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Why are boy names so hard?! :(

187 replies

winterbabyrose · 27/09/2023 15:33

Currently pregnant with #2 and unsure of the gender as of yet. We have a girls name chosen and have had for a while, but are struggling with finding boys names we like. We like the more 'unusual' boho / nature themed names. This is the current list of names I like, but not love yet, so you get an idea.

Bear
Elijah (I like this but potentially too 'common')
Tate
Hendrix
Fox
Oren
Lennox
Wolf

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SummerFunHoildayBreak · 30/09/2023 23:30

From personal experience unusual spellings of names are more annoying for the person whose name it is rather than an unusual name itself. I like the names on your list. I've not read the replies so they may have already come up but a few more suggestions...
Travis
Jude
Aaron
Crawford
Kit
Axel
Zan

Meadowflower2023 · 30/09/2023 22:22

*My sister in law wanted to name their (potential) son, Buddy.

Luckily, my brother is normal and doesn't go through life as though he lives in a Disney cartoon.*

@Ameanstreakamilewide and you have tagged me in with your post because...?

JRM17 · 30/09/2023 22:14

Please say you live in America and not the UK.

Nurselifex · 30/09/2023 10:40

You and your partner are going to be the ones saying this name 100 times a day. Whether it’s the name is popular or unusual. This is your baby and this is your choice. It has nothing to do with anyone else. Yes the name may not be to everyone’s taste but you have to go with what you love!

mathanxiety · 30/09/2023 04:36

I love Elijah and Lennox.

If you like Oren, would you consider Arran?

Other suggestions:
Bram
Aram
Ira
Ivo
Leonidas
Ferdia
Fiacra
Solomon
Cormac
Casimir

YRGAM · 30/09/2023 04:29

A name can't convey a personality. If you feel that's the case for your own name then that's quite unusual, especially in a positive sense.

And if you want names that will genuinely be unusual then you want a Stuart or a Gary - while there may not be other Bears in his class, there'll be plenty of other names that are trying to be unusual and in the same style, and they'll just blend into each other.

Daisybuttercup12345 · 29/09/2023 20:19

Are you expecting an animal lol.
I'd go for Edward with Bear or Ted as nn.

kezzyleah · 29/09/2023 14:33

Love Elijah or Eli. How about Jonah?

baklavagoddess · 29/09/2023 14:26

What about Orion instead of oron

KayEmAy · 29/09/2023 14:25

@saffy2 Totally agree! Even if they ask for opinions/suggestions to match names I don't like, ex Clara, Ruby and Robin the most I say is, "it's not my style" and then continue to recommend Charlotte, Iris, Ruth.

...half of which are also colors, plants and a bird btw but the "acceptable" ones I guess lol

KayEmAy · 29/09/2023 14:18

LuckySantangelo35 · 29/09/2023 11:44

@KayEmAy

“Hawthorne James nn Huck/Hawk”

no one would nickname the boy/man with that name those nicknames

@LuckySantangelo35 I see your point. I would have said the same to the first person who decided on Dick as a nickname for Richard lol

saffy2 · 29/09/2023 12:37

All those saying for wolf and bear what if he’s small and skinny…my name is essentially a colour…im not that colour…I’m just a normal human colour, and I have never ever ever been asked, why aren’t you the colour of your name? Because that would be so ridiculously stupid of people to think, she must be that colour because her name says so…
the same as if I name my baby May, a totally and stupidly normal and common name…but she was born in September…nobody would say but you weren’t born in may.
the same as if I call my baby girl Daisy nobody is going to say to her, well you’re not a flower.
the fact that people are saying he can’t be wolf because he might not be big is literally one of the most stupid things I have ever read on MN. I mean, are you people stupid?!?! 🤦🏽‍♀️

saffy2 · 29/09/2023 12:26

Ffion21 · 28/09/2023 08:03

What seems cute will be a source of torment when children get to school. Yes you can teach them resilience but why put them in the firing line for bullying? It’s hard enough for children to navigate school, starting in day 1 named as an animal is the quickest way to have it ripped out of them.

Don’t name a child Fox, it’s just really cruel.

elijah bear is a cutesy name for a baby when you’re doing baby talk but can you imagine a 40 year old man introducing himself as that?

