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Views on girl names

92 replies

Cherchezlaspice · 15/12/2022 13:49

Could I please have your thoughts on these names for a girl?

We’re not having a middle name and the last name will be double barrelled (west African and British last names, both short).

  • Izuka
  • Medua
  • Vida
  • Zikora
  • Ibari
  • Murphy
  • Isa
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HitMeWithAHotNoteAndWatchMeBounce · 20/12/2022 17:49

Murphy is so far left field of all the other names as to be not just amusing, but highly entertaining. Grin Sorry, OP!

It’s not even close to the calibre of the other names.

I really like Vida, Izuka, Ibari and Isa (although would think it was pronounced Eye-sah). I have an ‘I’ name myself.

Hadtocomment · 20/12/2022 17:35

You've chosen already but I just had to say I do think Ibari is beautiful.

Dalekjastninerels · 20/12/2022 15:38

Isa
Vida
Zikora

I like these names

Gingersnappy · 20/12/2022 15:34

*Vida

Gingersnappy · 20/12/2022 15:34

Love Visa and Isa

Blueberrywitch · 19/12/2022 02:41

Zikora is my favourite! No to Murphy.

RishisProudMum · 19/12/2022 00:26

Samjamm · 19/12/2022 00:15

@RishisProudMum

I just googled them.

I don't watch sports, I haven't seen the actress in anything I've watched and I don't listen to Swedish music.

Why should I know who any of those people are?

You: I’ve never heard of a girl with that name.

Me: Here are some famous women with that name.

You: Why should I have heard of them?

Are you quite alright? I have no idea who you should have heard of, I don’t live your life. The narrowness of your media consumption isn’t my personal problem.

Samjamm · 19/12/2022 00:15

@RishisProudMum

I just googled them.

I don't watch sports, I haven't seen the actress in anything I've watched and I don't listen to Swedish music.

Why should I know who any of those people are?

Figgypudding123 · 18/12/2022 22:56

Murphy is very different in style from your other names. And I think is more of a male name.

I really like Vida (is it pronounced Veeda or V-eye-da?)

Izuka
• Medua
• Vida
• Zikora
• Ibari
• Murphy
• Isa

Devakai · 18/12/2022 22:53

Vida gorgeous

RishisProudMum · 18/12/2022 22:47

RedBookYellowBook · 18/12/2022 21:35

@RishisProudMum

Brevity is all you want.

What a shame, discussion is what engenders understanding others’ points of view.

Seems like you want to deliberately presume spiteful intention. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Is that what you’ve experienced in the past? There’s no need to project that negative intention onto me.

I think Isa is a absolutely fantastic African name and a nice, diminutive European name. A mother can enjoy pleasing two cultures with that name. All is good then!

For all I know, it is a hugely significant name in African culture. I can only say that it doesn’t sound like it’s going to be perceived as an African name, nobody has stated that in reality, it isn’t.

I encourage you to get out there and educate UK people about your culture and the breadth of names.

Merry Christmas.

Nobody is reading your screeds. You’ve been told very clearly how you’ve been offensive. Do with that information what you will.

RishisProudMum · 18/12/2022 22:44

Samjamm · 18/12/2022 21:04

Isa is a popular Muslim name.

Arabic version of Jesus.

Never seen a girl with it.

Issa Rae, Isa Guha, Isa Tengblad (if we’re going to include the Swedes). You should get out more.

RedBookYellowBook · 18/12/2022 21:35

@RishisProudMum

Brevity is all you want.

What a shame, discussion is what engenders understanding others’ points of view.

Seems like you want to deliberately presume spiteful intention. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Is that what you’ve experienced in the past? There’s no need to project that negative intention onto me.

I think Isa is a absolutely fantastic African name and a nice, diminutive European name. A mother can enjoy pleasing two cultures with that name. All is good then!

For all I know, it is a hugely significant name in African culture. I can only say that it doesn’t sound like it’s going to be perceived as an African name, nobody has stated that in reality, it isn’t.

I encourage you to get out there and educate UK people about your culture and the breadth of names.

Merry Christmas.

Samjamm · 18/12/2022 21:04

Isa is a popular Muslim name.

Arabic version of Jesus.

Never seen a girl with it.

