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Middle name for Sonny?

81 replies

TTC1990 · 07/12/2024 23:52

Hello all, everyone has been so helpful I thought I would ask opinions on another name. Originally we had decided on Benjamin (nn Benji) but now considering Sonny. Which does everyone prefer? I love Sonny but not sure if it’s a bit nicknamey?

We have also considered ‘Kit’ as a middle name, but open to suggestions. I personally like one syllable names for middle names…

Boys names are so hard!!!

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YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 10/12/2024 08:48

The only Sunny / Sonny I knew was always called 'Sun' and it was his nickname, gained in his youth, as his approach to life was so good (he lost his entire family overnight during the war, when he went to stay with a friend). Sonny means 'son' and others have already mentioned this, but I often heard boys called 'Sunny Jim' when names were not known, in London .

Anglo-Saxon in origin, Sonny is a boy's name that means, perhaps unsurprisingly, “son.” Sonny originated as a nickname, whether to refer to a boy child or as a diminutive of names such as Salvatore, Santino, or even Emerson

SaveMeFromMyBoobs · 10/12/2024 08:37

I know 2 sonny's- one short for Santo (spanish) and other Santiago (central american).

Personally I prefer Benjamin - can be benji/benny/ben/Benjamin according to age and formality of situation. If you were going Sonny's I'd find a name ending in 'son' like Benson, Jenson, Wilson and have sonny as nickname.

thisisme11 · 10/12/2024 08:30

I have a Sonny age 11 middle name Jude and it suits him and his personality beautifully

wellingtonsandwaffles · 10/12/2024 08:23

Sonny is a cute baby nickname but not great for an adult

How about using it or something similar that has a longer full name you'd put on the BC

Sonny - Mason / Harrison / Grayson / Samson / Emerson / Jenson

Sully - Sullivan
Solly - Solomon

Daisybuttercup12345 · 10/12/2024 00:11

Jostuki · 08/12/2024 04:07

Think of your child as an adult in later life who may find success in the corporate world and they are saddled with the name Sonny.

This. Sonny can always be a nickname. Benjamin is far better.

Daisy12Maisie · 10/12/2024 00:05

Sonny is not a good name for an adult. It makes me think of Sonny Jim. It's a pet name not a proper name.
There are loads of really nice boys names out there. Is there nothing other than Sonny you could compromise on?
Ben is a nice name.

user1492757084 · 09/12/2024 23:25

Sonny is a nick name for anyone's son.
It is an infantile nick name that always refers to the child as the son of, smaller than version of the adult.

You could name your child Kit Benjamin or Benjamin Kit and use Sonny for an occasional nick name.
Nick names ..

Sonny Ben
Sonny Boy
Benjiboy
Benson
Sonny
Benny
Benno
Kitboy
Kiddo
Benk
Ben
KB
BK
B

twentysevendresses · 09/12/2024 20:17

@Dearover yeah that could work 👌🏻

Calliopespa · 09/12/2024 19:18

VacuumPacked · 08/12/2024 15:26

or Sonny Day

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Yes it’s a step too far…

Dearover · 09/12/2024 19:16

twentysevendresses · 09/12/2024 18:53

It might be cute as a nickname on a 3 year old. Not so cute as an actual name on a 38 year old lawyer 😳

Now if he becomes a meteorologist...

twentysevendresses · 09/12/2024 18:53

It might be cute as a nickname on a 3 year old. Not so cute as an actual name on a 38 year old lawyer 😳

BoleynMemories13 · 09/12/2024 06:31

JC03745 · 08/12/2024 10:16

Hadn’t thought about it being miss pronounced so that’s also something to consider!

Well, its spelt Sonny, so my brain automatically reads it as Ronny with an S. I then have to think, ahh, it might be Sunny.

The child I went to school with who pronounced it like Ronny with an S was either Sth Asian or from the Middle East.

Son and Sun are pronounced the same in English, so obviously Sonny and Sunny are too. You could just as equally say Sunny is pronounced as Sonny. They're the same pronunciation. OP hasn't stated that they're South Korean, so unless stated otherwise I would automatically assume the 'uh' pronunciation as that's how it's said in English.

OP - Sonny is a term for a young boy. I always want to add 'Jim' on the end. I really don't understand the sudden spike in popularity of this name. Your young boy will grow up and it won't age well. Definitely go for the classic Benjamin.

TizerorFizz · 08/12/2024 16:09

@Spirallingdownwards Well yes. So that’s why it’s not a great name. It’s a nickname. I just thought posters might have heard of James Callaghan as opposed to Sonny Liston or Sonny Rollins.

Spirallingdownwards · 08/12/2024 15:42

TizerorFizz · 08/12/2024 00:10

Sonny Ben was my budgie! It’s also Sonny at Tottenham. Feels like a nickname to me.

Sunny Jim was the name given to James Callaghan.

Sonny Jim is a well used phrase well before it was used for Jim Callaghan.

VacuumPacked · 08/12/2024 15:30

TizerorFizz · 08/12/2024 00:10

Sonny Ben was my budgie! It’s also Sonny at Tottenham. Feels like a nickname to me.

Sunny Jim was the name given to James Callaghan.

and Minnie Cauldwell’s lodger in Coronation Street (yeeaarrrs ago)

SuffolkBargeWoman · 08/12/2024 15:29

Sonny is the short form of Santino.
If I met a Sonny I would assume at least one parent was Italian.

VacuumPacked · 08/12/2024 15:26

EmpressaurusKitty · 08/12/2024 06:27

Sonny Ray sounds awfully close to sunray.

or Sonny Day

Riverswims · 08/12/2024 15:13

Bill

Calliopespa · 08/12/2024 12:45

Sandwichgen · 08/12/2024 04:42

You could call him Harrison or Benson I suppose, with Sonny as a nickname. He could default to the more formal version, or Harry/Ben if he chose, later

Actually I think Sonny works as short for Harrison, and it’s quite a good idea to leverage it into something with possibly more staying power.

Benson, however, is forever Benson and Hedges .

JC03745 · 08/12/2024 10:16

Hadn’t thought about it being miss pronounced so that’s also something to consider!

Well, its spelt Sonny, so my brain automatically reads it as Ronny with an S. I then have to think, ahh, it might be Sunny.

The child I went to school with who pronounced it like Ronny with an S was either Sth Asian or from the Middle East.

Potentiallyplausible · 08/12/2024 09:41

Please give him a proper name, which Sonny isn’t.

BettyBardMacDonald · 08/12/2024 09:40

Rainbow321 · 08/12/2024 08:46

It's a great name for a young child , but think ahead to who he may become . You might have a future head of a company , bank manager , politician , university head , or he might grow up very straight laced & nerdy .
He might be turned down for interviews at high brow places because they don't think it would suit their ethos .

Exactly this. Don't hobble him from birth with a diminutive, juvenile name.

Firsttimebabymummy · 08/12/2024 09:32

NuffSaidSam · 07/12/2024 23:59

Benjamin is much, much nicer and more versatile. Sonny is cute on a little boy, but being a grown man called Sonny isn't ideal.

I'd go for Benjamin Sonny Surname or Benjamin Kit Surname and just call him Sonny as nn.

This

MouldyCandy · 08/12/2024 08:49

Andcher.

Rainbow321 · 08/12/2024 08:46

It's a great name for a young child , but think ahead to who he may become . You might have a future head of a company , bank manager , politician , university head , or he might grow up very straight laced & nerdy .
He might be turned down for interviews at high brow places because they don't think it would suit their ethos .