Sister pregnant with a boy and on her short list of three names is Theodore. She's keeping the name picked a surprise.
I only want one child and I have always wanted to call them Theodore/Theadora.
I didn't react when she told me her list. She doesn't know this was the name I was wanting.
I know she got there first so has the right to use but is it worth me telling her that it is the name I want so heads up, if she uses it I will likely too. With a slight hope this will influence her to pick another?