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Matilda, Isabelle or Harriet?

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Opinion4321 · 08/05/2021 17:28

Which do you prefer please?

I'm due in a week and am really stuck. I thought I'd decided on Harriet but I love Issie and have always liked Matilida too.

Thanks in advance

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Mybigbed · 11/05/2021 17:04

I like them all but if I had to rank them it would be
Harriet
Matilda
Isabel (spelt like that)

Crunchymum · 11/05/2021 16:58

Harriet is lovely name.

I have a nephew called Harry (very close in age to DD who would have been a Harriet) so we didn't use it.

Hillse · 10/05/2021 22:59

DD, age 10, is Harriet and we love it - as others have said its not as popular as others like Grace, Matilda Isla or Sophie. We chose it as its a bit different but not too obscure.

For the first few years of her life we didnt come across another Harriet but when DD started her school out of the 40-50 girls in her yeargroup there are two Harriets, although the other one calls herself Hattie so its possible to differentiate them (in contrast there are several Sophies, Graces and Matildas and one Isabella)

We tend to call her Harry or if teasing DS calls her Harold (after learning about King Harold I think on Horrible Histories) rather than Hattie

IslandLulu · 09/05/2021 10:12

Harriet or Matilda

Edenember · 09/05/2021 09:31

Harriet. But i love Tilda rather than Matilda even more.

MangosteenSoda · 09/05/2021 08:00

Harriet is lovely and less overused atm.

All nice names, but with so many Isabelles and Matildas around at the moment, the names feel a little boring. And I say that as someone who is generally a big fan of boring names Grin

hellohellosailor · 09/05/2021 07:59

Matilda, shortens to Tilly, Tilda, Mattie. I also love the meaning 'mighty in battle'.
Otherwise Harriet

schnubbins · 09/05/2021 07:50

Isabelle

Macdo · 09/05/2021 07:50

I think every family I know with a daughter born in the last 7/8 years has called one of them Isabelle / Bella / one of the derivatives. I actually can't think of one that hasn't.

Also Matilda very popular where I live - we all grew up loving the book and as we've had kids it's become a very popular choice. Most of them know as Tilly / Tillie.

Harriet is the less popular of the three but I know 3/4 born in the last 18 months or so. It's become the replacement Grace.

But as I say none of this matters if you like the names. Just didn't want you picking then being amazed when you go to baby class and there are two of each!

seriousandloyal · 09/05/2021 07:44

Prefer Harriet

PurpleFlower1983 · 09/05/2021 07:42

We have a Matilda (Tilda) so I’m biased but I love it, it gets so many compliments.

Pemba · 08/05/2021 23:54
  1. Isabel or Isobel rather than Isabelle - lovely but very popular.
  1. Harriet is quite nice.
  1. Matilda. Personally I'm not massively keen although it's fine. Also very popular,.

Harriet is probably the least popular (most unusual) just now.

StellaOlivetti · 08/05/2021 22:10

All good names! Personally, would go for Harriet or Isobel/Isabel (prefer these spellings).

BadgerWatch · 08/05/2021 21:52

I'd avoid Isabelle. It's a lovely name but so popular. DD2 has an Isabelle, Isobel, Isabella and Bella in her primary class. There's only 27 of them and to of the other girls are Lexi's.

nocoolnamesleft · 08/05/2021 21:49

They're all nice. Probably Matilda in first place.

Notgotanyidea · 08/05/2021 21:47

Harriet. Matilda and Isabelle and all it’s variants are very popular.

SummeHoliday · 08/05/2021 21:44

All great names though I also prefer the far less frilly Isobel (and your other choices are also strong rather than frilly).

Ostagazuzulum · 08/05/2021 21:44

Isabelle

Blacktothepink · 08/05/2021 21:44

Isabelle

IHaveBrilloHair · 08/05/2021 21:42

Matilda or Harriet, Isabelle is much too popular

bubblebath62636 · 08/05/2021 21:42

Matilda, never known one.

Harriet doesn't have a nice sound to it and there's lots of Isabelle/annabell/Belle names around.

MadeOfStarStuff · 08/05/2021 21:40

They’re all lovely although I prefer the Isabel/Isobel spellings, Isabelle feels very frilly

I agree it’s more popular than shown in the rankings because there’s multiple popular spellings plus Isabella

I think Matilda is my favourite of the three

Iremembertheelderlykoreanlady · 08/05/2021 21:34

Not Matilda.

Both the others are lovely with cute nicknames

Issie, Issy, Izzy, Bella, belle

Nettie, hettie, Harrie

Nice choices. Good luck with the birth Flowers

MySocalledLoaf · 08/05/2021 21:31

Harriet

angharadrose · 08/05/2021 21:29

I think isabelle is the best Grin

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