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French-English Baby Names

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Gallia2022 · 09/03/2022 10:52

Hello,

I'm starting this thread as my partner and I are expecting a child in 3 months and we are looking for French or "mixed" baby names (i.e. French names which can be easily pronounced and sound nice in English or names that are both French and English). My problem is that my partner is very picky! I have a list and would be interested to know what English-speaking people think of these names before I talk to him. I think some might be a bit too "out there" for his taste, but I would be however curious to know what people make of them. We don't know if the baby is a boy or a girl so we have to consider both:

Boys:
Remy
Pierre
Joseph
Auguste
Emile
Armand
Edgar
Mayeul

Girls:
Iris
Leonie
Beatrice
Octavie/Octavia
Adelaide
Blanche
Garance

Please let me know if you have other suggestions!

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CormoranStrike · 11/03/2022 20:26

Marc
Thierry
Pierre
Luc

Amelie
Sophie

Gallia2022 · 11/03/2022 20:24

@WutheringCripes

I love love love Garance.
Me too but it doesn’t seem to be a very popular choice unfortunately!
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Gallia2022 · 11/03/2022 20:17

@Leeloo1233

Iris is pronounced quite differently in French and English, that's why we didn't choose it for our french/english dd if that matters to you?
No it doesn’t matter to me!
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TatianaBis · 11/03/2022 20:17

Or were they just more confident and less teasable, it’s really not about the names.

KirstenBlest · 11/03/2022 20:05

@TatianaBis, Lizzie Dripping isn't a compliment and Austin Allegro was a bit of a joke car.. Those weren't the actual insults but along the same sort of lines. My friends with more conventional names didn't get teased.

TatianaBis · 11/03/2022 19:51

Some kids had terrible nn that in hindsight were cruel. Not the actual ones but things like Fat Karen, Specky Becky, Susan Snot etc

This is the point- there is no name you can’t turn into something derogatory. And if they really can’t think of anything kids just pick on something about appearance, or even just makes things up like the fat jibe.

Lizzie dripping or Austin allegro aren’t even rude.

KirstenBlest · 11/03/2022 19:45

It was TatianaBis. Think something like Lizzie Dripping or Austin Allegro type jokes. Neither particularly bothered me but that was because I didn't rise to it. The fat-shaming nn was Confused as AFAIK I wasn't. NN were often alliterative or a play on their names

Had I been more sensitive I would have been hurt.

Some kids had terrible nn that in hindsight were cruel. Not the actual ones but things like Fat Karen, Specky Becky, Susan Snot etc

peaceinourtime · 11/03/2022 19:28

For male names Remy is nice as are Stéphane, Thierry and François convert well into English. However I knew a Stephane who would put Mr Stephane on his email footnote as some people thought it was Stephanie.

TatianaBis · 11/03/2022 18:52

I was teased about my first name and surname. I also was given a fat-shaming nickname yet the photos of me show a skinny looking kid.

For whatever reason you seemed vulnerable. It wasn’t about your name any more than it was about being fat (you weren’t).

There are Lysander and Calypsos who get through school with not a mention of their names.

ANY name can be teasable. All the Ellies in the world could easily be called smelly, Matt scat, Leo peeo, Lucas pukas etc.

KirstenBlest · 11/03/2022 18:45

@TatianaBis, I disagree with you about the bullying. Other kids will look for a weak point and an unusual name is ripe for the picking.

You can teach a child to be resilient, but other kids can be cruel

I was teased about my first name and surname. I also was given a fat-shaming nickname yet the photos of me show a skinny looking kid.

Some of the surnames were ripe for teasing, but a friend whose surname is Steel was teased 'Steal by nature' and it still upsets him

Gallia2022 · 11/03/2022 18:29

Thanks for your comments, I grew up with so many Amandines, Delphines, Elodies… these names sound overused to me now. Nothing wrong with them though, they are perfectly ok names! Pronunciation/accents are not really an issue to me.

