Husband and I can’t decide on second girls name - high anxiety!

Freya - not keen
Olivia - overused but nice
Phoebe - like
Amy - dated
Imogen - like but don't like the diminutives
Francesca - don't like the diminutives
Sophie - would use

I wouldn't worry too much about the middle names because they are rarely used.

Chloe and Thea go really well.

Chloe Amelia Grace…
I have to admit I prefer your husband's names to your favourites. Freya = Freja is a goddess of agriculture and fertility. Olivia is just too common so that puts me off.

Sorry didn't think of brand names / shops with Zara and Chloe, thought both are French names.

I assume you want a similar three name combo: two syllables - four syllables - one syllable?

Sophia Isabella Anne
Ava Gabriella Rose
Emma Abigail Bess
Maya Imogen Kate
Audrey Marianne Amy
Thea Francesca Maeve
Charlotte Marianne Rose
Scarlett Marianne Rose
Iris Eleanor Maud
Nora Liliana Faith
Lily Marianne Hope
Juliet Isabella Eve
Zara Victoria
Isla Emily Jane

Just as another perspective, I really don’t like Chloe and Phoebe used together because they both have the unusual “oe” letter pairing which makes me feel like the third daughter should be “Amoeba.” On their own I don’t notice that, but somehow putting the names together makes a feature of the “ oe” .

I love the names Chloe and Phoebe together.

I love Francesca. Sophie and Olivia are lovely too. Sophie Marianne Freya sounds good!

Olivia is way too popular.. I would go for Freya Amy or Francesca

I’m not sure they work so well together as they sound like the two clothing brands of those names.

Sounds a bit like a list of shops in a Mall! Chloe, Zara, Pizza Express …

so why not Zara? it would go with Chloe.

When DS was born we went with a completely different name from any on our list, and not one we had considered at the time.

My favourite is Marianne, just to be awkward!

I’d go Freya, Amy or Francesca, but that’s because the others are very very common and I prefer names that are less so.

I dislike Freya. I think it looks ugly written down and the Frrr sound isn’t pretty.

Imogen is nice

Friday is named after the goddess Freya, so see if she arrives then!

Imogen is by far the nicest from your lists. Phoebe would be my second choice.

Freya - I don’t like this name. But that’s just my taste.

Olivia - nice but a bit boring.

Phoebe - cute.

Imogen - cute and also grown up. So suits all ages. Immy - nn.

Francesca - a bit boring to my mind. like female version of Frank.

Sophie - cute. But I MUCH prefer Sophia.

Some other suggestions as requested…

Charlotte nn Charlie/Lotte/Lotta
Eloise
Clea
Leah
Camille
Ophelia
Alice
Sylvie

I don’t see what the rush is. We didn’t finally decide on DS’s name until we were actually walking to register him. It’s not as though people are going to need to address him by name — we called him by his in utero nickname for quite a while.

These are lovely names!

I love Aimee \ Amy and it's not overused.

Also:
Amber
Alice
Lara
Elsie
Mia

• go very well with Chloe (which is a beautiful name!)

Sorry for the loss of your little Grace, OP. anxiety completely understandable but remember there's no huge rush to name her, and your Oh may come round anyway once you've gave birth.

One of my favourite shortlists on here ever! Not much help - but other than Amy and Olivia they were all on my girls" list. Marianne was also my preferred middle name.

I vote Freya Marianne Phoebe or Freya Marianne Sophie.

Do you like Daphne?
I really like Phoebe too, and Freya from your list.
Or would you consider Rose as a first name? Rose Marianne Olivia is nice.
I also thought Libby, Lydia or Ivy as similar sounding to Olivia/Liv

Chloe Amelia Grace and sister ..

Freya Marianne Yourname.
Phoebe Marianne Yourname

I would stick to the F sound and if your husband's surname is being given to your children, I would hope that the first name be your choice. His grandmother is Marianne too.
Other ideas..

Felicity Marianne
Fiadh Marianne

I love Francesca! It’s not heavily used but very classic.

I also really like Sophie, though Chloe and Sophie or Chloe and Amy or Chloe and Phoebe sound a bit heavy on the ie/y sound at the end when used together I think.

I’m not a fan of Imogen or Amy. Amy always sounds whiny to me : Aaaaaiiimeeee

I think of these names Francesca and Olivia work best.

What about Scarlett or Eleanor? Similar enough style to Chloe but a different sound which is helpful when referring to them.

My favourite is Amy Marianne. And I would probably include Grace as a third name to keep the link. Chloe and Amy sound good.

Some suggestions.

Maisie
Naomi
Darcy
Lucy
Millie
Jessica

You may find when you meet her the right name appears, one that you’d previously discarded or one you hadn’t even thought of.