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My ex best friends have my favourite names

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destiney · 16/08/2022 14:57

I loved the names Alicia and Clementine before I even met these girls. I like unusual names but not 'out there' where there are unlikely to be another child with the same name in the class.

I love the name Alicia and Alice for short. But my best friend was called Alicia and she just ghosted me one day and I never heard from her again.

Everyone in my life, all my extended family watched me grow up with Alicia and I still think about her about her. It's been 6 years now since the ghosting and I would never accept her back into my life. I was heartbroken.

But I also don't want my baby to be named after her which is the first thing everyone I know will think.

I have thought about Alice but it seems so popular that I would prefer to give my child a name which is a little more unique.

The next is Clementine. Clemmie was a university friend and we lived together for four years. She was lovely and we had so much fun. She moved abroad and got quite mean after meeting a new group of very wealthy, influencer friends. She barely replied and when we eventually chatted I felt awful after talking for 30 minutes that I decided she would have to make the effort to still be in my life. She never got back in touch again.

These are the names I have wanted for years and now I'm not sure how to proceed. Do you know any other similar names?

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ChiefWiggumsBoy · 16/08/2022 16:13

Eleftheria? I think it's beautiful. I just googled the spelling (a child at my son's school has this name) and a comment under the spelling post says her yia yia had this name and went by Elsie if you want a way to Anglicise it. My yia yia was called Theodora but went by Dora I literally found out at her funeral!

Clementine I don't like at all so can only offer names completely different, sorry!

PrimroseWharf · 16/08/2022 16:04

Seconding just use the names you want to use. Once you have a child with that name you literally won’t give your old friends a second thought it will just become her name.

Ravenclawdropout · 16/08/2022 16:04

Anastasia
Felicity
Felicia
Naomi

I started to write a few ideas off the top of my head but actually thought Anastasia was Russian because its so popular there; But looked up some suggestions of names popular in modern Greece and found it was Greek, as is my own name. You learn something new every day...

nameberry.com/baby-names/507/greek-names-for-girls

toffeechai · 16/08/2022 16:03

I’d just use them. You’ll remember your lovely child long after you have forgotten these people.

destiney · 16/08/2022 15:59

@HinchcliffeandMurgatroyd do you have any other suggestions? I really like greek names :)

I think Althea sounds too much like Alfie which is the name of someone close to me so I would want to avoid

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Mymincepie · 16/08/2022 15:53

Alyssa
Eliza
Althea
Esther

HinchcliffeandMurgatroyd · 16/08/2022 15:40

There are some beautiful Greek names.

How about Athena, Calliope or Calypso?

Marcipex · 16/08/2022 15:38

Clemency
Stacia

SalviaOfficinalis · 16/08/2022 15:38

What about Althea rather than Alethea?

destiney · 16/08/2022 15:35

@User6761 Thank you for all your suggestions.

I can't explain why I just love the name Alice/Alicia. It just feels the right balance between being a beautiful name and being strong. I am greek and have a greek name so Alicia being greek was a lovely tie in. Alicia is the name I always called my imaginary children as a kid.

I heard a name I really liked recently Alethea- but to me it sounded like someone saying Alicia with a lisp. I can't get that our my head now.

I like clementine because it feels so warm and summery and happy. It's elegant and has a lovely nick name too. It's fairly unusual although becoming more popular.

Thank you for all your suggestions

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CoffeeBeansGalore · 16/08/2022 15:32

Elise
Ellie
Genevieve
Madeleine
Adelaide
Madison

BasiliskStare · 16/08/2022 15:26

I would not worry about it - my son has the name of an ex boyfriend's dog. Not once do I worry about it

DancingUnderTheLights · 16/08/2022 15:25

Lucia
Constantine

User6761 · 16/08/2022 15:25

For 'Al' names (All could be shortened to Ali):

Alice
Alison
Allegra

Other suggestions
Adelaide
Adeline
Emmeline
Octavia
Alexandra
Florence
Meredith

What is it you liked about the names Alicia and Clementine OP?

Whitewolf2 · 16/08/2022 15:24

Caroline
Cora
Amelie
Emmeline
Amelia

SequinsandStilettos · 16/08/2022 15:12

Clementine Alice

Patienceisntvirtuous · 16/08/2022 15:07

Ailsa
Serendipity
Shiloh
Helena
Marilyn
Juliet

Trisolaris · 16/08/2022 15:03

Similar in sound? Or in type

As a starting point how do you feel about

Alison/Alyson
Emmeline
Evangeline

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