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Is Aisling too boring?

36 replies

Snowbell99 · 11/03/2022 11:44

Aisling has always been one of my favourite Irish names. I love the meaning and sound.

But I am wondering if it is perceived as too boring or too generic, especially in Ireland but also England, Scotland etc.

I know that it was very common in Ireland in the 80s and 90s (top 10) and that it is one of the better known Irish name outside of Ireland (which is also a positive thing in many ways).

But I read online that Irish people say "You are such an Aisling" for a generic person, is it true? And then there is a book "Oh my god, what a complete Aisling" which also sees Aisling as a generic name.

On the other hand it is still being used in Ireland so it can't be that bad? What would you say? I also wonder why Aisling was chosen for this as other Irish names like Niamh and Siobhán or Aoife were way more common.

I love the movie "Secret of Kells" which features an Aisling and the meaning. I love both ASH-ling and ASH-leen but I think I prefer ASH-leen. Do you think ASH-leen will work or will people say ASH-ling all of the time?

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Youcansaythatagainandagain · 12/03/2022 00:19

I like it, it has a softness to it that most Irish names don't have. It isn't exciting but what is an exciting Irish name? Fiadh is about as exciting as Irish names get and that isn't exciting either. The names are old but thats part of their appeal.

Moyny · 12/03/2022 00:12

The books are huge in Ireland, but unlikely to be read widely internationally, but the name is so common anyway it’s not as if they’d popularised something very obscure. I mean, I don’t think subsequent baby Aislings will be stuck with the label of being nice, sensible country girls who don’t dye their hair, think a pair of gold earrings dresses up any outfit, and are trusted with the keys to the stationary cupboard.

AdultingInTheCountryside · 11/03/2022 23:54

Yes very

Alfixnm · 11/03/2022 23:48

Also Irish. The books are not particularly famous enough that people will immediately think of the book series when they hear it IMO. It's a beautiful and classic name and I woukd use it myself if there wasn't one in the wider family already.

Also, I would always pronounce it ash-LING, even if it was spelled Aislinn (but I'm from munster where "linn" is pronounced "ling" in the Irish language).

Anotherdayanotherdollar · 11/03/2022 22:54

I'm Irish. Have never heard anyone being described as an "Aisling" however....

MartinMartinMarti · 11/03/2022 22:51

I really like it. It’s a soft sound but for some reason I’d associate it with a strong woman.

I’m in England with no Irish connections.

Tsuni · 11/03/2022 17:16

I don't think it's boring. I like it.

In Britain, the name doesn't have a reputation for being boring.

Luredbyapomegranate · 11/03/2022 15:20

I really like it. Not boring at all. Pretty but sharp and clear

I'd say Ash-lin but that's because I always just assumed it was a spelling variation on Aislinn

OrangeAndYellowAndBlue · 11/03/2022 12:57

I absolutely love this name - it was on our shortlist. I would say ash-ling (in England). I would expect ash-leen in Northern Ireland, maybe. I also know someone who spells it Aislinn.

I've read all those books, and they're pretty affectionate about the character. Her foibles are fairly harmless. It's along the lines of calling someone "such a Bridget [Jones]" - I don't think the name is too closely tied to that character, and the books aren't that negative anyway, so I don't see it as a problem.

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 11/03/2022 11:50

I also wonder why Aisling was chosen for this as other Irish names like Niamh and Siobhán or Aoife were way more common.

I suspect the creators of the Aisling books (I think they're a writing duo?) each knew an Aisling that fitted the character they had in mind.

I think it's a nice name, if not the most exciting. I like the softness of it, but would pronounce it ash-ling, never ash-leen. Ash-leen is the pronunciation I'd expect to hear in the UK. But it doesn't sound as nice.

Love, love, love all the Cartoon Saloon films so its inclusion in The Secret of Kells is a plus Smile

ReeseWitherfork · 11/03/2022 11:45

Where are you OP?