Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Baby names

Find baby name inspiration and advice on the Mumsnet Baby Names forum.

Middle name for Stormi?

458 replies

astyr · 02/12/2022 07:08

Having a hard time choosing. I like Autumn and DH likes Rose. But not keen on either as it sounds like a description rather than a name. Open to any and all suggestions

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Luredbyapomegranate · 02/12/2022 09:15

The thing is OP, you will be doing your baby no favours by giving her a misspelt noun as a first name.

She will still experience people making negative assumptions about her, because names carry associations with them. Many people won’t even be aware they are doing it. It’s just how the world is.

In the end you are naming a person, not a baby, and everyone deserves a name that will support them throughout life.

I can see the appeal of Storm, so I would just think of another way to spin it, so Stormi just becomes a nn.

That could be something like something like (for example) Sienna Storm. It can also work as Storm Sienna but she might like this less as it sounds a bit like a description of a hurricane, in the same way that Stormy Sienna sounds like a rainy day or a stroppy child. Autumn storm works less well as it’s such a description - but it’s OK.

JusteanBiscuits · 02/12/2022 09:15

The only person I've known called that (though Stormy) had a middle name of an object as it were.. think car, or ship. It worked surprisingly well. (But they were a very handsome adult man)

Fomn · 02/12/2022 09:14

Don't use Stormi, I say that not because I think it sounds chavy or anything like that but because it sounds like an adjective (I know it's not because it's not a real word) - one with negative connotations when applied to people. Do you really want your child to be labelled difficult/angry/temperamental/argumentative from birth?

And it's ripe for bullying because of that.

caitlinrose · 02/12/2022 09:13

Zuma76 · 02/12/2022 09:12

There is a huge amount of snobbery in this post. I wouldn’t call my child Stormi but I also wouldn’t call one Lancelot or Petunia. Please don’t call out names you associated with families who are ‘thick’. It’s just nasty and unnecessary. Surely it would be better to be smug in your own choices and keep quiet if you don’t like others. This is an adult posting not a child and she wasn’t asking for advice on the Stormi part.
I think of the suggestions so far Stormy Rae, Stormy Mae, Stormy Grace are good options. Also maybe Beth, or Bette, Maeve, Pearl, Wren, Fleur, Hope

I agree.

Zuma76 · 02/12/2022 09:12

There is a huge amount of snobbery in this post. I wouldn’t call my child Stormi but I also wouldn’t call one Lancelot or Petunia. Please don’t call out names you associated with families who are ‘thick’. It’s just nasty and unnecessary. Surely it would be better to be smug in your own choices and keep quiet if you don’t like others. This is an adult posting not a child and she wasn’t asking for advice on the Stormi part.
I think of the suggestions so far Stormy Rae, Stormy Mae, Stormy Grace are good options. Also maybe Beth, or Bette, Maeve, Pearl, Wren, Fleur, Hope

FermisLeftFoot · 02/12/2022 09:11

Also as you can see above, autocorrect will be a bitch with Stormi to Stormy forever, not to mention the baby will have to be saying ‘Stormi with an I’ for their entire life.

PiggyInTheLidl · 02/12/2022 09:11

Branleuse · 02/12/2022 07:34

No need for people to be so horrible about someone elses baby name,

The problem is that while adult women do this on a website out of earshot of a child, any child called Stormi will be subject to a lifetime of witticisms (sic)

RandomMusings7 · 02/12/2022 09:11

Alondra · 02/12/2022 09:08

A name of a child is just that, a name that may be in fashion for a time, like Kylie, Kimberly or Cheryl a decade ago.

It doesn't say anything about the parents or their child. The prejudice fall on you, not on parents, and certainly never on a child.

No. Picking a name such as Stormi definitely says something about the parents. And it's really nothing flattering.

There is something very wrong with you if you pick a pornstar/stripper name for your daughter. End of.

DosCervezas · 02/12/2022 09:11

What about a normal name like Pauline or Sharon?

FermisLeftFoot · 02/12/2022 09:10

I wouldn’t name my child something that has negative connotations myself. And I think people will take the piss or make what will become very tedious jokes - baby crying? “ohhh stormy is living up to their name heheheh”, and so on. That would get old very fast.

It might sound ‘woo’ but I believe names have power and calling a child Stormi really is asking for them to have a turbulent life or be compared to a storm for their entire life - destructive and angry.

I wouldn’t do it for that reason and i’m genuinely not trying to get at you by saying that.

