do genuinely think it's a beautiful sounding name. But yes it does look like the number ten when written down.

However if your daughter loves it then she loves it. You should support her really. It's her child. And names aren't what they used to be.. you should see some of the names in my daughters class! Everyone has an unusual name now days i doubt she will get teased tbh.

Notimeforaname · 12/06/2025 01:00

Ee-I- ee- i- ohhhh. That's what the kids will be singing 😂

Notimeforaname · 12/06/2025 00:58

My friend has a parrot called Io.
Ridiculous name for a child.

MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 00:58

BooneyBeautiful · 12/06/2025 00:49

Apparently, it's often associated with input/output (I/O) in computing.

When I was expecting my DD, someone I know locally was pregnant at the same time. Her DM asked me what names we were thinking of. I told her one of the girl's names we had in mind and she told me she didn't like it at all. We ended up giving DD that name and next time I saw her she said she thought it was lovely! I was so tempted to remind her of her original comment.

I told my BFF I hated a name ,then she gave it to her first born. I never said I hated it again because it's not up to me to name him. It's not like she's going to change it because of my opinions on anyway, so why say it?