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Is Jude too popular now?

38 replies

Ab2206 · 31/01/2024 18:02

Hey ladies!

We’re expecting our first baby in the summer, and we’re keeping the sex as a surprise so need to think of both boy and girl names.

I think we have our girls name (Nancy), but our boy option is either Jude or Wilbur. I’m interested to know whether Jude is getting too popular now, as I keep hearing it more and more?

Also, opinions on Wilbur? Nickname Wilbs…. And I know the whole link to Charlottes Web, and that doesn’t bother me in the slightest 😆.

Interested to hear your thoughts!

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tiggergoesbounce · 31/01/2024 22:31

I like the name Jude. I do know a few but i don't really think that matters, having a popular name is not a bad thing.

I always get a little smile when i hear the name jude as one who we know is just lovely.

OopsieeDaisy · 31/01/2024 22:15

Nancy is lovely. Jude is nice and not overly popular near me - I don’t know a single one and I’m not aware of any at DCs nursery. Not a fan of Wilbur personally.

Amazinggrace89 · 31/01/2024 21:44

Lots of Jude’s. It’s not my cup of tea but I wouldn’t let popularity stop you if you like it. I prefer it to Wilbur

BoleynMemories13 · 31/01/2024 20:05

Well, firstly it depends on your definition of "too popular". Some will say it definitely is too popular now, others will say it isn't (especially if they're not personally bothered by popularity).

It also depends on who you know. If you personally know several young Judes it will probably seem too popular now. If you don't know any you'd probably be wondering why others may consider it too popular.

So it's hard to advise, especially as there's only official data available up until 2021 currently. Current trends would suggest it is still rising, but just how popular it officially was in 2022 and 2023 we are yet to find out. At a guess, I'd say 30 something in 2022 and maybe just outside the top 20 last year but that's pure guess work based on how often I see it mentioned on name sites like this.

As I said, it depends on how you define popular and how much popularity bothers you. Personally I much prefer Jude to Wilbur, which is quite wet. Jude is cool. It's becoming more popular for a reason.

QuiltedHippo · 31/01/2024 19:39

It went from 53rd to 40th from 2020 to 2021 (I think, my screen a bit small for the graph!) and I'd expect a similar jump this year

A lot of celebrities used it at once last year and I think that will resonate as it feels unique but not unknown, easy to spell and feels fresh - the Holy grail of baby boy names. However everyone thinks that at the same time.

I know a LOT of toddler and baby Judes, it feels like the Theo boom a couple of years before this.

But there's a reason it's liked and that shouldn't put you off if you love it

FASDE1517 · 31/01/2024 19:34

I'm in SE and it's very, very popular in my area. My sons are in four teams (with 8-10 boys) and each one has a Jude. Plus I know another 4-5. It's a gorgeous name though.
I absolutely love Wilbur and don't know any, although I know several Wilfreds.

BarbaricPeach · 31/01/2024 19:31

I think anyone who works with older children isn't very helpful unless they also spend a lot of time with babies.

Jude is very popular where I am (North West). I met six or seven at baby classes for my 2021 baby during my mat leave and in 2023 I met another half a dozen or so that were born that year.

MrsCharlieD · 31/01/2024 19:10

I have a Jude and he'll be 10 this year. When we named him I think it was about 75th on the ONS list. I know of 2 others in his school who are younger. I think if you like the name then go for it. Jude had been my boy name since I was about 8 and my dad introduced me to the Beatles so I wouldn't have cared if it was more popular. I named my second child a much less common name though as I was a bit miffed Jude was getting popular.

VoleChomper · 31/01/2024 18:42

I'm not a man but if for a moment I imagine myself to be one, I'm most confident that I'd rather be called Jude than Wilbur. Wilbur is verging on the comedic.

Nancy is great.

Strawberrycheesecake7 · 31/01/2024 18:38

I’ve only met two children called Jude and I’m a teacher so I wouldn’t say it’s too popular. I don’t like Wilbur at all sorry.

MaloneMeadow · 31/01/2024 18:38

I love Jude! Definitely not too common, and he’ll have an amazing namesake song 😉

Cant say I’m a fan of Wilbur in the slightest. It does give me instant Charlotte’s Web connotations but even apart from that I think it’s awful. Just sounds sad and dreary to me!

stardust25609 · 31/01/2024 18:37

I guess depends on your definition of too popular 🤣 We only have official data from 2021 when Jude was number 40, and unofficially looking at baby centre for 2023 looks like it's jumped to 16. Anecdotally I had a baby 2 months ago and know 3 Judes under 1 in my baby classes so it's definitely popular round me (north east London). But it might not be popular around you, so he may never meet another one as happens with loads of popular names.

I think both of them are cute so in my personal opinion I'd use the one you love the most.

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Onelife2024 · 31/01/2024 18:36

I don’t know of any Jude’s in my kids schools (they go to 3 different schools) so it hasn’t become overused around us yet.

Wilbur isn’t really to my taste, sorry, it’s a little bit too sweet old man for my taste, it sounds a bit comical to me. I like other names from that generation (like George, Arthur, Stanley) but for some reason Wilbur doesn’t work to me.

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