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The name Chester - am I the only one who’s told everyone the baby’s name/bought personalised things and now I’m having second thoughts

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Namesfordays · 08/12/2022 18:32

So I’m due next month and pretty early on in the pregnancy we settled on Chester. I’m a teacher and wanted a name that I hadn’t come across and was a little bit different. But now I’m worrying that it’s chavvy.
Please can you share your opinions on the name

His middle name is James (after my dad) and I do love the sound of Chester James but I don’t want to come across pretentious with a double barrelled name.

we like a few other names but they have been taken by relatives and friends and dogs lol
including; Arlo, Ralph, Charlie and Vinnie
We do also like Reuben

Any advice would be lovely!! (It’s our first baby and it just feels like the worlds biggest decision)

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SavingKitten · 08/12/2022 21:42

StamppotAndGravy · 08/12/2022 21:23

I know a Chestermir which I think is a lovely name

That is 100% the most ridiculous name I’ve seen on this board so far.

StamppotAndGravy · 08/12/2022 21:23

I know a Chestermir which I think is a lovely name

Axahooxa · 08/12/2022 21:21

Just pick a name YOU like.

MissHavishamsMouldyOldCake · 08/12/2022 21:16

BeanieTeen · 08/12/2022 21:11

Chester drawers?? Why would you associate it with that?
Chest of drawers… are people just being a bit thick? I don’t get it.
Its a nice name anyway. Unless you live to close to that town, then maybe it’s odd.

chester draws

Eixample · 08/12/2022 21:15

It doesn’t matter that other people don’t like it. You need to love it so much that you couldn’t care less.
Everyone hates my daughter’s name but we love it and don’t care.

Divebar2021 · 08/12/2022 21:13

Chest of drawers… are people just being a bit thick? I don’t get it

yes people are a bit thick.

BeanieTeen · 08/12/2022 21:11

Chester drawers?? Why would you associate it with that?
Chest of drawers… are people just being a bit thick? I don’t get it.
Its a nice name anyway. Unless you live to close to that town, then maybe it’s odd.

MusicstillonMTV · 08/12/2022 21:05

What about Christopher with Kester as the nn?

Wakk · 08/12/2022 21:05

Chester drawers here too thanks to Facebook market place

RSintes · 08/12/2022 21:05

As long as his surname isn't Field.

TheBirdintheCave · 08/12/2022 21:01

Chester is a city and a surname, not a given name. Leonard is a much stronger choice.

calmholly · 08/12/2022 20:51

Chester is a great name. I know one and he is gorgeous, I've only heard nice things about his name.

nothingmuchaboutjerry · 08/12/2022 20:47

It's your decision so go with what YOU want and not just because people have bought personalised items. I'd tell those who have that you've changed the name, but I wouldn't announce the "new" name to save the same thing happening again. My DD was Amber all the way through my pregnancy but this was way before the personalisation craze. When she was born she was absolutely NOT an Amber and it took me one look at her to name her something different.

I disagree with the PP who said a name can affect a career. I'm a very senior NHS manager and I sit in boardrooms with Teddies, Romeos and Mavericks. If they weren't outstanding at their jobs, they wouldn't have been employed. A name doesn't make a person.

Hoolihan · 08/12/2022 20:31

I immediately thought chester drawers Before I even opened the thread. Really dislike it.

I like Leo but Leonard is terrible and brings to mind Mr Rigsby.

NatMoz · 08/12/2022 20:26

My cat's called Chester, we thought it was quite distinguished! Until this thread I'd never heard of the child molester rhyme!

WhichWitchIsTheWitch · 08/12/2022 20:24

Namesfordays · 08/12/2022 20:13

Right a very mixed bunch!!! It’s hard because the reasons behind the no’s are very strong and not just like Oo it’s an iffy name, I don’t want my child to ever be associated with a molesterer but I did lol at the suggestion of listing him as drawers!!

What are peoples thoughts on Leo, short for Leonard?
OH isn’t that keen but I will have a month to work on it

Leonard pronounced lennard leads to Lennie rather than Leo.

Millana · 08/12/2022 20:18

I would never have gone to "molester" and I don't think many people would tbh.

Personally I'm not keen on Leo but that is because I've known a few who weren't very nice people. Nothing to do with the name of course, just my association.

I wanted Jasper if we had a boy.

dream28 · 08/12/2022 20:16

I like Leonard, but isn't this name pronounced Luh-nard? I also like Leon.

Wallywobbles · 08/12/2022 20:15

In my late teens I had a thing for a gorgeous guy called Chester.

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Namesfordays · 08/12/2022 20:13

Right a very mixed bunch!!! It’s hard because the reasons behind the no’s are very strong and not just like Oo it’s an iffy name, I don’t want my child to ever be associated with a molesterer but I did lol at the suggestion of listing him as drawers!!

What are peoples thoughts on Leo, short for Leonard?
OH isn’t that keen but I will have a month to work on it

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Millana · 08/12/2022 20:10

I like the name Chester and it sounds nice with James.

You'll always get rude replies asking about names on here though. 🤣 IRL most people don't care all that much. If they are friends and family, they'll accept it and if they are strangers, they'll forget it 5mins after walking away.

Also I've known VERY successful people called "unique" names so it isn't a blocker. And Chester is hardly out there anyway.

However, if you've gone off the name don't keep it just because some people have bought you personalised baby grows.

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 08/12/2022 20:05

My cousin’s dog is called Chester. He’s very cute.

Veryxonfused · 08/12/2022 20:00

I don’t like it but I’ve also read threads on my planned baby names and people don’t like mine either 🤣

I don’t think it’s chavvy

Kindofcrunchy · 08/12/2022 19:56

MissHavishamsMouldyOldCake · 08/12/2022 19:37

Reception teacher here. I like the name Chester and the 'long version Winchester'.

I would have to stifle a giggle upon meeting a little Winchester. Is it not a bit much? Grin The kind of name that an American romance novelist might give to their upper class 19thc English hero.

Surely you'd go for Sam or Dean instead...? :D

ButterflyBiscuit · 08/12/2022 19:55

If you like James use that...