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Baby 10 days old and doubting our name choice

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OutOfSortsToday · 17/10/2021 16:17

Before she was born we had a shortlist of 3 for a girl, when she arrived DH admitted one of them (my favourite) he just couldn't get on board with as a first name. That has become the middle name (Cecilia)

Of the other two options we were totally undecided but eventually went for Elise, a name we've always really liked.

We've now discovered that lots of people pronounce it Eh - leess (with second part as 'lease' like in leasehold). We had always thought it was Eh- leez, and we much prefer that.

We've found that almost everyone so far has pronounced it Eh - lease with a soft s.

  1. are we wrong to pronounce it eh-leez?

  2. should we change it if we're finding the different pronunciation a bit annoying? Maybe I'm overthinking it?

Please be gentle, I'm feeling pretty rotten physically after the birth and have found picking her name really stressful from the off.

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AliceMcK · 17/10/2021 16:22

Personally I like both pronunciations. The only person I know with the name is pronounced Eh-lease…

I love Cecilia too, it’s a beautiful name.

PanicBuyingSprouts · 17/10/2021 16:20

Really sorry OP but I thought it was E-lease as well. If the pronunciation is bothering you that much you can still change her name.

I know someone who changed their DD's name at around the same age and has always said the relief she felt outweighed the worry about telling everyone Thanks