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Sibling for India and Rafferty

259 replies

3babessoon · 10/08/2021 20:48

Looking for inspiration for a name which goes well with India and Rafferty? Don’t know what we are having. Quite like Bodhi for a boy but nothing really shouting out to us in the way of girls names. Georgia maybe possibly?!

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DaisyWaldron · 12/08/2021 23:43

I just had a look at the top 100 girls' names of 2020, and noticed that Sienna, Luna, Mya, Scarlett, Layla, Aria, Violet, Lotte, Aurora, and Lola are all more popular than Elizabeth, with Delilah only a couple of places behind, ahead of Eleanor, Hope, Zoe, Amelie and Anna.

So if a Delilah, Aurora or Lola would be an unusual bully-magnet, what hope is there for girls with the much more attention-seeking rarity value names outside the top 100, like Catherine, Eve, Megan or Isobel?

louderthan · 12/08/2021 23:42

I knew a brother and sister at school called Orlando and Jocasta.
They were known universally and introduced themselves as Olly and Jo.

lottiegarbanzo · 12/08/2021 23:41

Gabriel and Aurora

louderthan · 12/08/2021 23:39

@TatianaBis

Balonz was funny. So was Garyanne.
GARYANNE!!!!😂😂 I am howling.
mathanxiety · 12/08/2021 23:38

You've cherry picked those to suit your own argument

Those examples are the main elements of each vignette.

The majority of the individuals contributing to the article cited the responses of stupid, ignorant, and possibly hard of hearing others as reasons they regret name choices.

prettyprinceofpartiez · 12/08/2021 23:37

We have similar taste, I've got a new Rafferty! I come from a family with unusual names going back generations so wanted something with a classic feel but unusual.

Ignore the nasty posters, we've had nothing from compliments from people on his name. It might not be for everyone, but no name ever is!
The unpleasant posters probably have children with incredibly bland names and can't fathom the idea of wanting a more memorable and individual name.

We also considered Casper, Kit, Evander, Felix, Ophelia, Matilda, Tabitha, Felicity.

louderthan · 12/08/2021 23:35

Carol
Elaine
Gary
Dave

mathanxiety · 12/08/2021 23:34

But no "class" is mentioned

@Germolenequeen
LOL. No class needs mentioning here.

Cbeebiesrehab · 12/08/2021 23:25

@DillonPanthersTexas and if you did you’d probably get your thread removed. Seen it done plenty of times.

@Germolenequeen you know exactly what is being implied and to pretend it’s not a class related comment is just being deliberately obtuse.

TatianaBis · 12/08/2021 23:23

Some people are ‘achingly middle class’, so what?

Who wants to live their life by MN’s rigid class rules? Those at the top apparently get the best deal as they’re allowed to call their kids whatever they like. Others have to stay in their lane.

Of the list I know an Aurelia, Nova, Cosima, Athena, Callista, Sibylla, Zinnia, Allegra, Phineas, Heloise, 2 Hesters…

Germolenequeen · 12/08/2021 23:22

Artemisia, Artemisia, be darhling and pick up some pomegranate seeds and a fair trade mango from Waitrose"

@Germolenequeen, this ^^ is mockery.

@mathanxiety

But no "class" is mentioned

DillonPanthersTexas · 12/08/2021 23:21

What would be a working class name?

I have no issues mocking all the Khaleesi's,
hyphenated Molly-Mai's etc or any girl's name with a double 'ee' at the end. Throw into the mix phonetically spelt Irish names.

Cbeebiesrehab · 12/08/2021 23:21

Sorry that was for @Germolenequeen

Cbeebiesrehab · 12/08/2021 23:20

Refer to the ‘Waitrose’ comment above.

Germolenequeen · 12/08/2021 23:20

You've cherry picked those to suit your own argument 🙄

mathanxiety · 12/08/2021 23:19

"Artemisia, Artemisia, be darhling and pick up some pomegranate seeds and a fair trade mango from Waitrose"

@Germolenequeen, this ^^ is mockery.

mathanxiety · 12/08/2021 23:18

Here are examples of people who are stupid, ignorant, and/or hard of hearing from the guardian article, which with one or two exceptions describes the responses of stupid, hard of hearing, and ignorant responses to names:

hefty and tease-worthy moniker

  • This is all about appeasing other people, handling their insecurities for them.
And, also for any inverse snobbery from others at having called our child such an indulgent name
  • Ditto.

I realised the name is always associated with bad characters in films and TV too – such as gang members. When my son was a boy there was a teacher perception that he’d be someone to watch, just because he was called Scott.

  • That's a pretty stupid teacher, and it's very troubling that a child was judged in advance.

...people think it’s his surname, no one can spell it

  • Seriously, how hard is it to spell Rafferty? It obeys all the phonics rules.
...and when I introduce him to people they always ask me to repeat the name.
  • Hard of hearing, or just stuck in their own little world?

...we needed a name that would work in both English and French. We settled on Cléo (pronounced Clay-o) which is also a nod to my Egyptian heritage. Unfortunately, we have since found that people constantly mishear it as Claire and when corrected still pronounce it as Cleo...

  • Stupid, hard of hearing...

...we hadn’t taken into account other people not being familiar with it...

  • Other people's ignorance, in other words.
One of the midwives called her “Asterix” and her name is often misheard as Ashley and Ashton
  • Hard of hearing? Ignorant? Astrid isn't an odd or weird name unless you rarely read and don't get out much.
Germolenequeen · 12/08/2021 23:17

No one is mocking any "class" of name just giving opinions on what they perceive as ridiculous or potentially unsuitable 🤷‍♀️

Cbeebiesrehab · 12/08/2021 23:07

Imagine if someone was mocking a ‘working class’ name in the way some people are mocking names on here. There would be uproar.

mathanxiety · 12/08/2021 23:01

"Artemisia, Artemisia, be darhling and pick up some pomegranate seeds and a fair trade mango from Waitrose"

The only way to break free from the class prison is to think and act as if it doesn't exist. The class system only exists because it is maintained by constant self-policing on the part of all of its victims.

adrianmolesmole · 12/08/2021 22:50

Bodhi is appalling. Absolute man-bun of a name

GrinGrinGrin That's the funniest thing I've read recently!

Germolenequeen · 12/08/2021 22:42

Is Isis expected to change her name?

Of course not but going forward to avoid any negative connotations maybe the name could be avoided - a bit like Adolf is 🤔

35andThriving · 12/08/2021 22:32

I hope you find something you like soon, op. Flowers

MadamBatty · 12/08/2021 22:28

Macglllicudy
Macaneaspaigh
Mcentaggart Anne
Dave

Puffalicious · 12/08/2021 22:25

Sorry Dillon not Demon.