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Everyone hates my baby names!

139 replies

DinoNuggetsRUs · 03/05/2024 15:26

I'm really struggling to find a name for our baby boy that my partner also likes. I steamrolled him with it last time as I found all his suggestions ridiculous and our first son is called Max, much to his disdain.

There are two names we both agree on, not my favourites but I really want one we've both chosen this time:

Sonny & Reid

I've googled these, looked at mumsnet and Reddit and it seems everyone thinks they're awful names.

Names I like which husband has said absolutely not to:

Samson (a compromise on Sonny, use Sonny as a nickname and have this on bc so he can go by Sam when he's older if he finds Sonny childish)
Luca
Rory
Charlie

Husband leans towards more American names which I'm not massively a fan of.

Any suggestions? Are the ones we agree on really that awful? Idek I'm getting so stressed with it as I'm feeling like a lot of his suggestions are just ridiculous.

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Myglassishalffullish · 03/05/2024 23:27

Jimbob …. the US name Jimberly never got🤪

PieFaces · 03/05/2024 23:23

Rowan and Max are great together

Austin and Max are also great together

I prefer Otis and Remy

PieFaces · 03/05/2024 23:18

I adore Rory.

Samuel with Sammy as nick name

Runnerinthenight · 03/05/2024 23:14

RedToothBrush · 03/05/2024 22:25

OP MN and Reddit will always tell you to go really safe.

That's fine but that can also be dull.

Your husband's list is out there. It's not going to go well. Personally I like Maverick but only as a second name - it's a Dad's embarrassing choice like Danger or Ace but I think it's kinda fun and second names are almost there to be embarrassing. Better to be embarrassed by Maverick rather than Norman or Roger though!

I think Samson is nice. It's different without being too out there either. In person no one is going to give you grief for it and it has a sensible short version anyway.

Of your husband's choices Austin isn't bad either. It's more on trend than many think. It's not too popular either.

Your husband needs sending to a western set though. And preferably shot for the rest of his choices!

But yes, pick something you really love - don't settle for something the internet thinks is safe. You'll regret it. But equally, don't pick something that's really out there to the point of stupidity.

The trick is to pick something

  1. on trend but not too popular or too try hard. Don't go top 20 or something trying to fit the trend too hard.
  2. something familiar enough without leaving someone going wtf.
  3. something that doesn't scream 'I've copied this from a celeb'
  4. And preferably something easy to spell / doesn't have multiple spellings.

Reid for example fails the last test. That's why I'd avoid that.
American style names are on trend but if you are sounding like a western you've generally gone too far.

There's a reason for being told to go safe.. Look at the names celebs have called their children! And Zowie Bowie changed his name to the pedestrian Duncan! A sleb may pull it off, because they are a sleb, whereas Joe Public probably can't!

There are plenty of nice names that aren't 'out there'. My sibling taught a Destiny - wonder how she will feel when she's 25? or 65?! Oh and a Sapphire. Some names just don't age well! I prefer more classic, timeless names. I am not a huge fan of my own name because it really, really dates me!

@DinoNuggetsRUs imagine how DS2 will feel when he's older if you call him Maverick and his sibling Max has a much nicer, more 'normal' name!? Do you think he will thank you for it?!

Waffleson · 03/05/2024 23:10

I really hate Sonny, sorry, I can't imagine a teen or an adult with that name. Reid is not great and will be misspelt.

Of your DHs other names, I like Austin. I like pretty much all your suggestions.

bipbopdo · 03/05/2024 23:09

DinoNuggetsRUs · 03/05/2024 17:31

This is making me reconsider Robin - I did like it at the time but didn't like the nickname Rob, but think Bobby is quite cute.

What we thinking all? Robin? I want this over and done with Grin

Robin is a lovely name!! Classic, but still unusual. I know a couple of men called Robin and it really suits them.

I’ve never met any female Robin’s with an ‘I’. They’ve usually spelt it with a ‘Y’, if that makes any difference

EnglishBluebell · 03/05/2024 23:06

I know a boy called Blane?

NotCute · 03/05/2024 22:59

Gene?

MotherofPearl · 03/05/2024 22:51

Robin is a lovely boy's name OP. Go for it!

Bbq1 · 03/05/2024 22:26

Carson is an American name.