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timestheyarechanging · 11/03/2022 16:06

Boys
Remy - I have a lovely friend with that name
Girls
Fleur - I went to school with a stunning girl with that name

TatianaBis · 11/03/2022 15:57

@MimiDaisy11

I like Manon in French and met a really cool French woman with that name so I have positive connotations to it. Unfortunately, I don't think it works in the UK. I think kids will see the words "man" and "on" and so wouldn't be good for bullying if she were a bit masculine.
Posters are obsessed with bullying on here.

No-one gets bullied for their name, but because they’re vulnerable in some way. You can make anyone’s name into something funny or rude. And if you can’t you can seize on something else about them.

TatianaBis · 11/03/2022 15:54

I like Iris, Blanche and Beatrice, Edgar and Joseph.

My favourite French names are Manon, Capucine, Apolline, Romane, Maëlys, Thibault, Sébastien, Gabriel, Raphaël, Joachim.

I completely disagree that Manon doesn’t work in the U.K., it’s a Welsh name also. However it depends slightly where you live - in London or in Wales - no problem at all, elsewhere - n’importe quoi.

Maëlys doesn’t work here as everyone would just say Mayliss, but Anaïs does, and people do know how to pronounce it.

KirstenBlest · 11/03/2022 15:37

I don't think Hot School Dinners is a suitable name and your post looks like a scam

DaddyAmil · 11/03/2022 15:28

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KirstenBlest · 11/03/2022 15:27

@Taswama

Having two different pronounciations of your name is fine too. Both me and my brother's name are pronounced differently by our French and English families (and friends). My sons' names also work in both languages with a different pronounciation. As long as you are comfortable with the English way of saying it and aren't going to get stressed trying to enforce the 'correct' pronounciation when they start meeting people without you there (so school at the latest).

Just like you shouldn't choose Joseph if you can't stand Joe as a nickname.

I know some who are OK with it and some who are not, but basically you don't have much choice. For some reason, the boy's names fare better, maybe because they are simpler (I'm thinking Marc, Simon, Sebastien, Thomas etc vs Elodie, Amelie, Genevieve Stephanie - sorry cba with alt codes)
Squeakerfoot · 11/03/2022 15:18

I just thought of Jasmine to add to my suggestions.

It's true that a lot of the crossover names seem a little dated in one culture or the other, but they can still be lovely names.

babyjellyfish · 11/03/2022 14:51

Are you looking for names which are currently in use in France, OP?

A lot of the ones on your list would be quite unusual here.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 11/03/2022 13:43

@Taswama

Having two different pronounciations of your name is fine too. Both me and my brother's name are pronounced differently by our French and English families (and friends). My sons' names also work in both languages with a different pronounciation. As long as you are comfortable with the English way of saying it and aren't going to get stressed trying to enforce the 'correct' pronounciation when they start meeting people without you there (so school at the latest).

Just like you shouldn't choose Joseph if you can't stand Joe as a nickname.

This is a good point. I am English, but have French relatives and went to the French Lycee in London. My name is spelt the sane in English and French, which is helpful, but pronounced differently, which isn’t really a problem.
WutheringCripes · 11/03/2022 13:24

I love love love Garance.

Taswama · 11/03/2022 08:05

Having two different pronounciations of your name is fine too. Both me and my brother's name are pronounced differently by our French and English families (and friends). My sons' names also work in both languages with a different pronounciation. As long as you are comfortable with the English way of saying it and aren't going to get stressed trying to enforce the 'correct' pronounciation when they start meeting people without you there (so school at the latest).

Just like you shouldn't choose Joseph if you can't stand Joe as a nickname.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 11/03/2022 06:51

Other ideas to play with, of a Anglo/French people I know

Stella
Anna
Arabella
Alice
Zoe (she is officially Zoë, but has adopted Zoé unofficially)
Agnés (although Agnes is old fashioned in English)
Amelie
Alexandra
Chantal

Marco
Darius
Jaques
Thomas
Robert
Martin
Emile
Benoit, known as Ben
Louis

Leeloo1233 · 11/03/2022 06:30

Iris is pronounced quite differently in French and English, that's why we didn't choose it for our french/english dd if that matters to you?

Saisong · 10/03/2022 23:27

My latest neice born in France is Sybille

If she had been male then in contention was Patrick, which apparently works in French too?

One of my friends growing up (half French) was Aurelia, which I love