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What names will define this generation?

59 replies

Buddhabowl · 13/12/2021 14:26

I'm fascinated by names and how trends come and go and names become associated with a certain type of person, age etc.
My DM is late 60s and all her friends are called Sue, Linda/Lynne, Brenda, Jackie.
If you see the name Brenda, the chances are that person is of that age range and you naturally just assume that they are before meeting them. I have a name that is dated to my generation too and will one day become a 'Sue' type name.
What names will define this generation do you think? Names like Isabella rocketed in popularity but I feel like it is classic enough to maintain popularity for long enough not to be too pidgeon-holed, same possibly for Florence.
I think maybe Evie, Ava, Isla for girls, I'm really not sure for boys...
Most of my dad's friends are Mike Dave or John or Bob (Robert), but they are all fairly classic names that you also meet on younger men. The Keiths, Barrys, Brians are more pidgeon-holed I guess and not sure what their equivalents would be.

This isn't knocking any particular name, I think some of these names are really nice despite their popularity but just interested to see views from other name nerdsSmile

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Buddhabowl · 15/12/2021 09:05

I see Emily as a classic. I know Emily's my age and teenage and baby Emily's, it is also a popular name throughout history.
Very few names maintain a continuous level of popularity at all times. Charlotte is similar I think.

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Foxglovers · 14/12/2021 21:49

I think names like Olivia and Amelia and Isabelle etc will span a few generations though…so not necessarily as specific as names like ‘willow, Ivy, Evie’ which seem much more of a trend (and one which might not last as long?) a bit like Joanna, Amy, Gemma of my generation (80s) which seemed to be popular for a much shorter space of time and therefor much easier to guess an age!

Foxglovers · 14/12/2021 21:47

@Thatgirl1990

Unfortunately I think everyone on mumsnet has a very bad idea about what names are proper classics, for example I’ve seen comments about Emily being classic and deep down I think everyone knows it’s very dated to the 2000s🥴it will be the Karen of 2040 and to me it sounds like an American blonde girls name, I mean it was the top name there for 12 years.
I'm starting to think you really don’t like the name Emily…!
StrawScarecrow · 14/12/2021 19:39

Emily has been in the top 100 since the late 70s so a modern classic and not really tied to a particular generation.
www.ons.gov.uk/visualisations/dvc363/babyindex.html#1,Emily

However I agree that it shares characteristics with a lot of the on trend names starting with E or ending with Ie!

I think double barreled, full of vowels and shorts (nicknames?) Is a good shout.

EishetChayil · 14/12/2021 19:34

There was a smaller pool of names in the past, so a small number became generation-defining. Thanks to social media, the name pool has widened.

MincePieIceCream · 14/12/2021 19:31

It’ll be funny to be an old lady and see all the little babies called Emma, Gemma, Michelle, Rachel, Nicola, Sarah (late 70s baby).

I was talking to a Londoner the other day called Kylie (on the phone, work related) and I could almost guarantee you she was born late 89s and named after Charlene from Neighbours Grin.

thewhatsit · 14/12/2021 19:27

@Thatgirl1990

Unfortunately I think everyone on mumsnet has a very bad idea about what names are proper classics, for example I’ve seen comments about Emily being classic and deep down I think everyone knows it’s very dated to the 2000s🥴it will be the Karen of 2040 and to me it sounds like an American blonde girls name, I mean it was the top name there for 12 years.
names.darkgreener.com/#emily

Er Confused

thewhatsit · 14/12/2021 19:24

@HopefulHetty

Alfie
I was thinking Alfie before I even opened the thread.

Maybe Evie and Alfie.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 14/12/2021 19:16

Darkergreener is great for visualising what names will likely date (at least in England and Wales) - any name that has shot up in popularity from barely used to top 20/30 or so in the last couple of decades is likely to date imo (so yes - Noah, Arlo, Archie, Finley, Isla, Ava, Mia, Ivy etc....there are so many).

I disagree that most popular names will date though - if you go super timeless ie. never left the top 100 historically, you likely won't have to worry about that. So Elizabeth for girls (or maybe Alice or Maria which have also rarely left), or the 11 timeless boys names (including George which was mentioned earlier- yes, it's very popular now but has always been well used statistically).

Names like Jack or Charlie are interesting - they are very popular now but since John and Charles have always been very well used (and many of those older John's and Charles's were known as "Jack" or "Charlie"), I'm not sure they will date as much as people might think.

