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Soft names for a boy

79 replies

ibis17 · 05/10/2022 13:11

Hello,

My partner and I are expecting a baby boy, but really struggling to bond with a name. For some reason we have a long list of girls names we love but it feels harder with a boy. We want something unusual, but not something that might sound too out there or put him in a line of fire re bullying. We prefer the softer sounding names that are less traditionally 'male' and like the idea of a name that is linked to nature (although this isn't essential at all). Our top name for a girl was Alba, and we love Albie and Alban, but already have friends who have used these for their children so need to avoid copying... We have a daughter who is Elinor.

Some boy ideas so far are:
Espen
Albur
Alben/ Albin
Rowan
Oskar

But if anyone feels like brainstorming further... I would love to hear alternative ideas :-)

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Stoater · 05/10/2022 22:23

I love Rufus

RebeccaNoodles · 05/10/2022 22:18

I love Linus and Joel.

Albie/Arlo/Otto are v heavily used atm.

Toby?

Takingturnstogether · 05/10/2022 22:17

Orin
Roban
Donal

Luredbyapomegranate · 05/10/2022 22:08

I would lay off the younique spellings, will just be a PITA for him

Corin
Casper
Jasper
Ernest
Laurence
Kester
Francis
Alistair
Innes
Tobias
Marius
Matthias
Gabriel
James nn Jamie
Rafe
Miles
Simon
Arnold
Wilfred
Walter
Cassian
Caspian
Lucian
Fabian
Alberic nn Bertie
Ivor
Ivo
Silas
Amos
Seth
Diggory
Barnabas / Barnaby nn Barney

Lieinthesun197244 · 05/10/2022 20:15

Daniel is lovely

BumbleUnicorn · 05/10/2022 20:11

Arbor? Irish for tree I believe.

AmandaMirandaPanda · 05/10/2022 20:09

Adam
August
Casimir
Efraïm
Elliott
Ellis
Francis
Isaiah
Joshua
William

crumble82 · 05/10/2022 20:07

Robin
jasper
Glen
Peregrin

WGO · 05/10/2022 20:05

Sian
Evan

outtheshowernow · 05/10/2022 20:02

Elliot

MerryMarigold · 05/10/2022 19:59

I thought of Robin immediately
I tend to think Matthew has a soft sound but Matt is hard

I prefer the spelling Alban to the others but won't be be Albie? How about Algie (Algernon!)

indecisivewoman81 · 05/10/2022 19:58

Finn
Flynn

rollerblind · 05/10/2022 19:58

Eben

MuchuseasaChocolateTeapot · 05/10/2022 19:57

Ooooh and

Drew
Seth

MuchuseasaChocolateTeapot · 05/10/2022 19:57

Aubrey
lysander
Matthew
Edward
Emlyn
Benedict
Solomon

Umbellifer · 05/10/2022 19:52

Merlin (v nearly used this for DS) and goes nicely with Elinor, Welsh original is Myrddin I think…also lovely.

PhotoDad · 05/10/2022 19:50

TheVanguardSix · 05/10/2022 17:58

I love Albin. My father was an Albin, OP.

Other names:
Auden
Aldous
Timothy/Timo
Emil
Cyril
Aubrey
Isidore
Clement
Julian
Jude
Peter
Ansel or Anselm
Aslan
Lyle

@TheVanguardSix My GF was an Albin! And it is my DS's middle name to honour that. I was beginning to think that he was unique.

Vitamm · 05/10/2022 19:45

Rain
Cedar
Wren
Leo
Lev
Skyler (Sky)
Finn
Jonah
Yves

wingingit33 · 05/10/2022 19:37

Robin

soundsofthesixties · 05/10/2022 18:51

I know a lovely teenage Eden.

Pinkittens · 05/10/2022 18:47

I do think Elinor and Gabriel sound good together!

Pinkittens · 05/10/2022 18:46

Gabriel

mathanxiety · 05/10/2022 18:19

I don't like Espen or Albur.

Suggestions:
Ivo
Ambrose
Ansel
George
Roland
Samuel
Raphael
Louis
Rufus
Edmund
Leo

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 05/10/2022 18:09

Flaccid?

Pinkittens · 05/10/2022 18:03

Shea
Caleb
Ethan