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Baby name regret?

56 replies

JudgeJudyAgain · 03/02/2022 20:13

I had hyperemesis and PND and as a result, coupled with the fact the partner didn't agree with me on many names I still didn't have a name for her when she was almost 6 weeks old.
The only one we could agree on was Esmé (Es-may) so reluctantly went for that.
Now I really don't like it. She's forever getting Es-me and the accent is a pain.
It's too late to change it isn't it? She's 4 months.
Anyone else have name regret and did it grow on you?

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JudgeJudyAgain · 03/02/2022 20:33

Thanks everyone. The thing is I actually can't even think of another name 😂 or not one we could agree on at least!

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Aquamarine1029 · 03/02/2022 20:21

What other names are you considering?

StrychnineIntheSandwiches · 03/02/2022 20:21

If your partner is on board just change it.

butterflyfox · 03/02/2022 20:20

Please change it. Not because it’s not lovely but my daughter is nearly 10 and I still regret her name. I thought it was too late to change at a month old. And six months old. And a year old. It has not grown on me. At 10 years it probably is too late so I’m being creative with nicknames.

Puffykins · 03/02/2022 20:18

So, I love Esme - and have a daughter with a longer variation. Firstly, you can simply correct everyone's pronunciation of it/ else start calling her Essy/ Mimi?

RedCandyApple · 03/02/2022 20:17

I would pronounce it as es mee and there was a thread on here not long ago where most people said the same. I would change it now if you want to as under 12 months it can be changed on the bc