RedToothBrush · 03/05/2024 22:25

OP MN and Reddit will always tell you to go really safe.

That's fine but that can also be dull.

Your husband's list is out there. It's not going to go well. Personally I like Maverick but only as a second name - it's a Dad's embarrassing choice like Danger or Ace but I think it's kinda fun and second names are almost there to be embarrassing. Better to be embarrassed by Maverick rather than Norman or Roger though!

I think Samson is nice. It's different without being too out there either. In person no one is going to give you grief for it and it has a sensible short version anyway.

Of your husband's choices Austin isn't bad either. It's more on trend than many think. It's not too popular either.

Your husband needs sending to a western set though. And preferably shot for the rest of his choices!

But yes, pick something you really love - don't settle for something the internet thinks is safe. You'll regret it. But equally, don't pick something that's really out there to the point of stupidity.

The trick is to pick something

  1. on trend but not too popular or too try hard. Don't go top 20 or something trying to fit the trend too hard.
  2. something familiar enough without leaving someone going wtf.
  3. something that doesn't scream 'I've copied this from a celeb'
  4. And preferably something easy to spell / doesn't have multiple spellings.

Reid for example fails the last test. That's why I'd avoid that.
American style names are on trend but if you are sounding like a western you've generally gone too far.

NonBinaryBlanket · 03/05/2024 22:19

I like Austin. Since you chose the name last time, it’s only fair that your DH gets to choose this time.

rickandmorts · 03/05/2024 22:10

I honestly wouldn't worry what people on the internet say about names. I searched my name on here and saw comments saying people with my name would be constantly bullied and it would invoke ridicule. In reality I haven't been bullied and have people telling me it's a lovely name 🤣 for what it's worth I love the name Sonny!

Loub55 · 03/05/2024 21:53

I'd go with one of his original choices for your first, River or Robin.

Both nice names, I know of lovely boys called both.

Also they both go well with Max!

AliceMcK · 03/05/2024 21:46

Austin. - don’t see as American at all, very nice name.
Maverick - god no
Wyatt - hhhhmmm
Jenson - a rough child’s name where I live
Bryson - yep American
Junior - only if given name is same as dads
Colson - looks made up.

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Any of those would do and not in fashion at present so unusual

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FlutteryButterfly · 03/05/2024 21:21

I'm going to throw in- Quinn

Runnerinthenight · 03/05/2024 21:16

MerryChristmasToYou · 03/05/2024 21:14

@Runnerinthenight , what's wrong with Wilhelmina? I know one and everyone calls her Billie.

It's an old lady name to me, and I don't like Billie!

MerryChristmasToYou · 03/05/2024 21:14

@Runnerinthenight , what's wrong with Wilhelmina? I know one and everyone calls her Billie.

Settlement22 · 03/05/2024 21:11

I won't comment on yout names as I think names should be a personal choice between the parents.
Some others that have not been mentioned that I have noticed:
Jed
Cole
Tor
Rafe
Tom
Xander
Jake

Runnerinthenight · 03/05/2024 21:01

Georgie4509 · 03/05/2024 20:40

I personally do not like American names. I love Charlie. If you chose your first son's name maybe let your husband decide this time?

Have you seen his suggestions? She can't risk that!

DH came up with a list for one of ours. I really, really wish I had kept it because I pissed myself laughing. The only one I remember was 'Wilhelmina'"!!!!!!!!!!!

DaisyDonaldDucks · 03/05/2024 21:00

Robin is great. Max and Robin. Lovely!

GreyhoundGal1 · 03/05/2024 20:55

DinoNuggetsRUs · 03/05/2024 17:31

This is making me reconsider Robin - I did like it at the time but didn't like the nickname Rob, but think Bobby is quite cute.

What we thinking all? Robin? I want this over and done with Grin

I really like Robin for a boy. Definitely the best out of all the suggestions. Number 130 for boys in England at the moment, so popular enough to be accepted and known but not common enough for there to be multiple in a year.

portaide · 03/05/2024 20:45

Sorry but yes they're awful, Sonny particularly so. Reid I could live with a huge push. What about:

Logan
Broderick (Brodie)
Luke
Cody

He sounds like he's more trying to name a dog.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 03/05/2024 20:43

Sonny and Reid are awful, sorry. I like Rory, Luca and Charlie. Love the name Max!