Hi oh wise mums! I want some honest feedback on names. My second baby, a boy is due in a couple of months. I already have a daughter called Emilia, who we almost exclusively call Emmie and I want to make sure the two names fit together. Me and my husband rarely agree on any names but we are both pretty happy with Rafael, to be known as Raff or Rafa (similar to how we use Emmie). So Emilia and Rafael; Emmie and Raff…So my questions…we are completely white British, no Mediterranean influence (although Hebrew heritage on one side and strong non family links to Portugal where we visit twice a year)- is Rafael appropriate? This is my main worry-I really like the name and LOVE the nn (Rafferty is an absolute non starter for hubby btw) but wonder if it conjures up Spanish/Portuguese vibes. Also, what would I use for eg. his stocking, personalised rucksack, nursery register etc…Raff or Rafa or other? We use Emmie for those sorts of things…the longer name is really just so they have options in later life (and for when they’re naughty 😂😂) thoughts welcome please 😀 🙏