RedBookYellowBook · 18/12/2022 21:00

@Cherchezlaspice, you can surely know that I mean that unfortunately most UK people won’t realise Isa is also an African name. Read what I’ve said, it’s a shame, people don’t know more.

As said, I love Ibari but you must choose what feels right for you. Probably not anything I like.

Cherchezlaspice · 18/12/2022 20:41

Thank you! 💗😁

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GeneParmesanPrivateEye · 18/12/2022 20:33

You tease! 😂
Well congratulations, and best wishes for your little girl.

Cherchezlaspice · 18/12/2022 20:31

GeneParmesanPrivateEye · 18/12/2022 20:18

What have you decided @Cherchezlaspice ??

Oh, I’m not telling! 😂

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GeneParmesanPrivateEye · 18/12/2022 20:18

What have you decided @Cherchezlaspice ??

Cherchezlaspice · 18/12/2022 19:44

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 18/12/2022 18:59

Vida. Although, livin' la vida loca...
Please, not Murphy.
I quite like Isa but my keyboard wants to make it ISA, like the savings. What about Iris?

Iris is lovely, but I think we’ve made our choice! 😊

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Cherchezlaspice · 18/12/2022 19:42

Derbee · 18/12/2022 19:29

They’re all lovely, and interesting. Apart from Murphy. It’s not a girls name to my ear. Not even a human name!

Not even a human name! The responses to Murphy are so funny.

Anyway, thank you. 😊

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Pocketfullofdogtreats · 18/12/2022 19:38

RishisProudMum · 18/12/2022 19:27

Brevity is a skill you might wish to cultivate. I highly doubt anyone is going to read all of that. I certainly won’t. 😂

It was worth it for 'pubic eye figures'.

Cherchezlaspice · 18/12/2022 19:37

@RedBookYellowBook Nobody is expecting you to speak multiple (or any) African languages. However, you aren’t really in a position to say ‘Isa doesn’t sound African’ unless you’re au fait with ALL African names. Which is impossible. So, it’s a quite an odd and ignorant statement. What do African names sound like?!

Please note, you didn’t say ‘I don’t think most people will realise Isa is African’ or anything like that (which would be fine). Just that it didn’t sound African.

So, thank you for your contributions to this thread, but I don’t really want any more.

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Derbee · 18/12/2022 19:29

They’re all lovely, and interesting. Apart from Murphy. It’s not a girls name to my ear. Not even a human name!

RishisProudMum · 18/12/2022 19:27

RedBookYellowBook · 18/12/2022 19:17

Oh well, I have shown some curiosity and it has been met with hostility.

I have said out of those names, I love the name Ibari however I eel neutral about Isa because it sounds more distinctly European as a prefix and that is what the public will think it’s an abbreviation of when they initially hear it said.

No problem with that but I think the OP understandably wants a name that is pleasing to UK ears BUT also would like it to be an interesting African name.

Isa is a short name that sounds like a nickname of longer, more popular European female names, so blah to most people.

@RishisProudMum do you not think you have pretty high expectations for the general UK public to have an interest or an awareness in thousands of African names in various languages?!!

The majority of people in England have enough difficulty pronouncing many Irish names, and a good few Welsh ones!! This is the reality. It isn’t an ideal world.

It’s a case of positive encouragement in these matters, I think.

You could look at it this way, if I was on an African naming forum, and I suggested a list of British names on there and a fellow African poster appeared to say that one of my British names was already a much used African pre-fix to a name that was bland as a three letter name, I would be pleased to know that, it would help the OP form an opinion. I would be proud of my British heritage (as the African OP poster is) and would like to think I would be choosing a moniker that is British, and not an already commonly used African pre-fix/nickname.

Next thing, an irate Brit appears to say that honestly, rthe African poster commenting on the British OP, really should be more ware of the origins of the hundreds of Celtic, French and Anglo Saxon names!

However the general public in that African country’s forum have little concept of any of that because, just as in the UK, the majority of the pubic eye figures were African and there was little information about these Irish, Scots and Welsh names and cultures.

I would think that person had unrealistic expectations of the general public and slightly off their rocker.

Brevity is a skill you might wish to cultivate. I highly doubt anyone is going to read all of that. I certainly won’t. 😂