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Sullivan

164 replies

Moomoo36 · 08/06/2023 21:42

I normally like more classic names but for some reason I'm taken with Sullivan.

Has anyone used it/know one/have an opinion on it?

Doubt I'm having a boy anyway as this is dc4 and all the others are girls but good to be prepared!

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stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 14:13

@SlippySarah Call me uneducated but I don't the exact history of every single name used across the world in every culture and going back 2000 years+

Presumably you have given your child a name which is more commonly used as a surname which is why you are so snappy about me sharing a very average opinion.
I won't bother with calling you uneducated but I will say you are a tad contrary of you are going about criticising people for adopting surnames as first names when it's gone on throughout civilised history. Some names are only being adopted now but that doesn't make them any chavvier or culturally appropriated than all the names you have known since you were a kid. You are just someone who struggles with change. If it happened before your time it's ok. If it happens now, it's an abomination. It's just weird.
And no. No surnames as first names in our family that I know of although some of them may have been

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 14:08

@harrietm87 the point is it isn't a recent trend. It's always happened. You are just having a problem with the names that have been adopted in your lifetime as they feel unfamiliar so you take exception to them. But to claim that it's cultural appropriation or chavvy it all the other judgemental things it has been called on this thread when it's always gone on us a bit 🙄

GrinAndVomit · 09/06/2023 13:20

I really like it and I’m usually a bit sniffy about surnames for first names.

jojo1067 · 09/06/2023 13:19

I wouldn't use it but that's because it was the name of my school. It would remind me of school every day! Otherwise I quite like it.

SlippySarah · 09/06/2023 13:06

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 07:44

So presumably you think Alexander, Finlay/Findley, Bradley, Conrad, Curtis, Elliot, Gregory, Lachlan, Oliver and a thousand more are names you can't get on board with. No. I doubt it. You just don't like some names and maybe don't like things you aren't familiar with. It's nothing to do with whether they started as surnames or not

Call me uneducated but I don't the exact history of every single name used across the world in every culture and going back 2000 years+

Presumably you have given your child a name which is more commonly used as a surname which is why you are so snappy about me sharing a very average opinion.

DuchessOfSausage · 09/06/2023 12:56

Not RTFT. Fine as a surname but not as a first name. Solomon has a similar sound and is much nicer.

Sugarfree23 · 09/06/2023 12:34

@Moomoo36 given you are Scottish I'd use it but I'd use the Scottish spelling that the other poster mentioned.

I assumed that it was the same spelling as the hill but I'm not exactly top of the spelling class.

Neongrun · 09/06/2023 12:15

I love Sully. Makes me think of the pilot. Someone mentioned Sol, a player for the football team I support is called Sol Solomon. It’s catchy

harrietm87 · 09/06/2023 12:11

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 11:45

@harrietm87 but Yasmine/Jasmine was Originally a Persian surname. I'm really not understanding how you can differentiate

@stingypeasant i can’t speak for Persian people. Yasmin has been an established first name for generations. Appreciate your other posts have gone back to the times of Alexander the Great so perhaps you’re taking a longer range view than me.

As an Irish person, I think the very recent trend for using Irish surnames as first names is annoying at the least and offensive at worst. Hope that clarifies things for you.

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 11:45

@harrietm87 but Yasmine/Jasmine was Originally a Persian surname. I'm really not understanding how you can differentiate

harrietm87 · 09/06/2023 11:38

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 11:12

Huh? You are just being selective. Why wouldn't Zara or Jasmine be cultural appropriation whereas the others are? Just because you think so doesn't make it so. Using names from other cultures is either cultural appropriation or it's not. You can't go around saying Finlay is CP but Zara isn't. You don't get to pick and choose

Im distinguishing between using a first name from another culture (like Zara) and using a surname from another culture (like Singh). There is a distinction. Surnames are traditionally passed down through generations and therefore tend to have distinct and specific cultural, ethnic, historic significance; first names do not (in the same way).

NeverendingCircus · 09/06/2023 11:32

It's quite nice. Surnames as first names can be looked down on by some people but if that doesn't concern you, why not go for it? It's a good name and Sully is a very cute nn. Suli is quite a common Arabic nn for boys called Suleiman which is very similar so he's unlikely to be the only one.

Abhannmor · 09/06/2023 11:31

I suppose it is a positive development in one sense. When I lived in England being Irish was terminally uncool. Not as bad as the bubonic plague I suppose but much worse than halitosis or dandruff.
The wheel is always turning I guess.

GeraltsBathtub · 09/06/2023 11:27

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 11:15

@GeraltsBathtub Ithink you have this slightly muddled. For example, Alexander the Great. Alexander was his first name and he didn’t have a surname - ancient Greeks didn’t use them.

Yes. They didn't have fist names. They had Onr bane followed by their region usually. The one babe was more akin to our surnames. Like in many many cultures around the world. The one name linked them to something. A clan. A family. A sect. It was akin to a surname. Not a first name. You've confused yourself. And I know this. I'm not guessing. My ds studied classics. We have discussed this

Not really. Ancient Greeks would often reuse names within the family (eg naming after grandparents) but the names didn’t denote specific family membership. Roman second names did, though.

HaveWeGotAnyCake · 09/06/2023 11:16

I don't like it. I dislike surnames being used as first names (Cooper, Riley, etc)

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 11:15

Jesus the auto correct mixed with no glasses has thrown madness into my texting

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 11:15

@GeraltsBathtub Ithink you have this slightly muddled. For example, Alexander the Great. Alexander was his first name and he didn’t have a surname - ancient Greeks didn’t use them.

