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Initials problem?

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Babyinitial · 13/12/2022 21:49

We’ve found a name that we really love, but with the middle name (that can’t change, family name), the initials spell CUM. Is this a problem and should we go back to the drawing board? We’ve literally only got this one name that we love but the initials are worrying me

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Bubbles1st · 13/12/2022 22:07

Do not do it!

WillTryNotToBeGrumpy · 13/12/2022 22:04

Hahaha! Normally wouldn't bother about initials but my inner 14 year old finds that hilarious.

Itsoktogiveup · 13/12/2022 22:01

Calling your cjild CUM is not an option.

At work my initials were automatically made my access code. All my documents were labelled ABC123 in the corner, I had to type in ABC123 to access the photocopyier, etc. I would not have been happy if my parents had given me the initials CUM!!

laalaaleelee · 13/12/2022 22:00

Nooooo don't let them be called CUM

Barleysugar86 · 13/12/2022 21:59

Yeah... Even with the best of intentions they will get used. At work when writing minutes or naming confidential documents with personal information we will use their full initials. That one isn't subtle either!

MissedItByThisMuch · 13/12/2022 21:58

I normally say initials don’t matter, teasing potential is overrated etc. But I’d avoid that one. Adding a second middle would be a great solution though.

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Babyinitial · 13/12/2022 21:56

Back to the drawing board then😂, I knew it was bad but I’ve convinced myself it’s fine. Ok considering maybe adding another middle name

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Kentlassie · 13/12/2022 21:56

Don’t do it!

Justyouwaitandseeagain · 13/12/2022 21:54

Could you add a second middle name before or after the current one?

olivewalls · 13/12/2022 21:53

Please don't do that to your child, can you imagine how embarrassing that'll be for them

cleanfreak12345 · 13/12/2022 21:52

Not a good idea

I was told about a couple who have a child called for example Brian James O'Brien

Greensleevevssnotnose · 13/12/2022 21:50

Pahaha yes they will probably get some stick