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Names not of their era

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pitterypattery00 · 25/04/2022 21:59

Do you have a name that is unusual for its era (in that it's usually associated with people born at a different time)? Did you like having a 'different' name. If it subsequently became more popular, was that a positive thing?

My own name firmly dates me to my era (late 70s/early 80s) so I don't have personal experience. But as a child I knew children my age called Dorothy, Edith, Frances, Roy, Ronald, and Norma. They generally disliked their names and other kids viewed them as very uncool names. There was also an Olivia - her name was seen as unusual and very posh!

I ask because on baby name threads it's often seen as a negative if names are very popular/trendy/rising up the charts, and one of the reasons given is that it will become dated. But maybe children are happy having a name that is similar in style to their peers?

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Diversion · 26/04/2022 21:34

I hate my name which has been mentioned on here and have mostly been known by a shortened version since I was 16 which my parents hate. I also hate the shortened version and intend to change my name to my chosen name which close friends call me by once there is nobody to be offended by the change and will also change my surname to neither my maiden or married name.

BlackLambAndGreyFalcon · 26/04/2022 21:34

I was born in the early 1980s and my first name was most popular in the 1940s. I absolutely hated it (and still do) I'm afraid. People's mums were called my name but nobody of my generation. It's a really harsh sounding name as well and it definitely has not come back into fashion. I've gone by my middle name for the past 20 years!

pitterypattery00 · 26/04/2022 21:34

Good point @SomersetONeil , I guess each generation likes to find names fresh to them.

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pitterypattery00 · 26/04/2022 21:32

I had two dolls that I named Carol and Susan, I thought those were the nicest names aged 5!

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ZoyaTheDestroyer · 26/04/2022 21:28

I went to university with a very cool Jean.

woodhill · 26/04/2022 21:24

Lots of thenmums in the 70s seemed to have the name June, would be in their 80s now

SomersetONeil · 26/04/2022 21:08

My DD (11) loves the name June, which I think is hilarious. She loves it because June is the interesting/strong character from Mallory Towers.

All those names are completely unheard of and fresh to Generation Z ears.

RosesAndHellebores · 26/04/2022 20:48

There must be a huge come back vibe for: Joan, Jean, Mary, Patricia, Joyce, Shirley, Silvia, Barbara, Marion, etc.

RosesAndHellebores · 26/04/2022 20:46

My dd says if ever she has a girl, she'll call her Joan.

pitterypattery00 · 26/04/2022 19:08

LadyDanburysHat · 26/04/2022 15:52

I am also late 70's early 80's. I went to school with a Joan. My own Mum is named Joan, and thinks it was old ladyish for her born in the 50s as most that she knew were the generation before her.

I know a Joan in her late 30s, her sister also has a bit of a dated name but not in the same datedness league as Joan! No idea if she likes her name but she gave her own child a much more modern one.

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ZoyaTheDestroyer · 26/04/2022 18:26

Sarah or Rach(a)el is my guess!

spiderlight · 26/04/2022 17:16

I grew up in the 70s/80s with a very old-fashioned name and I hated it. Practically everyone else my age who asked my name would immediately respond 'That's my mum's middle name' or 'That's my gran's name'. I was the only person in my school with that name and it's dull enough that it hasn't come back into fashion with all the other granny-chic names. I was teased for it (amongst other things) and longed to share a name with someone else in my class like all the other Sarahs and Lisas.

woodhill · 26/04/2022 16:38

eggandonion · 26/04/2022 16:08

Are you Mary? Anne has vanished, my poor sil is Ann which is even more vanished!

I thought Jane

Echobelly · 26/04/2022 16:14

I'm in my 40s at went to secondary school in the 90s with a Beverley, which at the time was much more of a name for our parents' generation, so that was a bit out of it's time.

My own name seems relatively unusual in my generation and seems to have made a bit of a comeback in recent years - it's more common in girls about 30 years younger than me.

eggandonion · 26/04/2022 16:08

Are you Mary? Anne has vanished, my poor sil is Ann which is even more vanished!

TheSillyMastiff · 26/04/2022 16:02

Just realised, that wasn't the question 😂 ignore me.

I suppose my name is "always of the era" because it's always popular. It has declined in recent years though, so may come back up in to the top 50.

