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Is every girls name in popular usage twee?

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Maximajensen · 28/07/2023 09:55

I feel like 99% of currently popular/ vaguely popular girls names are twee.

  • Top 10: Amelia, Olivia, Ivy, Ava, Evie, Freya
  • Vintage/ retro names: Mabel, Elsie, Edie, Bonnie, Ada
  • Frilly names: Arabella, Aurelia, Liliana, Viviana
  • Even some names adopted from other cultures in an effort perhaps not to be cutesy: Penelope, Sylvie, Clementine
  • Nickname names: Lottie, Mimi, Gracie
  • Anything ending in an “ie”

obviously lots of overlap here

Not twee:

  • Feminisations of male names: Albertine, Thomasina, Edwina, Maxima
  • 4 letter international sounding names: Naia, Mina, Sanne, Anna
  • Most names in popular usage throughout the second half of the 20th century: Karen, Rachel, Claire
  • Most but not all “classic” (royal or literary names)

thoughts?

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Robinbuildsbears · 28/02/2024 08:19

On topic, I think boy's names suffer from this as well. From too cutesy like Teddy, Freddie, Archie, Alfie and Albie etc., to overly sentimental and quite grand names like Rafferty, Cassius or Sebastian. The idea that these names are the Colin, Mark and Nigel of the future, pasty pudgy balding office workers in their 50s, feels wild to me.

Robinbuildsbears · 28/02/2024 07:40

YourLocal · 28/02/2024 06:35

True but doesn’t mean they need to play with doll houses and toys for younger kids. I mean it’s their decision just find it a bit weird. I didn’t mean they need to be out being antisocial

Well they don't really make toys for teenagers to play with anymore, so their options are a little limited if they want to play with toys. And loads of adults still buy Barbies.

YourLocal · 28/02/2024 06:38

Twee girl and boy names(my opinion):
Teddy
Angel
Kitty
Coral
Delilah
Darcey
Bear
Bee (Bea is nice tho bc the spelling isn’t spelt like 🐝)
Addy
Bunny
Clementine
Dottie
Goldie
Gus
Hazel

YourLocal · 28/02/2024 06:35

Robinbuildsbears · 27/02/2024 21:46

Surely it's better for 11 and 14 year old girls to be playing with Barbies than vaping in a bus shelter or whatever most teenagers do nowadays.

True but doesn’t mean they need to play with doll houses and toys for younger kids. I mean it’s their decision just find it a bit weird. I didn’t mean they need to be out being antisocial

Neverpostagain · 27/02/2024 22:16

Some non twee relatively popular names for you... Harriet, Esther, Caroline, Catherine, Abigail, Elizabeth, Jean, Mary, Sonia.

Skidoddle · 27/02/2024 21:48

Dombasle · 28/07/2023 10:28

Most parents to be or new parents of a daughter imagine their baby as being a sweet and cute child and therefore want a name to reflect that

No one think that in 18 years time their daughter could be a fifteen stone Goth so they had better call her Gonk just in case.

🤣🤣

Robinbuildsbears · 27/02/2024 21:46

YourLocal · 27/02/2024 21:30

I don’t think the name really matters unless it’s something like Angel or Bunny and the kid is like their name. There’s a Minnie (my daughter’s friend) and she is very embarrassing for her age. She is 11 and acts like she’s 7 and her mum treats her that too. Her sister is about 14 and they play barbies and shopkins💀and she wears rainbows and unicorns. It’s her choice to be honest but it’s a bit embarrassing. In this YES the name is twee as well as the kid but generally the name doesn’t matter it’s the kid

Surely it's better for 11 and 14 year old girls to be playing with Barbies than vaping in a bus shelter or whatever most teenagers do nowadays.

YourLocal · 27/02/2024 21:30

I don’t think the name really matters unless it’s something like Angel or Bunny and the kid is like their name. There’s a Minnie (my daughter’s friend) and she is very embarrassing for her age. She is 11 and acts like she’s 7 and her mum treats her that too. Her sister is about 14 and they play barbies and shopkins💀and she wears rainbows and unicorns. It’s her choice to be honest but it’s a bit embarrassing. In this YES the name is twee as well as the kid but generally the name doesn’t matter it’s the kid

B0G0F · 26/02/2024 15:22

Many of the names that OP says are twee aren't twee.

  • Top 10: Amelia, Olivia, Ivy, Ava, Evie, Freya
Only Evie is twee
  • Vintage/ retro names: Mabel, Elsie, Edie, Bonnie, Ada
They're retro/vintage but not twee
  • Frilly names: Arabella, Aurelia, Liliana, Viviana
They're frilly and fussy but not twee
  • Even some names adopted from other cultures in an effort perhaps not to be cutesy: Penelope, Sylvie, Clementine
None of those are twee
  • Nickname names: Lottie, Mimi, Gracie
They're a bit twee
  • Anything ending in an “ie”
To wide a category to say. I wouldn't say that Valerie was twee.
User6761 · 24/02/2024 10:05

I don't really think of names as twee but agree that a lot of popular names are the moment are 'cutesy'. It's probably long been the case that children are called cute diminutives but in the past the longer version would have been on the birth certificate. Of my grandparents and their siblings (born early 1900s) - they were always referred to as Harry, Willie, Jack, Kate, Lizzie etc but Henry, William, John, Catherine, Elizabeth etc on BC.

CloudsFilledWReign · 24/02/2024 09:22

I think many popular boys names fall into this category too. Boys names like Ollie, Reggie, Alfie, and Milo have the same quality.

I think it's because 2 syllable names ending in -y or -ie put the emphasis on the last syllable and sound like the sort of nicknames you might naturally give a child, Poppy, Rosie, Lucy, Milly, Stinky, Sweetie.