Perhaps your children are like that…my son saw a child named Tiger on his school class list and said wow mum, look tiger. I’m making friends with him.
just because you think your children would behave appallingly doesn’t actually mean that would happen when the majority of us teach our kids differently.
i was never teased because of my name 🤔

saffy2 · 29/09/2023 12:22

KayEmAy · 27/09/2023 21:18

YAY! My reaction when I see another person interested in unusual/modern names hehe (Nothing against the classics at all, but I also like your style)

I didn't mean to but some of them just first/middle paired up so I'm rolling with it :)

Bellamy Tate

Perry Hendrix

Jay Sawyer

Hawthorne James nn Huck/Hawk

Asa Lennox

Blaise Oren nn Bo

Hale Fox

Sterling Wolf

Wynn Hunter

Flint Roman

Kit Wilder

Pax Ryan

Tycho Rhys

Elijah Severin

Troy Gideon

Vesper James

Same. I can’t stand the old Sarah, Jane, Andrew, Benjamin. How boring.
and it’s hilarious, that actually I would never normally say that, I would never comment on a thread if someone saying help me choose between Andrew and Benjamin and say those names are ridiculous…even though I literally roll my eyes when any baby is named after the top 10 names.
but when it’s bear and fox…it’s fair game it feels like for people to ridicule. It’s so unnecessary.

saffy2 · 29/09/2023 12:18

BambinoBlue · 27/09/2023 16:11

I've registered lots of baby Bears. And a whole gaggle of Teddys.

No Elijah though yet.

Also, I've personally registered three Mavericks in the last year 😁 And a Hendrix. And a Rebel. It's become quite a thing to pick names like that.

Nooooo, maverick is our top boys name. 🙈 this has gutted me!!

saffy2 · 29/09/2023 12:16

hotcandle · 27/09/2023 16:00

Can I just gently suggest you choose a name that wouldn't be a burden for them?

I personally think its unfair and cruel to call a child fox, wolf or bear. Cute when they're younger of course but not as an adult man.

I have a workman on my house right now called Bear. My name unusual, I’ve only ever heard of one or two others with my name…it’s never been a burden and actually I prefer it. I would hate to be called Sarah or Jane like every other girl in my class. Many people don’t want their child or themselves to just blend in with the majority, just because that’s not you doesn’t mean it’s cruel.

BertieBotts · 29/09/2023 12:05

JennyBee23 · 28/09/2023 18:44

Do people seriously call their kids Forrest? Could you imagine being rubbish at sport and all your class mocking you with "run Forrest, run".

How many 11 year olds have watched Forrest Gump? That's a film from our generation, not theirs.

As you can see from some of the "lists of classmates" the "weird" names are becoming so common now that they just won't be seen as weird names to today's kids.

0Oo · 29/09/2023 11:48

I went for names that sounded good with our surname. So that all their names all stood well on their own, but also flowed well with their middle and surname. The syllables has to ping in the right place paying attention to the consonants and vowel placement. It worked out

LuckySantangelo35 · 29/09/2023 11:46

So many of these names are sooooo try hard to be stand out and different

LuckySantangelo35 · 29/09/2023 11:44

@KayEmAy

“Hawthorne James nn Huck/Hawk”

no one would nickname the boy/man with that name those nicknames

JFabschair84 · 29/09/2023 10:14

They said being bad at sports meant you'd get mocked...to me that is a bullying mentality.

EyesOnThePies · 29/09/2023 08:48

Don’t know where you live but Bodhi is set to be the new Alfie here

JemOfAWoman · 29/09/2023 08:44

Really wanted Arlo or Kit for my recent grandson but they settled on Magnus! As an absolute bruiser it suits him! ❤️

Ameanstreakamilewide · 29/09/2023 08:37

Meadowflower2023 · 28/09/2023 13:43

I'm a sucker for earthy/boho/natural names too OP.

Some of these will have been listed already I'm sure but I quite like:

Heath
Chase
Woody
Oakley
Rocco
Jesse
River
Ace

Good luck xx

My sister in law wanted to name their (potential) son, Buddy.

Luckily, my brother is normal and doesn't go through life as though he lives in a Disney cartoon.

Ameanstreakamilewide · 29/09/2023 08:31

JFabschair84 · 29/09/2023 08:25

My son is called Forrest and I've only had people made that 'joke' twice, both adults age 50+. It's a real shame if your first thought is to mock someone that is bad at sports and I hope if you have kids they haven't picked up your bullying tendancies.

The PP didn't say that she would say it, just that it's an obvious dopey remark that people might say.