One or two middle names?

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SunnyStrawberry · 30/03/2024 08:31

We’re due with our little boy very soon, but we still haven’t made a decision on middle names.

We have a friend who passed away called Thomas, so we would like to honour him by using Thomas as a middle spot. However, I typically like a longer middle name (both my daughters have 4 syllable middle names) so Thomas almost doesn’t feel complete.

His first name will be Asher. I also think because Thomas is quite a common middle name, to anyone who doesn’t know why we chose it it might seem a little basic. The options are go for Asher Thomas, or go for something a little longer after Asher - such as Asher Theodore Thomas.

What are your thoughts on two middle names?

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DuchessOfSausage · 30/03/2024 14:17

Say the name in full and see if the extra name seems to add or detract.
Asher Thomas Berry is good
Asher Theodore Thomas Berry is too much

NuffSaidSam · 30/03/2024 14:15

I really don't think it matters either way.

I don't think anyone else on earth is going to give any thought to your child's middle name/s. No-one will think just Thomas is 'basic', no-one will care if he has two (apart from maybe the other kids?).

Just do whatever you want!

pilates · 30/03/2024 14:13

I normally prefer one but in your circumstances I think the two would work well.

Daffodilsarentfluffy · 30/03/2024 14:11

2 of my dc have 2 middle names. The rest have 1. Each suits their names... What is your surname initial?. Could assist your decision...

DuchessOfSausage · 30/03/2024 14:10

One is enough

Theoldwoman · 30/03/2024 13:59

I like one. Two is overdone to me.

I like Asher Thomas.

Moreteaandchocolate · 30/03/2024 08:34

Asher Theodore Thomas sounds lovely. I think two middle names are fine, and it means you can honour your friend and still give your little boy a name that fits with your family tradition of longer syllable middle names.

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