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Wavering on our boys name!

36 replies

Flopsy145 · 06/07/2024 22:03

I'm almost 39 weeks so getting close now and for months we've been set on Eddie. Everyone, DH, DD etc are all quite set and have been referring to him as Eddie. I do still love it but I'm having second thoughts as I don't feel 100% like I did with my DD.
Other names I'm thinking about are Archie and Alfie, I'm a fan of the ie/y names and our last name is Smith so very common. My DDs name is not common so I like it with Smith, but I don't know if that's why I'm wavering on Eddie.
I also dislike the nn's for Eddie and some family members have already referred to him Ted or Teddy or Ed and that bothers me 😂
Any advice? ❤️

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MillyMollyMandy01 · 11/07/2024 23:35

Edmund would be less common and less likely to be shortened to Ted/Teddy.
But with Smith surname, how about something more unusual : Kenny (Kenneth), Perry, Benny (Benjamin), Bernie (Bernard), Ralphy (Ralph), Raffy (Raphael), Lenny (Leonard).

HcbSS · 08/07/2024 15:25

Flopsy145 · 06/07/2024 22:36

Should have said he'll be Edward on BC for sure! And just known as Eddie! Thank you all for the reassurance ❤️
@greenblueredyellowviolet my DH is a bit of a traditionalist so trying to find an uncommon yet classic name is a tricky thing 😅 I loved Rowan at first but that was vetoed.

Edward is a brilliant, noble name.

user1492757084 · 08/07/2024 15:23

Edward Smith is the most handsome.
Others ..
Rupert - Rue
Edmund - Eddie
Bertrand - Bertie
Montagu - Monty
Charles - Charley

ATribeCalledQuestion · 08/07/2024 07:32

I love the name Eddie! I would imagine that it will get shortened to Ed eventually by his peers, but Ed is a good classic nickname. I like Edmund as the BC name (Edward is a great name too - I like the nn Woody)

Stick with Eddie, it's a great name

Flopsy145 · 08/07/2024 07:23

Frankley · 07/07/2024 22:58

Edward is lovely. But l have Smith relatives. I would give him a more unusual second name, is your maiden name suitable?

Mine is only slightly less common, I've doubled my surname but my DH is still just Smith. Annoyingly his mum has a lovely, Celtic maiden name that two of his siblings have and I'd love it if he did too 😂 but his bloody dad said no to that.

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alwaysscared · 07/07/2024 23:46

Albie
Buddy
Barney

TheCultureHusks · 07/07/2024 23:44

Much much prefer Eddie to the others!

Ned would be my favourite shortening.

Have to say though I’d go for something less common with Smith.

doriangrey604726 · 07/07/2024 23:40

Barnaby would be a good -ie sounding name that is uncommon but also classic.

Frankley · 07/07/2024 22:58

Edward is lovely. But l have Smith relatives. I would give him a more unusual second name, is your maiden name suitable?

Flopsy145 · 07/07/2024 22:27

Thank you all feeling a vitore reassured now ❤️ will be sure to report back when he's born and let you all know what we went with!

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StormingNorman · 07/07/2024 20:49

Christopher
Thibauld
Frederick
Roderick
Wilfred
Timothy
Edwin
Felix

All classic and unusual with super cute nicknames.

Ivycott90 · 07/07/2024 20:47

Eddie Smith is absolutely lovely

Springwatch123 · 07/07/2024 20:45

Edwin instead of Edward?

Longdarkcloud · 07/07/2024 20:35

I think Edmund is more classic than Edward, somehow, and less common.
There are too many Alfie’s and Archie’s and must be several thousand with the surname Smith.

ilconformista · 07/07/2024 20:26

I love the name Edward.

shoopshoopdedoo · 07/07/2024 20:24

I love Edward, Eddie and Ed! Much prefer it to all your other choices too, so I’d definitely stick with it!

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 07/07/2024 20:05

Edward Smith is super classic and very timeless sounding (even though I was put off Edward for my own DS because I don’t like the nn Eddie 🤣).

My ideas for less common but classic names - Owen (if you like Rowan) or Evan or something longer like Nathaniel or Maximilian (I think with a surname like Smith you could get away with a longer first name).

Pemba · 07/07/2024 11:10

Edmund instead of Edward? More unusual and you can still get Eddie from it (much nicer than Teddy imo). For some reason Edmund gives me a vibe of knights in armour.

Or there's Edwin but that seems quite old mannish to me still (my late grandfather's middle name, and his mother thought it was old fashioned at the time apparently, she'd sent her husband to get the birth certificate and he was supposed to put Edward!).

BoleynMemories13 · 07/07/2024 08:59

Glad you're going for Edward, nn Eddie, to give him more options. However, if you don't like those options I would definitely reconsider as Ed is inevitable one day. He might not want to be Eddie forever.

Not sure why some people are saying Alfie and Archie are dated. They're both still incredibly popular. To me, dated means hardly anyone is using it anymore and therefore it's now more associated with the era it was more popular. They're both still very popular (especially Archie).

I get what people are saying about choosing something more unusual if your surname is Smith, but there's also something to be said for a popular combination. Great for internet anonymity when he's older. An Edward or Ed Smith Google search definitely won't bring up anything that is obviously him straight away. A 'unique' first name doesn't offer the same level of protection.

Other suggestions which give 'ie/y' nicknames, which you seem drawn to, and other options for when he's older:-

Thomas (could be Tommy, Tom when older)
Matthew (could be Matty, Matt when older)
Henry (gives an ee ending as a full name and gives the option of Harry for less formal)
Samuel (could be Sammy, Sam when older)
William (could be Billy, or Bill or Will when older)
Robert (could be Robbie or Bobby, Rob or Bob when older)
James (could be Jamie or Jimmy, maybe Jay or Jim when older)
Joseph (could be Joey, Joe when older)

urbanbuddha · 07/07/2024 05:09

I like Ned as a nn for Edward. Eddie is fine as well.

Firsttimebabymummy · 07/07/2024 04:55

Eddie is lovely and I much prefer over Archie and Alfie!

JackieO22 · 06/07/2024 22:47

Freddie - same as Eddie with the 'ie' ending as you like that

SkaneTos · 06/07/2024 22:46

Edward "Eddie" Smith is a great name.

AliceMcK · 06/07/2024 22:42

Love Edward/Eddie. Just correct people, no not Ted or Teddy, it’s either Edward or Eddie, or any other name you don’t mind. one of my DGFs was Edward, he occasionally went as Eddie but mainly Ned, especially after my DUncle was born, he was also Edward but went by Eddie.

I’ve never let anyone alter my DDs names, it’s what a gave them and that’s that. If they choose something different as they get older that’s up to them.

YourWinter · 06/07/2024 22:42

Edward, nn Eddie. Don’t put Eddie on the birth certificate.

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