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How would you pronounce this name Kaelan or Kaylan

187 replies

Twicemummytobe · 19/02/2025 22:55

We have finally found the name we are wanting to call our son.

I love the spelling “Kaelan” pronounced “Kay- Lan” but I am worried people would call him “KEE-LAN”

or do we have to make it obvious for people and spell it out as “Kaylan”

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marshmallowfinder · 20/02/2025 12:34

It reminds me of the medical treatment kaolin, so I'd avoid. (It sounds like a chav name.)

Emanwenym · 20/02/2025 12:17

I'd think 'why have they put their title on it?'

Some people use their middle names some don't.
I just put short form of 1st name and surname- something like Abi Smith not The Hon. Abigail Camilla Honoria Wenym-Smith.

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 12:12

Emanwenym · 20/02/2025 12:09

@Needmorelego , I just put my name. Their lookout if they assume that Eman Wenym is a bloke.

If someone put their title, I'd think they were newlywed.

What if their title was Miss, Ms, Dr or Mr? Would you think they're newlywed?
Ok.... forget the title thing. Do people really put their full middle names on a CV?

Emanwenym · 20/02/2025 12:09

@Needmorelego , I just put my name. Their lookout if they assume that Eman Wenym is a bloke.

If someone put their title, I'd think they were newlywed.

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 12:08

Acc0untant · 20/02/2025 12:05

I expect most people put their full name on a CV. I wouldn't, however, expect to see Mrs.

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I have never put my full name on a CV or job application.
Surely middle names only need to be known when it comes to filling out the official paperwork for the contract/wages etc.
First Name. Surname. (and I don't have a problem with my title).

Acc0untant · 20/02/2025 12:05

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 12:00

Who puts their complete full name on their CV?
I'd probably just put my name as "Mrs Princess Surname".

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I expect most people put their full name on a CV. I wouldn't, however, expect to see Mrs.

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 12:03

@Emanwenym Mrs is my title.
I like being called Mrs.

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 12:03

Emanwenym · 20/02/2025 12:01

@Needmorelego , If I told you I play Scrabble would you get it?

Tile Array.

Why would you put Mrs?

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Nope..... don't get that I'm afraid.
If it's a joke.... it's lost on me 🙂

Emanwenym · 20/02/2025 12:01

@Needmorelego , If I told you I play Scrabble would you get it?

Tile Array.

Why would you put Mrs?

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 12:00

berksandbeyond · 20/02/2025 11:13

My child has a classic name which will suit if she wants to be an artist, an astronaut or a barrister. I felt it was my duty to set her up with a name that wouldn't be judged or mark her as chavvy. Change your name on your CV to Princess Beautiful Diamanté Jayden Kayden Brayden Okayden and see if you still get called for interviews...

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Who puts their complete full name on their CV?
I'd probably just put my name as "Mrs Princess Surname".

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 11:57

@Emanwenym and to be honest the other names you listed (Courtney etc) are just fairly regular normal names.
I can't imagine I'd think much. Maybe wonder if they are male or female but I have a unisex name so I have had that my whole life.

sashh · 20/02/2025 11:56

Marcipix · 20/02/2025 11:15

Lindsay- a lovely classic girl’s name.
Rowan- ditto. Always blonde.
Courtney- unisex imo.

I prefer Caelan to Kaelan. It’s quite popular now.

Or name of the male speaker of the house.
Rowan - Atkinson and Williams are both male.

OP

I know it is snobbery but as an ex teacher, when you see certain names on a register you do think of other children with that name you have taught.

Yes it is wrong, but it is also human nature.

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 11:55

@Emanwenym the only thing I might maybe think if I hear the names Tyla-Rae and Jaxxon would be to double check if Tyla-Rae is definitely double barrelled or does she prefer just Tyla and whether Jaxxon spells it that way or as Jackson.
Beyond that....I wouldn't think anything much.
That's just their names.
Of the other names listed the only one I would have "issue" with is Scheherazade because I am not sure how to pronounce it. Of course I would just ask them how to say the name?

Toolateforamovie · 20/02/2025 11:53

Twicemummytobe · 20/02/2025 07:44

I’ve looked online as caelan is the Scottish version?

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It’s Irish and Scottish both. Cáel is an older spelling, caol is the modern spelling. It means slender, narrow.

Emanwenym · 20/02/2025 11:43

@Needmorelego , all the names apart from Scheherazade are unisex.
Ali could be Ali, Alison, Alistair etc. Courtney might be a man of Caribbean heritage, Kim could be a Korean (male or female, and it would be a case of a surname being read erroneously as a first name) or a Scandinavian man etc.

How many of those names made you think they'd be women? Which ones were 25ish, 35ish, 45ihs, 55ish, 65ish?

Did you really not judge my DC's names?

maximalistmaximus · 20/02/2025 11:41

It's much better spelled

Caelan and pr Kay-lin

IHate · 20/02/2025 11:23

Emanwenym · 20/02/2025 11:10

@Needmorelego If you see a name, you will probably have an impression of what the person will be like. Some names are neutral and you won't have any preconceptions.
If you were told that you had 3 new colleagues and they were called Lindsay, Courtney and Rowan, what would you expect them to be like?
What if they were Ali, Scheherazade or Kim?

My little darlings are Tyla-Rae and Jaxxon.

Interestingly, I’d consider all those colleague names apart from Scheherazade to be pretty neutral.

Although, I suppose if ‘Ali’ was a man, I’d expect him to be Asian and if they were a woman, I’d assume it was short for ‘Alison’ or similar. So, yes, there’d be some preconceptions in that sense, you’re right.

Tyla-Rae! 🤣

Marcipix · 20/02/2025 11:15

Lindsay- a lovely classic girl’s name.
Rowan- ditto. Always blonde.
Courtney- unisex imo.

I prefer Caelan to Kaelan. It’s quite popular now.

berksandbeyond · 20/02/2025 11:13

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 10:36

I would love to know what superior names the children of some of those on this thread are 😂

My child has a classic name which will suit if she wants to be an artist, an astronaut or a barrister. I felt it was my duty to set her up with a name that wouldn't be judged or mark her as chavvy. Change your name on your CV to Princess Beautiful Diamanté Jayden Kayden Brayden Okayden and see if you still get called for interviews...

Chuchoter · 20/02/2025 11:11

IHate · 19/02/2025 23:58

I never say this, but please don’t. ‘Kay’ anything is an instant class marker, and bit in a good way. Unless you’re aiming to raise a Love Island contestant or similar, just don’t.

It’s also just a really ugly name. Sorry.

Exactly this.

Emanwenym · 20/02/2025 11:10

@Needmorelego If you see a name, you will probably have an impression of what the person will be like. Some names are neutral and you won't have any preconceptions.
If you were told that you had 3 new colleagues and they were called Lindsay, Courtney and Rowan, what would you expect them to be like?
What if they were Ali, Scheherazade or Kim?

My little darlings are Tyla-Rae and Jaxxon.

berksandbeyond · 20/02/2025 10:46

I'd pronounce it Kay-lan and judge you for saddling some poor child with it

spiderlight · 20/02/2025 10:38

I know a Caelan, pronounced 'KAY-lan', and he doesn't seem to have too many problems with people mispronouncing it.

Needmorelego · 20/02/2025 10:36

I would love to know what superior names the children of some of those on this thread are 😂

Mittens67 · 20/02/2025 10:27

I would honestly suggest you think again. Names like these cause much ridicule.