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Bow for a girl?

155 replies

stacestation · 31/05/2022 20:54

What do people think of this? Have you ever heard of this being used as a full first name?

Woman from school derides popular names. Apparently her daughter has a unique 'name' though to call it a name is a bit of a stretch as I recently discovered the girl is called Bow, as in a hair bow, not bow and arrow.

The unfortunate part is that the area they're in all the local accents, including their own, pronounce it as Bore. I feel sorry for the poor girl. I can't mention the middle name as that would be outing, but that's even worse. The poor girl, it doesn't aspire to much.

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Marcipex · 14/04/2024 09:18

I know a little girl called Beaux. I actually told DH that he was wrong and she couldn’t be…but she is.
Anyway I expect she’s in a class with Honey-Mae and Sigh Ann so no one cares except the French teacher.

Beauregard however is a wonderful traditional name.

Zola1 · 14/04/2024 07:55

I know of a little girl called Bow. It isn't for me but it's not offensive or anything

Catopia · 14/04/2024 07:44

I think sometimes people forget they are naming a human, that may want to apply for a serious jobs, and not a chihuahua or a kitten. If you want to call child something like this, think of a sensible actual name (Roberta perhaps in this case), and use it as a nickname.

YellowHatt · 14/04/2024 07:28

stacestation · 31/05/2022 21:38

Bodhi, Bo and Beau are proper names.

The inspiration for 'bow' being a hair bow, and the unfortunate local pronunciation, I found quite sad.

Are you certain the inspiration was a hair bow? I’ve heard the name before in relation to rainbow 🌈 and in relation specifically to ‘rainbow babies’.

SunnyFog · 14/04/2024 07:18

Okay, so the OP came on here sneering at a real child's name, and sneering at their accent, and several posters have joined on the bullying. Shame on you.
The Babynames board is for sharing information and stories to help mums weave magic around their child's name.
Bow is a good name, it's short, sweet, easy to write, comes with a readymade emoji.

MumChp · 14/04/2024 00:59

Bow?
No. Just no.

SnowFrogJelly · 14/04/2024 00:55

Bow = awful

KnickerlessParsons · 13/04/2024 23:19

pinkmags · 13/04/2024 13:34

You can't call a girl Beau! Beau is the masculine form of Belle.

People call their girls Esmé, the masculine form of Esmée

Doesn't make it right.

pinkmags · 13/04/2024 13:34

You can't call a girl Beau! Beau is the masculine form of Belle.

People call their girls Esmé, the masculine form of Esmée

KnickerlessParsons · 13/04/2024 10:31

IstayedForTheFeminism · 31/05/2022 21:00

Hair bow and bow and arrow are the same bow Confused

Bow is an awful name.
Beau is OK.

You can't call a girl Beau! Beau is the masculine form of Belle.

raspberryberet7 · 13/04/2024 09:14

SummaLuvin · 31/05/2022 21:08

I'm not trying to be unkind honestly

yet you made a thread on a public form with the sole purpose to bash/mock a childs name?

This. You're being very u kind and judgemental and presuming lots of things about a child based on her name just because you don't like it. Your post is awful tbh

Hoppinggreen · 13/04/2024 09:01

Can I advise people not to use the name Bow in Yorkshire.
It will be pronounced "Ber" and sound pretty awful

SunnyFog · 13/04/2024 08:30

TwirlBar · 12/04/2024 23:36

@SunnyFog I don't know how it was pronounced historically, but anglicisations are often approximations and unreliable as a guide.

Maybe but it's more likely a result of learners exaggerating the slender b. Described below from http://www.akerbeltz.org/index.php?title=Broad_vs_Slender

" First, Scottish Gaelic has lost some sounds. There used to be a slender [bʲ] [pʲ] [mʲ] [fʲ], but that distinction has been lost and replaced by a [j] glide before back vowels, and before front vowels, it's gone completely, e.g. bidh [biː]. What's the difference? The difference is that [bʲ] is one sound made with one smooth motion in your mouth. However, in modern Gaelic we get [bjɔː] beò in which three sounds are heard: [b], [j]. and an [ɔː]."

