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Vita, cleo or tessa/tess?

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Betweentheacts1 · 19/05/2022 06:59

Struggling to choose a name for dd2. Shortlist is vita, cleo and tessa/tess. Dd1 is Greta. I don’t mind marmite names but have a few concerns about our shortlist.

Vita - too unusual/try hard? Cleo - too unserious as a name? Tessa - too bland? Tess - bad hardy associations? Also doesn’t flow with the surname.

Definitely reached the overthinking stage… not looking for new name suggestions as getting to this point has been painful enough! Thanks!

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LowryLowry · 21/05/2022 18:33

I really like Tess, not keen on Tessa - feel like Tess is quite strong sounding and Tessa dilutes it a bit. Could it be a nn for Esther? I dislike Vita, too harsh sounding to me... I like Vera. I like Cleo too and probably goes with Greta best if that matters to you - no 't' sound. Reminds me of Cleopatra, so not unserious at all.

Luredbyapomegranate · 21/05/2022 17:47

They are all nice, in order

Cleo (although prefer Clio), because it’s spunky, has good associations and doesn’t sound too similar to Greta

Then Tess, although I would use Esther or something as a full name as it is v nicknamey. It’s not as sparky as Cleo but it’s a classic.

Vita I do quite like on its own, but Greta and Vita do sound like a pair of cats or something

CaptaNoctem · 21/05/2022 13:48

How about the Welsh " Tesni"?

Snowiscold · 21/05/2022 13:44

I like Vita, but not sure how it sounds alongside Greta. Maybe too similar in sound. I think it’s my favourite.

Cleo is growing on me, but I prefer Clio. Most people will inevitably spell it Cleo or accuse you of making up spellings, sadly.

Tess and Tessa both nice. I think the Hardy association is fine. However, both do seem slightly dog names to me. I could get over that.

Yika · 21/05/2022 12:17

Vita and Tessa are nice but sound too similar to Greta. I love Cleo or Clio.
what about
Chloe
Zoe
Lana
Iona
Cara
Carmen

Hadtocomment · 21/05/2022 10:08

There is also the name Clea. Not sure if that is how it's spelt. If you want to get away from the car thing.

AWOL66 · 21/05/2022 01:08

I love the name Cleo. A friend of a friend had that name and she was lovely and I thought of it the opposite to what you're worrying about - as a solid name for a trustworthy, kind, successful type of person. PS I love the name Greta as I work with one who's a really good laugh :-)

DramaAlpaca · 21/05/2022 00:49

I think Vita is a little too similar to Greta - though if you pronounce Greta as 'gretta' with a short 'e' as I would then it would be fine. They are certainly in the same style. I don't think it's too out there.

I love Tess, more than Tessa, but would rule it out if it doesn't flow with the surname.

I love Cleo too, and it goes well with Greta. I'd go for Cleo, definitely not Clio.

I know you don't want to be bombarded with other suggestions, but Margot goes beautifully with Greta...

PiratePetespajamas · 21/05/2022 00:41

Tessa/Tess is beautiful - classic, pretty unusual, straightforward. I prefer Tessa, but Tess is nice too - hardly anyone will think of Hardy.

cleo is a car model.vita sounds ugly to me.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 21/05/2022 00:34

All work well with Greta and are lovely choices so it's quite hard to pick.

Probably Tess or maybe Vita as both sound strong names in there own right to me but are also historical nn's like Greta is for Margaret (Victoria, Teresa). Tessa is a bit more wishy washy to me and Cleo/Clio sounds that touch trendier somehow (although very cool).

It depends on whether you want something that feels/sounds more distinct from Greta (Tess) or a bit closer (Vita).

KirstenBlest · 20/05/2022 10:07

But of course Tessa could also be Tess

KirstenBlest · 20/05/2022 10:03

Greta and Tessa will not be 'Greta & Tessa' much so I wouldn't worry about that
If you had another child they'd be 'Greta, Tessa and Bobbie' or whatever

I think Tess sounds more sassy than Tessa.

SneezesHaveStarted · 20/05/2022 09:38

I love Tessa (much prefer it to Tess) but I think it doesn’t flow so well with Greta - a bit too similar and too many Ts.
I would pick Cleo (spelled that way!), I can imagine a Cleo at every age working well.
I don’t like Vita at all, sorry, and especially not with Greta.

Riverlee · 20/05/2022 08:36

The only vita I know is the one connected to Sissinghurst (photo below). I believe it was a Nick name for Victoria, so maybe Victoria, nn Vita?

Vita, cleo or tessa/tess?
Vita, cleo or tessa/tess?
TeenPlusCat · 20/05/2022 08:32

Theresa, and shorten however you fancy.

SpaceJamtart · 20/05/2022 08:31

Cleo and Tessa are really nice names, I've known a couple and its than nice area of established names that aren't common.

Vita just sounds like a health supplement or an bran cereal, I think maybe its the Ryvita/Vita life assocciations for me.

Betweentheacts1 · 20/05/2022 07:46

@TempsPerdu yes v similar! I think I’m struggling to choose this name because I love Greta so much.

will have a think about the cleo/clio thing.

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peaceinourtime · 20/05/2022 00:47

& Consider Nita if you really like the ita ending.

peaceinourtime · 20/05/2022 00:46

Please go with Tess/Tessa. Vita sounds like/it may actually be a company. I don't understand the attraction of Cleo as a name, it comes off as a cute name but could you really imagine meeting a 80 plus old women with that name?

MissPocket · 19/05/2022 13:26

I love Vita and Cleo! But I prefer Cleo with Greta I think.

emmathedilemma · 19/05/2022 13:02

Greta and Tessa is a bit too matchy for me. I prefer Cleo. Not a fan of Vita, it sounds like a brand of cheap magarine!

TempsPerdu · 19/05/2022 12:06

Our tastes seem virtually identical OP - DD is also a Greta, and all of your ideas made our shortlist.

Personally I feel that, much as a I adore Vita, it’s too samey with Greta - very similar sounds. Tess/Tessa I like, but I do know what you mean by bland - it seems a bit ‘dowdy’ somehow, but I can’t quite put my finger on why - maybe because it’s so popular as a dog/pet name?

Cleo I think is wonderful although I’m another who’d spell it Clio like the muse (despite the inevitable car comments). Not flimsy or unserious at all imo, and it would definitely be my pick of the three.

Betweentheacts1 · 19/05/2022 10:53

@BlueKaftan i like Hannah but know too many to use the name (including family members and good friends). Reassuring re tess though thinking about it the hardy ref might be more of a problem for me personally rather than a problem because of what other people might think… hmmmm

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FayCarew · 19/05/2022 09:52

Tess

Betweentheacts1 · 19/05/2022 09:37

@Rainbowqueeen love astrid but dh doesn’t (plus he thinks it’s too much of a scandi theme with Greta). clementine feels a little bit too sweet for me…

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