Obviously the alternative to picking a timeless name would be to avoid the top 50/100 names totally. But as others have mentioned you still risk the name rising - especially if it's part of the current trends ("vintage/retro", "boys name ending in an O", "2 syllable girls name ending in "A" , "traditional nickname ending in an "y/ie", "surname as first name" - this basically covers about 80 -90% of the most popular names!)

Chakraleaf · 14/12/2021 18:18

@Paddingtonthebear

Not sure about Emily. I’m 45 and there were multiple girls called Emily throughout my infant, junior and secondary schools.
I have a great grabd parent called Emily
Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 14/12/2021 17:17

I had an Emma in my year at school (would be 60 now) but no Emily as far as I can recall.

Finlay (that spelling) has been a common if not super-popular first name in Scotland for a very long time. I had a great-uncle of that name born before WW1.

One huge change in my lifetime has been putting an abbreviated name/nickname version of a name on the birth certificate, not the formal name to which it relates. There were plenty of people around when I was growing up who were known as Liz, Debbie, Jack, Mandy, Ronnie, Alfie etc but the names on their birth certificates would usually have been Elizabeth, Deborah, Amanda, John, Ronald, Alfred and so on. I wonder if we'll ever go back to that. Pros and cons.

TuftyMarmoset · 14/12/2021 17:01

Definitely Arlo, that was relatively unknown before

Cutesy names for boys like Teddy, Freddie, Alfie

Double barrelled names like Lily-May, Amelia-Rose, Alfie-Jay etc

Paddingtonthebear · 14/12/2021 16:52

Not sure about Emily. I’m 45 and there were multiple girls called Emily throughout my infant, junior and secondary schools.

WhoppingBigBackside · 14/12/2021 15:31

@MrsFin, most boy's names aren't surnames, or not common surnames. A lot of surnames are a boy's name followed by s or son.V

Names like Jenson, Harrison, Riley, Finley etc weren't popular a few decades ago

Saoirsesersha · 14/12/2021 15:01

Most boys' names are also surnames though: Thomas, Anthony, James, John, David, Oliver, Christian, Christopher, Andrew, Peter, Paul, Robert, Adam, Joseph, Alexander, Benjamin
Only because it was traditional to use a male ancestor’s forename as a surname when surnames became commonplace
It’s a bit different to using an occupational surname like Carter or Cooper as a first name for a baby

RedToothBrush · 14/12/2021 14:46

Any name ending in -ia or -ie / -y or -o

Rose, Grace and May as middle names.

TheHolyPotato · 14/12/2021 14:44

Emily was terribly old fashioned for ages. But if it's a royal name or a Brontë it's a classic I suppose. Excepting poor old Branwell ( or Bramwell?)

TheHolyPotato · 14/12/2021 14:42

Stoat,😂
Noah took a while to get popular where I am. Theo too but it's here now.
Eden I first heard a couple of years back, Aria I heard for the first time in the park just after lockdown ended.

BlueSkyeThinker · 14/12/2021 14:40

Willow is one of those names that never really existed until it popped up about ten (?) years ago. Ditto all those Bear/Fox/Wren/Stoat nature names.

Thatgirl1990 · 14/12/2021 14:32

Unfortunately I think everyone on mumsnet has a very bad idea about what names are proper classics, for example I’ve seen comments about Emily being classic and deep down I think everyone knows it’s very dated to the 2000s🥴it will be the Karen of 2040 and to me it sounds like an American blonde girls name, I mean it was the top name there for 12 years.

Flutterflybutterby · 14/12/2021 12:54

Alfie
Archie
Teddy
Lily
Ivy
Evie
Anything-May
Anything-Rose

DuchessMinnie · 14/12/2021 12:41

If this interests you then go to jetpunk.com, it's a quiz site. They have quizzes where you guess the top 10 baby names per decade for the last 100 years. Fascinating

DukkaTheHallsWithBoughsOfHolly · 13/12/2021 19:17

Ava
Ella
Isla
Evie
Amelia
Olivia
Lily
Evelyn
Ivy

With Rose/Grace/May/Mae/Mai/Rae as a middle name, generally hyphenated.

Alfie
Finlay
Oliver
Jack
Harry
Charlie

Ceramide · 13/12/2021 18:40

Evie
Isobel
Imogen
Freya

Alfie
Albie
Archie
Otto

Ohsolemiooo · 13/12/2021 18:39

Eva, Ava, Evie, Ivy
Evelyn
Lila, Layla, Lela
Olivia
Ella, Ellie
Isabella
Sophia

Theo - feels to me like every single boy that is born these days is called Theo or Ted or Teddy!