TheSillyMastiff · 26/04/2022 15:59

I have one of the most common girls names, always in the top 100 has been since records began 😂

I cant say I've ever really thought about my name. It's easy to spell, easy to pronounce and people and me just think "yeah common girls/woman's name" I think. Professionally it just works, again because everyone knows it, knows how to spell it and pronounce it. In school it was also easy to learn to write it so that was a bonus.

My mother didn't really go for "out there names" or tried to be "trendy", just gave me and my brother simple, biblical classical names, and I'm glad she did. I've no want to "stand out" suits me.

Simple, timeless but "boring", but it works so can't complain 🤷🏻‍♀️

LadyDanburysHat · 26/04/2022 15:52

I am also late 70's early 80's. I went to school with a Joan. My own Mum is named Joan, and thinks it was old ladyish for her born in the 50s as most that she knew were the generation before her.

CareBearsCare · 26/04/2022 15:49

I have a middle name that's popular with babies born in the last 10 years.

When I was a child I didn't like it because it was old fashioned but by the time I was an adult I was indifferent to it.

steppemum · 26/04/2022 15:12

my name is typical of the 1970s, but it is a nice name, and actually a classic.

There were none aroudn when mum names me, as I was born late 60s. By mid 70s it was really popular.

I love my name, but I am really glad that she was ahead of the game, so there were no others in my class. When I went ot uni, on our corridor of 10 girls there were 4 Sarahs 🙄

So with my kids I tried to do the same, classic name that isn't super popular, but is not out of its era. It seems to have worked (although ds name is now REALLY popular, it wasn;t when he was named).

Babdoc · 26/04/2022 15:00

I gave my second DD (born in 1990) her great grandmother’s name. GG was born in the late 19th century, so her name is actually Victorian!
It is a bit quirky and anachronistic nowadays, but it is full of character, as is DD, and it’s unique among her friends and peer group. DD moaned a bit when at primary school age, but is happy with it now she’s an adult.

pitterypattery00 · 26/04/2022 14:57

I remembered that in my late 20s I had an appointment with a mortgage advisor named Mr. Norman Smith. I was anticipating an older guy in his 60s. Turns out Norman was in his mid 20s and a very handsome young man indeed! Instead of focusing on my mortgage options I think I spent most of appointment thinking 'I can't believe he's called Norman', 'why did his parents call him Norman?', 'poor Norman, what an awful name' 😂😂😂

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pitterypattery00 · 26/04/2022 14:51

Thanks for all the responses - really interesting to hear everyone's experiences.

@Snoopsnoggysnog I don't find it pointless as I'm not interested in what people's names are per se, I'm interested in how people felt as a child/feel now about having a name that was unusual for their age group, but common at other times.

@MumofSpud oh yes it was always exciting to find a pencil with your name on it. But good point @DuchessOfSausage I never considered that some poor kids with common names with multiple spellings would miss out on such delights 😂

@Nogardenersworld good point about names being on the upturn versus end of trend. My own name is very much towards the end of a trend - I think mine peaked early 70s, I was born late 70s and by the mid 80s it had all but disappeared. I may have inadvertently given my son a similar name only time will tell.

@eggandonion Vanessa is indeed very chic! Not sure I could have pulled off such a stylish name 😂 - I'd have been happy being an Emma or Caroline I think!

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DuchessOfSausage · 26/04/2022 14:17

Snoopsnoggysnog · 26/04/2022 10:35

These threads are pointless as people hardly give the name!

I would but as there weren't many with my name, it would probably out me.

I never liked the name Tracey. I don't dislike it but can't see the appeal. I don' like Nicola or Claire either.

I felt sorry for the kids who had the less popular spelling of their name, so the plastic tat was with the usual spelling and not Tracy, Michele, Darrin, Lynsey, Karin etc

lanbro · 26/04/2022 14:17

I'll say mine, Lucinda, born 1980. I hated it growing up and went through a whole ream if nicknames, including Cindy! I have only met 2 others and it's a bit weird! I am generally known now as Lu, and people who have only ever heard it rather than seen it written down always assume I'm Louise.

I think it's an ageless name though, it's often suggested on baby name threads

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