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Maeve and Blythe - too similar?

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BeeKeeping · 28/04/2021 12:54

Pros-
I love old lady names.
To me it's soft but still strong.
Spells like it sounds.
One syllable
It means joyful/cheerful
Keen for something unusual but not unheard of....

Cons-
Too similar to DD1 name Maeve?
We have a long 3 syllable surname which is a popular androgynous first name- think Lindsay.... would it lead to a lifetime of people thinking she was actually called Lindsay Blythe? Is Blythe too popular a surname? We're in Scotland if that makes any difference.

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DoAsYouWouldBeMumBy · 29/04/2021 15:36

[quote BeeKeeping]@FortunesFave It is! Grin I didn't want to confirm too clearly in my response in case anyone searched my posts!

Annoying that it sounds modern... I know the trend for surnames as first names is new, but Blythe is a really old name! Like ye olde English old! I suppose it's probably too old to be granny chic ironically.... [/quote]
I don't think it sounds like Blair or Paige or something like that - it just sounds really interesting, the sort of name I'd associate with a writer or actor.

FortunesFave · 29/04/2021 13:34

[quote BeeKeeping]@FortunesFave It is! Grin I didn't want to confirm too clearly in my response in case anyone searched my posts!

Annoying that it sounds modern... I know the trend for surnames as first names is new, but Blythe is a really old name! Like ye olde English old! I suppose it's probably too old to be granny chic ironically.... [/quote]
Wow! I didn't realise! I'm psychic! :D

BeeKeeping · 29/04/2021 09:14

@FortunesFave It is! Grin I didn't want to confirm too clearly in my response in case anyone searched my posts!

Annoying that it sounds modern... I know the trend for surnames as first names is new, but Blythe is a really old name! Like ye olde English old! I suppose it's probably too old to be granny chic ironically....

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BuffyFanForever · 29/04/2021 08:26

Absolutely love both names :)

AuntieMarys · 29/04/2021 06:09

I know a man in his early 60s called Blythe

drpet49 · 29/04/2021 06:08

Bylthe isn’t an old lady name at all

lottiegarbanzo · 29/04/2021 06:05

They are so completely different in style. Maeve is Irish-heritage grannie-chic, Blythe sounds modern-American surname as first name, similar to Blair, Paige, Blake or Brooke.

First association for me is Blyth, the town in Northumberland, associated with ship-building. 'Blythe and bonny' comes after that, because, as an adjective, that doesn't take a capital B.

Then Blithe Spirit.

Some people will say Blyve, which is where it starts to sound similar to Maeve. Different vowel sound though.

YellowandGreenToBeSeen · 29/04/2021 05:47

Blythe is beautiful. A really lovely classic, traditional name but with modern connotations too.

And goes extremely well with Maeve.

spaceghetto · 29/04/2021 05:38

Beautiful names! I'm missing something as don't think they're similar st at all, just really compatible!

FortunesFave · 29/04/2021 02:44

@DoAsYouWouldBeMumBy

Good grief, that's a brilliant name + surname combo. I love it! Not too similar to Maeve, no, they go great together.
That's not OP's real surname
ZoyaTheDestroyer · 28/04/2021 22:18

[quote BeeKeeping]@Paspourmoi You got me! It's the C surname, good guess Grin

I'm surprised people are saying Blythe is completely unknown as a first name, I wanted unusual but maybe I'm going too far? [/quote]
It is pretty rare - fewer than twenty born every year: names.darkgreener.com/#blythe. #1634 in 2019, jointly with some well-known names which are currently out of fashion, eg Alison, Jodie, Catrin.

user1493494961 · 28/04/2021 22:00

I don't think they go well together at all, Maeve is a very pretty name, Blythe has a different vibe, definitely not 'old lady'.

toastofthetown · 28/04/2021 22:00

They're similar but not too close. if you are concerned, you could always practise calling the names through your house with your husband to see if they are distinguishable.

I don't think the surname is a concern either. My partner has a common girls name as his surname and a first name which is also used as a surname, and while he will occasionally be referred to as Rose Oliver for example, or have work emails addressed as 'Dear Rose', it's really not a problem.

Paspourmoi · 28/04/2021 21:56

Oh sorry, I didn’t mean to out you! I do think it sounds gorgeous though.

DoAsYouWouldBeMumBy · 28/04/2021 21:53

Good grief, that's a brilliant name + surname combo. I love it! Not too similar to Maeve, no, they go great together.

BeeKeeping · 28/04/2021 21:49

@Paspourmoi You got me! It's the C surname, good guess Grin

I'm surprised people are saying Blythe is completely unknown as a first name, I wanted unusual but maybe I'm going too far?

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carleyemma91 · 28/04/2021 21:46

Blyth is an absolute shit hole in the North East, so maybe if you live in the North avoid that name.

GreenTeaPingPong · 28/04/2021 21:34

They're slightly similar in sound, but completely different in origins. Maeve is a traditional Irish girl's name. Blythe is not known as a first name, certainly not an 'old lady' name.

Paspourmoi · 28/04/2021 21:30

I absolutely love Blythe - would have been on my list for DD but DH wasn’t having any of it. I think it’s lovely with Maeve - they feel quite different to me as I’ve only known Irish Maeves but it seems to be becoming more popular in the UK. I think I get what you mean with the surname - is it something like Hilary, where the other way round might look more natural? That could be annoying, but I don’t think I’d let it put me off. Or Cameron? If it’s that, Blythe Cameron sounds amazing!!

DramaAlpaca · 28/04/2021 21:24

I find them much too similar, sorry.

chesterelly · 28/04/2021 21:22

I love the name Blythe. But as someone who gave DS a name with same middle vowel sound and last syllable as his DSis I'd try and test it on your DD. Depending how old she is could you call "Blythe" and see if she responds. When mine were younger I'd call one & get both & now they're older, neither respond, both claiming they thought I wanted the other.
I get the surname thing too, we have a surname that can be a first name and DH has a surname type first name which often gets muddled. He vetoed many names that I liked for this reason.

partyatthepalace · 28/04/2021 18:37

They are quite similar sounding, but nothing that would put me off. I like Blyth a lot.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 28/04/2021 18:16

Similar but not too close for me (even though I pronounce them "May -ve" and "Bly -ve"). Both have a one syllable, softish sound but are fine for siblings imo, as the beginning of the names sound distinct enough.

I didn't know Blythe was a popular surname - the name reminds me of the play Blithe Spirit and of the actress Blythe Danner. But according to this site it is more popular as a surname than forename in Scotland forebears.io/surnames/blythe , forebears.io/forenames/blythe , - but I don't think it would matter to me personally).

CheshireCats · 28/04/2021 17:25

Not keen on Blythe. It just doesn't sound nice to me.

BeeKeeping · 28/04/2021 17:19

@BergamotMouse No you do pronounce the 'th' but it's quite soft- like bly-thu in some accents people might say Bly-v which is why I worried it's too similar to Maeve?.... with the vuh sound at the end

It seems to be quite marmite! I knew I had the right name with Maeve because I didn't care a hoot whether other people liked it or not..!

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