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Demise of the ‘chav’ name?

193 replies

stilllill · 11/11/2023 19:07

I’ve lived on the same council estate for years. When I was younger every girl was Keeley, Courtney, Charmaine, Chantelle, etc.
Boys were Tyler, Liam, Scott, Riley, Bailey, etc.
Knew 3+ of each in school, and these names generally made our class very obvious.

Now I’ve noticed that the children on my estate have completely different names.

Girls:
Iris, Francesca, Esme, Belle and Elizabeth

Boys:
Roy, Jasper, Anthony, Isaac, Jacob

I think these are really timeless, classic names!

I know MN is very middle class, but anyone else noticed this change?

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Ibizabar · 13/11/2023 17:48

stilllill · 13/11/2023 17:39

@Ibizabar No, I don’t think anyone classes themselves as that but I’m pretty sure many others would call me a chav.

Well that's kind of my point. The fact that some people would class you as a chav because you live on a CH.

ChristmasFullHouse · 13/11/2023 17:43

Ameanstreakamilewide · 13/11/2023 15:16

I thought it was purely apocryphal.

Me too, but there's one in my daughter's school...

stilllill · 13/11/2023 17:39

@Ibizabar No, I don’t think anyone classes themselves as that but I’m pretty sure many others would call me a chav.

OP posts:
Ibizabar · 13/11/2023 17:28

So you class yourself as a 'chav' then? Because you live where the 'chavs' live.

stilllill · 13/11/2023 17:23

I do find it interesting that even though many here appear unable to understand what I mean by chav, or who is meant by lower class, would recognise it instantly should someone ask them to live in my area, or ask them to send their children to a school round here Hmm

OP posts:
Ibizabar · 13/11/2023 17:02

Who are the 'lower classes'?

This thread is not interesting. It's just sneery.

Ameanstreakamilewide · 13/11/2023 15:23

I'll be damned! I've learned something today.

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 15:19

Babies called Nevaeh in England & Wales since 1996 (darkgreener.com)
Babies called Neveah in England & Wales since 1996 (darkgreener.com)
@Ameanstreakamilewide , apparently not, and some are boys.

Ameanstreakamilewide · 13/11/2023 15:16

Janedoe82 · 11/11/2023 22:12

Nevaeh still going. Heard of a new one a couple of weeks ago.

I thought it was purely apocryphal.

IDoughnutKnow · 13/11/2023 15:05

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 09:37

@IDoughnutKnow , I agree with you. Amelie, Elodie, Natalie, Ottile all sound fine in French, but don't sound very nice in UK accent.

Ammuhly, Elluhdy, Na'uh-ly, Oh-illy. Yuk

Grin

Agreed!

GasPanic · 13/11/2023 14:50

I think names have got more diverse. So it is harder to associate a particular name with a particular social standing.

To me names when through a period, maybe in the early 00s where you were getting some very definitive names that were associated with lower social classes (won't mention any to avoid annoying people). But now the lower social classes have branched out and call their kids a wider variety of different names which make it more difficult to associate a particular name with that social class.

But I think the lower classes definitely do not normally use "traditionalist" names, and there has been quite a comeback in that area of older traditionalist names into the middle class naming in recent years, so for example a load of similarly named Claires being replaced with more Phoebes, Elsa, etc etc which has increased the diversity base.

Ultimately a name is supposed to be a unique identifier. When I look back at my family history there are only about 4 male names used. So the idea of having more diversity in names I think is useful so people can actually tell who they are talking about !

Gwenhwyfar · 13/11/2023 14:23

IDoughnutKnow · 12/11/2023 22:36

This is actually quite interesting.

I was at school in the 70s and 80s (same private girls' school from 5-18), and the most common names were Sarah, Rachel, Elizabeth, Rebecca, Julia, Alexandra, Frances, Anna, Caroline, Katherine/Catherine, and Clare/Claire. Which are all pretty 'classless' names.

Alexandra sounds posh to me.

You're right that the thread is interesting, which is why I hope it won't get pulled down because some posters aren't happy with some others' posts.

Gwenhwyfar · 13/11/2023 14:19

hitmebabyonemoretime21 · 12/11/2023 13:46

This thread is giving me Katie Hopkins vibes - judgy and bitchy.

When she went on Good Morning to say you shouldn't name your child after a country, but then admitted her daughter was called India or something?

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 14:19

@theduchessofspork , they would have been LMC/WC names in my age group. I think we only had one Julia and no Alexandras.