Yes. They didn't have fist names. They had Onr bane followed by their region usually. The one babe was more akin to our surnames. Like in many many cultures around the world. The one name linked them to something. A clan. A family. A sect. It was akin to a surname. Not a first name. You've confused yourself. And I know this. I'm not guessing. My ds studied classics. We have discussed this

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 11:12

harrietm87 · 09/06/2023 10:46

Oh and the Zara/Jasmin example isn’t analogous. A proper analogy would be if Singh or Patel or Wang or Romanov as a first name. It would be weird, and it doesn’t happen.

Huh? You are just being selective. Why wouldn't Zara or Jasmine be cultural appropriation whereas the others are? Just because you think so doesn't make it so. Using names from other cultures is either cultural appropriation or it's not. You can't go around saying Finlay is CP but Zara isn't. You don't get to pick and choose

Moomoo36 · 09/06/2023 10:59

GeraltsBathtub · 09/06/2023 10:40

I don’t like it because it shortens to Sully, as pp pointed out very negative meaning. Especially if you are hoping for another girl and he ruins the set…

Ruins the set! As if! My children aren't a set anyway, they are extremely different individuals who happen to all be the same sex.

Having a slight preference for a girl is purely based on the fact that I am very used to raising daughters. Obviously I would love a boy as much as I love my girls but I would feel a bit fish out of water for a few days I imagine!

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GeraltsBathtub · 09/06/2023 10:55

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 10:02

@harrietm87 Aren’t Alexander and Oliver traditionally first names that have become used as surnames though?

They are not remotely in the same bracket as names like Cooper, Mason and Grayson.

No. Alexander and Oliver were names when people were called 'Alexander of XXXX'. It was more akin to our surname. It was then a surname later adopted as a first name.

The feature we were discussing was whether surnames as first names was chavvy. Clearly Alexander abd oliver aren't. Yet they were surnames. Ergo surnames as first names are not by definition chavvy. You just don't like some surnames as first names and you have chosen to categorise them as 'different'. But they aren't. They are just more recently adopted surnames as first names. Actually some are not even recent. Hamilton was the first name of one or maybe two US presidents. Warren is hardly chavvy. Not very fashionable but not at all chavvy.

Alexander and Oliver were names when people were called 'Alexander of XXXX'. It was more akin to our surname. It was then a surname later adopted as a first name.

I think you have this slightly muddled. For example, Alexander the Great. Alexander was his first name and he didn’t have a surname - ancient Greeks didn’t use them. The name became a surname after use as a first name. Likewise Oliver, first used as a first name (eg Charlemagne’s pal) and then as a surname. Both probably originally used as surnames in a patronymic sense but without a -son, Mc- etc being added.

harrietm87 · 09/06/2023 10:46

Oh and the Zara/Jasmin example isn’t analogous. A proper analogy would be if Singh or Patel or Wang or Romanov as a first name. It would be weird, and it doesn’t happen.

harrietm87 · 09/06/2023 10:44

stingypeasant · 09/06/2023 10:02

@harrietm87 Aren’t Alexander and Oliver traditionally first names that have become used as surnames though?

They are not remotely in the same bracket as names like Cooper, Mason and Grayson.

No. Alexander and Oliver were names when people were called 'Alexander of XXXX'. It was more akin to our surname. It was then a surname later adopted as a first name.

The feature we were discussing was whether surnames as first names was chavvy. Clearly Alexander abd oliver aren't. Yet they were surnames. Ergo surnames as first names are not by definition chavvy. You just don't like some surnames as first names and you have chosen to categorise them as 'different'. But they aren't. They are just more recently adopted surnames as first names. Actually some are not even recent. Hamilton was the first name of one or maybe two US presidents. Warren is hardly chavvy. Not very fashionable but not at all chavvy.

I didn’t say any names were chavvy. I said that Alexander and Oliver are in a different category from Mason and Grayson, and they absolutely are. I think you are actually agreeing on this point?

Fwiw I don’t think there is anything wrong with British people using random unrelated British surnames (like eg Mason) for their kids. I do however object to them using Irish surnames for their kids, not because I think it is chavvy but because I think it is inappropriate cultural appropriation.

GeraltsBathtub · 09/06/2023 10:40

I don’t like it because it shortens to Sully, as pp pointed out very negative meaning. Especially if you are hoping for another girl and he ruins the set…

Moomoo36 · 09/06/2023 10:33

I'm Scottish and live in Scotland so I don't need to consider how it works in England too strongly. It would go well with our very weird surname.

However I really think this is all hypothetical because I feel nearly certain and am kind of hoping this baby will be a fourth girl for us. Not finding out the sex though so want to have a few boy names ready just in case.

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TheMurderousGoose · 09/06/2023 10:16

Abhannmor · 09/06/2023 10:00

Many surnames started life as first names though. In Ireland this consisted of having Mac / Son or O/ Grandson , descendent , placed in front of the name.

However this is unlikely to be the case with Sullivan which , in the Irish Súil amháin , appears to mean One Eye?

I won't get too snitty about it though. After all there's Campbell/ Crooked Mouth and Cameron / Crooked Nose
All part of life's merry pageant!

Exactly. Nearly every Irish surname will have an origin of 'descendant of chieftain called X who ruled half of Munster in 510 AD' or similar. But these names then very quickly became surnames.