In Irish some native speakers do still use the old slender b. You can hear it on teanglann.ie in the Connacht recording for "beoir" (beer) but my phone is refusing to copy the link so you'll have search yourself.

Broad vs Slender - Goireasan Akerbeltz

http://www.akerbeltz.org/index.php?title=Broad_vs_Slender

TwirlBar · 12/04/2024 23:36

@SunnyFog I don't know how it was pronounced historically, but anglicisations are often approximations and unreliable as a guide.

SunnyFog · 12/04/2024 22:38

TwirlBar · 12/04/2024 21:18

But beo in Irish is not pronounced the same as bow is in English?

Well the OP is highlighting that this child pronounces her name like the OP says "bore" - i am guessing OP has s non-rhotic accent and the child herself is saying the name like "bó".
But I don't think historically "beo" had the y in it that modern accents have, hence why the Anglicised name is Bowie and not Beeyowee.
(hope not too technical.)

marshmallowfinder · 12/04/2024 21:23

stacestation · 31/05/2022 21:31

Better than the millions of Evas and Amelias I'd say.

I disagree. There's nothing wrong with a popular name, they're popular for a reason. There are still plenty of 'proper' names to choose if you want something unusual.

Waaaaay better than Amelia for sure, that means "absence of limbs."

TwirlBar · 12/04/2024 21:18

SunnyFog · 12/04/2024 20:09

Beautiful name.
In Irish "beo" means alive/lively.
There is a gorgeous Irish name meaning "living fire" which is often spelt "Bowie" to make it readable.
I love that it's different to the "-aya" names.

But beo in Irish is not pronounced the same as bow is in English?

mum1345 · 12/04/2024 20:17

Just commenting to say I have an 11 year old daughter Beau 😅
I love it, she loves it and most people seem to love her name too ❤️

I'm sure there'll be a few people on this thread appalled by my name choice!

SunnyFog · 12/04/2024 20:09

Beautiful name.
In Irish "beo" means alive/lively.
There is a gorgeous Irish name meaning "living fire" which is often spelt "Bowie" to make it readable.
I love that it's different to the "-aya" names.

Aprilshowers24 · 12/04/2024 16:38

I don't see how this effects you as it's not your child or your choice.
I know from personal experience how upsetting it can be to have my child's name pulled apart because it isn't to the taste of certain individuals.
It's one thing expressing an opinion on a name of a baby yet to be born (when people have asked for your opinion), but to pull a child's name apart who already owns that name is completely unnecessary.

pinkmags · 12/04/2024 14:52

pronounce it as Bore

Where on earth do you live to pronounce Bow as Bore?Confused

MolkosTeenageAngst · 12/04/2024 14:29

https://names.darkgreener.com/#bow

Around 20 baby girls are named Bow each year in the UK plus a handful of boys so whilst it’s not by any means a common name it’s not completely unique or unheard of one.

Baby Names in England & Wales

Find the perfect name for your baby or spot naming trends - explore the names chosen for babies in England and Wales since 1996.

https://names.darkgreener.com/#bow

flisch · 12/04/2024 14:25

I knew someone who named her daughter Beau, she said it was French for beautiful. Someone pointed out the feminine was Belle. She regretted the name after that.

Clare88881111 · 12/04/2024 02:41

My daughters name is Bow and I love it Daisie-Bow to be precise and everyone calls her Bow.
I have Charlotte-Louise , Lillie and Connor and I wanted diffrent for my 4th . She is also a Rainbow Baby

blameitonthecaffeine · 04/06/2022 02:14

No strong feelings on Bow/Bo/Beau but I'm so jealous of these women called Bohemia and Isabeau - very cool.

Bow would be Bore in a strong Cumbrian accent, I think. And maybe in a Geordie/Durham/Mackem type accent too.