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Eleanor vs Elenore

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XenaTheWarriorPrincess · 11/11/2023 17:22

Hey guys,

I'm having a girl and me and my partner have decided on the name Eleanor. We both love it and fine with any possible nicknames that may arise from it.

However, we disagree on how to spell it. I envision it as Eleanor but he sees it as Elenore. Both seem to be valid existing spellings and are pronounced the same way and mean the same thing, from what I can tell Elenore is just an alternative spelling.

Just looking for opinions really on which one you prefer/would choose.

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SouperWoman · 13/11/2023 09:32

Eleanor or Elanor.

Dinosaursdontgrowontrees · 13/11/2023 09:24

Eleanor 100%
Elenore looks like a spelling mistake

Passepartoute · 12/11/2023 22:42

childofthewild · 11/11/2023 22:29

Eleanor or Elinor and it's definitely pronounced Ella-nor.

If you want Ella-nuh then go for Elena.

Either way she will spend her entire life teaching people how to pronounce it and spell it.

No, Eleanor isn't pronounced Ella-nor in the UK. The emphasis always goes on the first syllable alone, so that it's Ellennuh. She probably will have to spell the name out a lot, but at least the usage of Eleanor is becoming more common so that is how people expect it to be spelt.

The main disadvantage of Elenore is that people will pronounce it putting the emphasis on the last syllable, which makes it rather ugly.

Ihatethenewlook · 12/11/2023 22:30

theduchessofspork · 12/11/2023 20:53

Eleanor or Elinor and it's definitely pronounced Ella-nor.
Only in the US, in the UK it’s said Ell-en-uh

If you want Ella-nuh then go for Elena
In the UK this can be said phonetically Ell-en-uh, or sometimes Ell-ay-na as it is said and spelt in say Italy

Either way she will spend her entire life teaching people how to pronounce it and spell it.
No she won’t, Eleanor is incredibly popular in the UK and it only has one pronunciation here

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Only just seen the above post. Yes that’s how I’d pronounce elena. I’ve also just realised looking at it again I might even have to check it’s not el-ee-nah. No one’s pronouncing that like Eleanor. Which everyone knows how to spell

Ihatethenewlook · 12/11/2023 22:27

childofthewild · 11/11/2023 22:29

Eleanor or Elinor and it's definitely pronounced Ella-nor.

If you want Ella-nuh then go for Elena.

Either way she will spend her entire life teaching people how to pronounce it and spell it.

It’s not though. Are you in the uk? Elinor doesn’t have the ‘nore’ sound at the end of it. The emphasis is on the second syllable instead of the third. And Elena is pronounced El-ay-nah

theduchessofspork · 12/11/2023 20:53

childofthewild · 11/11/2023 22:29

Eleanor or Elinor and it's definitely pronounced Ella-nor.

If you want Ella-nuh then go for Elena.

Either way she will spend her entire life teaching people how to pronounce it and spell it.

Eleanor or Elinor and it's definitely pronounced Ella-nor.
Only in the US, in the UK it’s said Ell-en-uh

If you want Ella-nuh then go for Elena
In the UK this can be said phonetically Ell-en-uh, or sometimes Ell-ay-na as it is said and spelt in say Italy

Either way she will spend her entire life teaching people how to pronounce it and spell it.
No she won’t, Eleanor is incredibly popular in the UK and it only has one pronunciation here

childofthewild · 11/11/2023 22:29

Eleanor or Elinor and it's definitely pronounced Ella-nor.

If you want Ella-nuh then go for Elena.

Either way she will spend her entire life teaching people how to pronounce it and spell it.

MenAndWomenOfYore · 11/11/2023 22:17

Eleanor.

HangTheJib · 11/11/2023 21:15

Americans pronounce Eleanor as Elenore but in the UK Eleanor (in my experience) doesn't have the emphasised nore sound at the end.

The spelling of Elenore does look a bit wacky.

Alohapotato · 11/11/2023 21:10

I prefer Eleanor or as somenone posted before Elena.

Ihatethenewlook · 11/11/2023 21:08

Expectingb24 · 11/11/2023 17:45

I quite like Elinor spelling. Eleanor is lovely.
Elenore just makes me think of snore

It’s a different name though?

Ihatethenewlook · 11/11/2023 21:07

They’re two different names. How are you pronouncing it? On the likely chance that your oh has ballsed the pronunciation up then your spelling is correct. The second one looks like crossed between retire and snore.

LemonLimeDivine · 11/11/2023 21:05

HundredMilesAnHour · 11/11/2023 17:25

Eleanor, without a doubt.

Elenore looks too much like Eeyore.

This ⬆️

Plus, I have an Eleanor 😁

Daisybuttercup12345 · 11/11/2023 21:04

HundredMilesAnHour · 11/11/2023 17:25

Eleanor, without a doubt.

Elenore looks too much like Eeyore.

This.
Elena?

MockneyReject · 11/11/2023 18:59

Yup, like a PP, I instantly saw Eeyore.
Eleanor is spelled Eleanor; Elinor, at a push.

anonimoxyz · 11/11/2023 18:57

If you use any spelling other than Eleanor she'll spend her whole life spelling it out which is annoying, provided you're in UK. I hate my name because nobody can spell or pronounce it and it's not a special spelling, just an unusual name

Holidayhell22 · 11/11/2023 18:19

Eleanor.
Don’t spell it Elenore it looks like you can’t spell.

BoleynMemories13 · 11/11/2023 18:16

Eleanor is a much nicer spelling but I dislike the El-eh-nor pronunciation. I much prefer El-eh-nuh, which is how people tend to pronounce it around me. El-eh-nor sounds very posh to my ears.

So I would definitely spell it Eleanor, as the other spelling is awful, but be prepared that not everyone will pronounce it how you want.

Appleofmyeye2023 · 11/11/2023 18:10

It’s not the same name

Eleanor - El-anor , nice, lyrical, grown up
Elenor - Eli- nor - sounds like a flipping elephant as will will shortened to eLE the elephant. Just no. Don’t do that to poor kid. You husband needs to learn English

FallingAutumnLeaf · 11/11/2023 18:06

Eleanor

Passepartoute · 11/11/2023 18:04

Eleanor, every time. It's so much nicer.

ValuableLimeLesson · 11/11/2023 17:53

Elenore makes me think that you didn't have the confidence to call her Lenore (which I love - shame it's a fabric conditioner in the UK).

SM4713 · 11/11/2023 17:49

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 11/11/2023 17:30

Eleanor is much much nicer than Elenore. Legitimate spelling or not, my brain instantly assumes the person can’t spell the name and just guessed.

My thoughts exactly!

cariadlet · 11/11/2023 17:47

Eleanor

Expectingb24 · 11/11/2023 17:45

I quite like Elinor spelling. Eleanor is lovely.
Elenore just makes me think of snore

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