QuitMoaning · 02/12/2022 09:10

I have an extremely weird middle name which embarrasses me a lot. It doesn’t often come up as it is my middle name but occasionally it does.
On my wedding day, the room fell silent and then I heard a few suppressed snorts of laughter.
Also passport checking. They usually raise an eyebrow at me. Any other times I have to provide ID.

This has been all my life and I am in my fifties. People don’t say it to your face but it follows you constantly.

caz198917 · 02/12/2022 09:09

Weather

54isanopendoor · 02/12/2022 09:09

ItWasTimeToGo · 02/12/2022 07:26

Ferri-crossin

Grin Mind you, I can talk, I went through 2 weeks when pg with Ds, of being determined to call him Ptolemy. Reader, I changed my mind Grin Seriously though OP, I think 'Stormi' is a hard name to carry off. Unless your child is confident, there is the potential for a lot of teasing / bullying in Primary school & a lifetime of correcting misspellings. That's what put me off Ptolemy (nickname: Tolly). I liked it but I dont' think my child would have thanked me !
caitlinrose · 02/12/2022 09:08

HolidaysAreComin · 02/12/2022 09:06

Nah Misty is a dog or cat's name

Stormy is way nicer than Misty, in my opinion.

VisitingThem · 02/12/2022 09:08

If you are being serious OP its weird you would want to name your child something with a negative connotation like Stormi, it also looks bad on paper with the 'i' at the end, and as this thread shows doesn't really have a good middle name without making you sounding like the kind of person who sells vagina scented candles.

Alondra · 02/12/2022 09:08

KirstenBlest · 02/12/2022 08:55

@Alondra , the name of the child says a lot about the parents. It won't just be the parents of friends thinking the name is awful.

A name of a child is just that, a name that may be in fashion for a time, like Kylie, Kimberly or Cheryl a decade ago.

It doesn't say anything about the parents or their child. The prejudice fall on you, not on parents, and certainly never on a child.

Unicorn717 · 02/12/2022 09:07

Please for the love of god pick an actual name for the middle if you're going for Stormy as a first name🤦🏼‍♀️

If not I've seen Sea and weather suggested on here which fit good with the theme😅

Fivebeanchilli · 02/12/2022 09:06

I'm afraid I agree that Stormi will be having eyes rolled for her whole life. I think Storm would be better than Stormi just because it's slightly less slebby.
But middle names that work would be:
Stormi Catherine
Stormi Eleanor
Stormi Natalia
Stormi Felicity
Stormi Louisa

BuryingAcorns · 02/12/2022 09:06

fancyacuppatea · 02/12/2022 09:02

Stormi-Mercedes
Stormi-Volvo
Stormi-Lamborghini
Stormi-Vauxhall
Stormi-Ferarri
Stormi-Honda
Stormi-Pagani-Zonda
Stormi-Smart-Car
Stormi-Backofatransit

I was thinking more Storm Porch - very retro

LadyOfTheCanyon · 02/12/2022 09:06

Apologies for random italics!

HolidaysAreComin · 02/12/2022 09:06

Guiltycat · 02/12/2022 09:05

Misty?

It’s not fantastic but still miles better than ‘Stormi’.

Nah Misty is a dog or cat's name

ErrolTheDragon · 02/12/2022 09:06

As above pick a middle name that she will be use as her first choice if she wishes; in the way that Zowie Bowie is known as Duncan Jones.

His name actually is Duncan Zowie Haywood Jones, it's more that he was known as 'Zowie Bowie' for a while. And then as a teen he called himself Joey or Joe.

Boooooot · 02/12/2022 09:05

Mumsnetters are just vile on baby names threads OP it’s a lovely name. No one in real life will think anything of it.

If you wanted a weather/nature theme then Stormi River is nice.

SpinningFloppa · 02/12/2022 09:05

I heard a stormi being called in a shop the other day, I was a bit surprised! Must have been about 2, op definitely lying about not knowing it was associated with the Kardashian’s

LadyOfTheCanyon · 02/12/2022 09:05

I judge names. I try really hard not to, but time and time again certain traits are borne out by particular types of names.

Like it or not, names are tied to our class system. It's not right, it's not fair, but it's how it is.

I'm not advocating for all children to be called Kate and Charlotte at all, but there's a middle ground of names that work across all classes to a degree and don't harm the child's chances as it grows up by being pigeonholed as 'naughty' or "chavvy".

Stormi ( please go for Stormy if you must) is the sort of name someone changes their name TO because they need a stage name. Let that be the kids choice when they're older. I'd give it as a middle name and go with something less contentious as a first.
^
And yes, your family are being kind. I have a friend with a ridiculously 'over named' child ( in her case she went too many rings UP the class ladder) and we still eye roll about it to this day.^