Names like Arabella and Aurelia are a blend of elegance + cutesy + Disney princess.

thebestinterest · 24/02/2024 03:39

Maximajensen · 28/07/2023 10:10

Not really, a name isn’t automatically twee because it is popular IMO. I think that all the names that are popular at the moment happen to be twee

Agree with this. Many of those names aren’t ‘twee’

MirandaBlu · 24/02/2024 03:27

I don't think Freya is twee, given that she's the goddess of love, fertility, battle, and death.

Other top-50ish girls names that may fit your non-twee criteria: Emily, Isabelle, Hannah, Erin, Emma, Evelyn, Grace, Charlotte, Zara? I'd say Isla and Esme too, at least in a Scottish context where they have a history of steady use and didn't suddenly become wildly popular seemingly out of nowhere.

Annymania · 23/02/2024 20:57

Not a fan of evie ava Olivia Amelia ivy lily etc
but do I dislike them because I’ve heard them so much or because I genuinely dislike them? It’s very blurry. These things are like a never ending circle

StoneColdStoneCold · 30/07/2023 10:55

Does not the charm of a name dissipate when it succumbs to banality, save for those of classical appellations, whether retro or cute?

PickledScrump · 30/07/2023 10:40

Dombasle · 28/07/2023 10:28

Most parents to be or new parents of a daughter imagine their baby as being a sweet and cute child and therefore want a name to reflect that

No one think that in 18 years time their daughter could be a fifteen stone Goth so they had better call her Gonk just in case.

Now considering the name Gonk just in case.

TeleTropes · 30/07/2023 09:37

Maximajensen · 28/07/2023 15:11

How would you define twee here?

I definitely see Violet as more twee than Albertine. Although both flower names, people’s problems with feminisations often centre on the fact that they’re not “pretty” or “sweet” enough, but rather just male names with a suffix tacked onto the end.

Violet was my second choice for a girl. In my view, you can either go along with the twee naming trend, or you can give your daughter a pretty wildly different name which means she stands out and perhaps is automatically assumed to be of a different generation. So I’m not knocking people’s choices, I’m just pointing out quite an obvious trend.

The “eena” sound in Albertina and Edwina are the twee bits for me. It’s an overly feminine, cutesy, frilly sound for me. If it makes me think of tea parties with doilies and little fingers out then I think it’s twee.

Even though Violet is floral, the short vowel sounds don’t give me the same vibes.

I did start this by saying it was the “een” sound but I don’t think same about Albertine, but weirdly I also don’t think the same about Tina so I have no idea what my logic is. It’s just the tea party vibe that I think is twee 🤣

SemperIdem · 29/07/2023 09:57

Twee does not mean what you seem to think it means.

Maximajensen · 29/07/2023 09:37

Thanks everyone! Didn’t mean to offend.

If I ever have another daughter I will seriously be considering Albertine 😀

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IamnotwhouthinkIam · 29/07/2023 01:02

Nah, only the ones that are/sound like nicknames or diminutives are twee imo (so, yes a lot of the "ie/y" ending names and a few of the short "a" ending ones). Which is surely the point of nicknames - to sound "cute" or friendly and for some people that's a small step to twee.

Okay, maybe some of the "princessy"/ extra frilly 4 syllable, vowel heavy ones lean that way to me too - adding extra "ella" or "ana"s to otherwise simple names does seem unnecessary (although Aurelia just sounds Ancient Roman to me).

But that still leaves about half the most popular names as non -twee imo. To dispute some of your examples - Freya is a goddess, Ada is Ada Lovelace, Olivia is Shakespearean, Amelia is Amelia Earhart etc. I don't see how the names of feminist icons (plus a classic in Olivia) can be twee personally. Trendy "old lady" or soundalike and not my personal taste - a lot of the top 100 girls may be that, but it doesn't necessarily mean twee.

Reugny · 28/07/2023 20:58

2bazookas · 28/07/2023 16:37

Can't wait for the old names to come back, Audrey, Brenda, Doreen, Doris. Derek, Roy ,Bernard, Roger.

Doris is unlikely to come back. 😂

Reugny · 28/07/2023 20:57

Marcipex · 28/07/2023 20:08

I don’t feel that Ada, Mabel, Ivy, Alma are twee. To me they are dreadfully dismal old-lady names.

I also see Penelope and Anna as classic names.

I would call Honey, Pixie, Lilia, Liliana, Ariana, Annabella and anything -Mae as twee.

That's the point.

The first group of names are old lady names most of whom are over 85 or deceased, that have come back into fashion again.

Marcipex · 28/07/2023 20:08

I don’t feel that Ada, Mabel, Ivy, Alma are twee. To me they are dreadfully dismal old-lady names.

I also see Penelope and Anna as classic names.

I would call Honey, Pixie, Lilia, Liliana, Ariana, Annabella and anything -Mae as twee.

salamithumbs · 28/07/2023 20:03

Also, I think that names like Maureen, Eileen etc would have sounded cutesy at the time, since the '-een' (or ín) means little in Irish... my granny's name was officially Mary but she said that people called her Mairín (pronounced like Maureen) as people thought it was more suitable for a small child!

salamithumbs · 28/07/2023 19:46

I agree that some names ending in an 'ee' sound are a bit twee, but only if there's a repeated sound like in Poppy, Mimi, or a cutesy meaning like Bonnie or Honey. Other 'ee' names like Bryony, Abbie, Cassie don't sound twee at all to my ears. I don't think names that end in 'a' sound twee at all - Ada, Olivia, Freya etc sound strong to me- and I don't think longer names like Viviana sound frilly either.
You mentioned Edwina as a non-cutesy name but I find it very twee, maybe because it sounds like 'weeney' or something!
It sounds like you think more consonant heavy names like Rachel, Charlotte etc are less twee?