@Gwenhwyfar , the royal family needed the monarch's approval for the names of their children. The names of royal babies tend to become more popular in that generation.
Traditionally, surnames were patronymic or occupation. James, Duncan or Allen are first names used as surnames, as opposed to Jackson, Cooper or Hunter, which are surnames used as first names

Gwenhwyfar · 13/11/2023 14:18

KirstenBlest · 12/11/2023 12:35

@floradora , lots of countries don't have a royal family but they still have a class system.

I'm not a monarchist, but I have to admit that some of the most equal societies have monarchies, eg the Scandinavian ones.

Gwenhwyfar · 13/11/2023 14:16

Tonia16 · 12/11/2023 10:56

Judging will always take place, no matter what the social class.

Judging doesn't imply sneering. Most people are more comfortable with others of their own social standing as there are common points of reference.

Names are traditionally part of the judgement process. We either consciously or unconsciously associate certain names with a corresponding social class.

So, upper class girls may be:

Helena
Miranda
Louise/Louisa (but not Eloise)
Georgina/ Georgiana

Upper class boys may be:

Rupert
Henry
James
Frederick

Just an opinion of course.

I don't see Louise and James as upper class at all.
Henry can be any class if used as Harry.

Gwenhwyfar · 13/11/2023 14:07

Bobtheamazinggingerdog · 12/11/2023 09:05

This thread is vile. Middle class sneering at people who generally have lower levels of education and opportunities than you do. Lovely.

It's possible to talk about trends in names across generations and classes without sneering and OP is talking about where she herself is from.

I do find some of the comments odd e.g. people talking of using surnames as first names when so many surnames are men's first names to begin with.

Gwenhwyfar · 13/11/2023 14:04

"This is fascinating, I presume this is what happened with Burberry for example?"

Doesn't happen with everything though, does it?
Millions of working and middle class men called George doesn't stop it being a royal name, for example.

theduchessofspork · 13/11/2023 13:54

willWillSmithsmith · 12/11/2023 22:14

Well obviously I don’t know where you were living/going to school in the 60s/70s but all the kids had those type of names where I came from. For instance I had two Angela’s in my class, one from the same council estate as me and one from the big posh houses (I still remember her coming to school with a pair of shoes I had seen and wanted but my mum couldn’t afford).

I guess it depends a bit what you mean by MC, but those would generally be typically working class (or at any rate lower middle class names) from that era in the UK as a whole. But perhaps not in specific areas.

StBrides · 13/11/2023 09:41

IDoughnutKnow · 13/11/2023 00:02

Oh dear no.

It is (or should be) Oh-tee-lee-uh.

Not Otterly Botterly or Ohtilly Bohtilly.

I don't know any Otillies but Otterly made me laugh

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 09:37

@IDoughnutKnow , I agree with you. Amelie, Elodie, Natalie, Ottile all sound fine in French, but don't sound very nice in UK accent.

Ammuhly, Elluhdy, Na'uh-ly, Oh-illy. Yuk

IDoughnutKnow · 13/11/2023 09:14

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 07:37

@IDoughnutKnow , It is (or should be) Oh-tee-lee-uh. That's the german pronunciation. The french pronounce it 'ott-e-lee'.

Very true. The French can get away with it, though, as they make it sound musical. "Otterly" is a very different matter. It's a bit like Amélie (nice name) and the British Amelie-pronounced-Ammerley (not nice).

KirstenBlest · 13/11/2023 07:37

@IDoughnutKnow , It is (or should be) Oh-tee-lee-uh. That's the german pronunciation. The french pronounce it 'ott-e-lee'.

CatamaranViper · 13/11/2023 07:22

Another Geordie over here and the charvas we used to have in the 90s/00s were called so mainly because of how they acted.
It was a complete disregard for any rules (both written and in written). So blasting music from their phones at the back of buses with their feet on the seats and taking up about 4 of them.
Before that it was smoking in the school grounds, purposely disturbing lessons, egging people's houses, starting fights if someone disagreed with them, shouting "hee-ya man, wot the fuck di yu think yu di-in?" if anyone asked them to stop or questioned them.

They could come from any background tbh so names were very varied. In my class (by this I mean class at school) alone we had Rachel, Beth, Jane, Rhonda, Charlotte, Ashley...just very normal names had by people from all sorts of backgrounds.

sparkedsparkle · 13/11/2023 06:50

Depends on different areas

I grew up in west London and the typical 'chav' names were Kelly, Shelly, Hannah, Hayley, Brooke, Ryan, Scott, Russel, James.

As I got older the chav children were all Mia, Ria, Tia, raiden, kayden, jayden.

Living in Kent and older still the chav children have names like Bambi, Esme, Flossy, Binkie, Turner, Diego, Leandro