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Political issues for not choosing a name

40 replies

TW84 · 22/11/2023 07:31

I am pregnant with a very much wanted rainbow baby. My partner and I have only ever liked one girls name (through multiple pregnancies) Nova which means ‘new’ or ‘brightest star in the sky’ … but now Im
not sure it’s appropriate to use it (the festival in Israel that was attacked was called the Nova Festival) and selfishly I’m devastated.

Am I over thinking it? Do you think I could use it and it not be connected to the atrocities at the moment and for future generation?

Would appreciate some honest opinions

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CountryStore · 22/11/2023 08:16

I always think of Vauxhall

Triptastico · 22/11/2023 08:12

It also means not going in Spanish. I assume you don't live in Spain.

user1492757084 · 22/11/2023 08:11

Use Nova. It is not disrespectful.

DisforDarkChocolate · 22/11/2023 07:51

Use the name, it's beautiful.

ThomasinaLivesHere · 22/11/2023 07:49

No issues at all. It’s not even associated with the war currently so won’t be in the future. Like others say I didn’t know that association and I’ve watched news.

KingsleyBorder · 22/11/2023 07:45

Don’t worry about it. I am following the news about the situation there quite closely but I could not have told you the festival name until I read your post.

FloofCloud · 22/11/2023 07:43

I think it's a lovely choice for many reasons. It's also a lovely sentiment if people do see it that way too IMO. I very much doubt people would put the two together anyway.
Enjoy your pregnancy and little Nova when she arrives 🤩

Ittastesvile · 22/11/2023 07:42

I think you are over thinking it. I didn't know the name of the festival, and even if I did there are plenty of babies called Nova.

YellowDots · 22/11/2023 07:42

TW84 · 22/11/2023 07:39

It’s not about me at all… it’s so much bigger than us which is why I’m mindful to not be disrespectful or flippant with it

No I know. And I probably didn't manage to express it very well.

Calling a baby in Leeds (or wherever) Nova isn't disrespectful of the war in Gaza. There isn't a connection.

And it's a lovely name.

Bharty · 22/11/2023 07:41

Unless you have a lot of Israeli friends I don't think many people would make the connection. I follow the news quite closely and wouldn't have.

Wahwoo · 22/11/2023 07:41

Do you know people personally affected? Do they mind?

If not, it’s not an issue in the slightest.

YoullCatchYourDeathInTheFog · 22/11/2023 07:40

If you're in Israel or you live in a close knit Jewish community it might be a problem. Elsewhere, no.

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TW84 · 22/11/2023 07:39

It’s not about me at all… it’s so much bigger than us which is why I’m mindful to not be disrespectful or flippant with it

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Mischance · 22/11/2023 07:38

Stick with Nova. I did not even know that the festival had that name and most others will be in the same boat.

YellowDots · 22/11/2023 07:34

It's fine. I think it's actually more 'offensive' for want of a better word to make something that's not about into something that is about you.