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Is ‘Neev’ a nice name for a baby boy

109 replies

sonta8 · 18/01/2024 11:05

Hi,

We are expecting a baby boy soon and I have been researching names. We are from India and we want to name the baby something that is derived from one of the Indian languages. And at the same time easy to pronounce for people in UK.

I love the name ‘Neev’. It’s a boys name in our culture and means foundation. But on research found that it sounds similar to the Irish girl’s name Niamh. So two questions:

  1. What do you think of the name? You think it’s easy to pronounce?
  2. Will he get bullied for a name that’s also an Irish girls name? I want to believe kids have moved forward from bullying people on gender identify and attributes in this world where people can be gender fluid. But just want to be sure that I am not creating a problem for him in school etc.
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Pepperama · 21/01/2024 08:54

Going a bit against the grain. If there’s another name you like I’d go with that because kids can be cruel and a boy with a girls name can be bullied - thinking especially in secondary school. Lots of things you can’t avoid but I’d probably not give him that name

User0311 · 21/01/2024 08:29

I love the name for a boy!

OnTheBanks · 21/01/2024 08:29

Passingthethyme · 21/01/2024 08:00

I know lots who spell it Neve

OK, maybe outside of Ireland then. I wouldn't pronounce Neve anything like Niamh.

fightingthedogforadonut · 21/01/2024 08:24

I think it's lovely. Smile

JaneAustenshandbag · 21/01/2024 08:23

It’s a lovely name. Kids don’t get teased for names much these days (teacher) and there’s a Neev at my school of Indian heritage. It’s not an issue at all - it’s a perfectly nice and normal name.

soundsys · 21/01/2024 08:13

sonta8 · 18/01/2024 11:23

Another question I had was - do kids still bully other kids with unisex names or names that sound feminine. Or they don’t anymore? Sounds a bit old school but I wonder if it still happens

In my experience in London, no.

(My daughter has a traditional female Welsh name. Her best friend's younger brother has a traditional Indian boys name. They are both shortened to the same three-letter nickname (which is also a Jewish boys name, to add to the confusion!) No-one - as far as I know - has ever said anything about this!

In short: I think in London it's fine and it's a lovely name!

Moonshine5 · 21/01/2024 08:09

No it's not particularly nice.

prescribingmum · 21/01/2024 08:07

I am South Asian heritage and live in London too - it’s absolutely fine in this area. I know two boys and one girl with the same name - I didn’t realise it was a unisex name until I met the girl. It’s a beautiful name, easy to read and impossible to pronounce wrong.

Despite being born and brought up in London, I didn’t know the name Niamh until I was an adult - it’s just what you are exposed to. Anyone seeing Neev with an Indian surname won’t blink

Passingthethyme · 21/01/2024 08:01

What about Neem?

Passingthethyme · 21/01/2024 08:00

OnTheBanks · 20/01/2024 20:33

I don't think Niamh is ever spelt Neve. And I think people will raise Neev is an Indian name and that will be that.

I know lots who spell it Neve

Passingthethyme · 21/01/2024 07:58

It's quite overused as the girls name, so I'd avoid it especially with the different spelling and that it's for a boy. But if you really like it, go for it for the same reasons, different spelling and for a boy. I'd rather have a name that is it's own and not compared to something.

Dotchange · 21/01/2024 07:57

Love it - it’s a gorgeous name.

Mintearo7 · 21/01/2024 07:50

I know an Indian girl called Neive. It will just cause confusion. I am British Indian and I would suggest Neevan to avoid confusion.

Topee · 21/01/2024 07:46

I really like it. I would worry slightly that he’ll end up at school with a Niamh and other children sniggering about him having a girls name.

EmpressaurusOfTheScathingTinsel · 21/01/2024 07:36

i mentioned it elsewhere I met a boy named Octave last week… fucking Octave!!!!

I used to have a neighbour called Octave. Lovely bloke, he was from the Caribbean islands & I think he’d be in his 70s now.

OnTheBanks · 20/01/2024 20:37

Heather37231 · 20/01/2024 20:36

Isn't that just a completely different name?

Heather37231 · 20/01/2024 20:36

OnTheBanks · 20/01/2024 20:33

I don't think Niamh is ever spelt Neve. And I think people will raise Neev is an Indian name and that will be that.

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OnTheBanks · 20/01/2024 20:33

Lochroy · 18/01/2024 11:35

The female Niamh is often also spelt Neve.

Scope for misspelling and people assuming it's a female name, but it's not a given.

I don't think Niamh is ever spelt Neve. And I think people will raise Neev is an Indian name and that will be that.

theduchessofspork · 20/01/2024 20:23

willWillSmithsmith · 18/01/2024 12:37

Star is quite common now I doubt that would raise much of an eyebrow nowadays. There’s a fabulous figure skater called Starr Andrews.

Er, I think Star would raise a lot of eyebrows, and is pretty unusual.

glasshalffull0 · 20/01/2024 17:12

I'm a teacher- I wouldn't bat an eyelid especially with it having an Indian surname too, I think its a lovely name. And I agree about it being an easy to pronounce, easy to spell name for an English person- some poor children spend their entire lives correcting people or ending up with a mispronounced name due to cultural differences

SingingSands · 19/01/2024 12:16

It's lovely. Easily pronounced, easy to spell. I'm also recalling back in the early 2000's that there was a man in my office with that name. Not sure if it was spelt the same, but I can remember the name.

Thro · 18/01/2024 23:47

Before reading this thread, I assumed from the thread title that Neev was an alternate spelling of the name Niamh.
If I had seen the name written down (even with an Indian surname) I would have assumed it was a girls name.
However, my assumptions would quickly have been corrected upon coming across an Indian boy called Neev and I wouldn’t have questioned it again.
Other than the odd assumption someone might make, I don’t think u have anything to worry about! Kids will meet your child as a boy called Neev, and won’t think anything more of it. It’s a nice name!

MrsAvocet · 18/01/2024 23:17

I think it's fine too.
Yes, you will probably get some comments about it sounding like a girl's name, as evidenced by this thread, but particularly with you living in a city where there are bound to be children from a wide range of different cultural backgrounds I wouldn't expect most people to bat an eyelid. If it was a girl's name I think more people would assume it was a misspelling of Niamh but I don't think that will be an issue for a boy, especially as you say he'll have a surname that's obviously of Indian origin. Most people will figure out it's an Indian boy's name fairly quickly!
I wouldn't worry about what other people think too much anyway. There'll always be someone who criticises your choices - too unusual, too common, too modern, too old fashioned, "out there" or boring...you can't please all of the people all of the time so best to just please yourself! B3it for what it's worth, I think it's nice.

mathanxiety · 18/01/2024 22:58

sonta8 · 18/01/2024 11:29

@Dmsandfloatydress @Tempnamechng We live in London.

He'll be fine.

I thinknjtbwill be very obvious that he isn't a Niamh.

CreepingCrone · 18/01/2024 22:53

My friend is from Mumbai, he and his wife named their son Neev and he is gorgeous. It's a lovely name, easy to spell and say. And if you like it, that's all that matters 🖤