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Catherine / Kate

39 replies

SylviaPlath1984 · 05/04/2021 21:03

Help a girl out!

22 weeks pregnant, having a little girl. Already have a lovely 4 year old daughter and used up my name choices all on her... now me and DH are pretty stumped and all we can agree on is Catherine, Kate for short. The only issue is I really don't like the shortened version Katie, I have no idea why...

Anyway, what do we think of Catherine? Too old? Too bland? Are you a Catherine and prefer certain nicknames, do people respect that and not use one you don't like?

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Ivyleagueunderthesea · 05/04/2021 21:54

I’m a Kate.
Not a Catherine and never a Katie. My full name is Kate.
No one has ever called me Katie.

Woofsaidtheladybird · 05/04/2021 21:51

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I'm a Kathryn, and was a Katie for years until my mid 20s when I worked somewhere who had the same name and surname as me so I changed to Kate. It's stuck ever since. Only passport and banks know me as Kathryn!

MeltsAway · 05/04/2021 21:49

The English spelling is with a K, not a C. That tends to be the French spelling.

The original Greek is with a K.

baldisbeautiful · 05/04/2021 21:46

I'm a Catherine and the only downside is you always have to answer the question " is that a C or a K?" Never been shortened by anyone except by one uncle who always called me Katie for some strange reason. I've always liked it as a name, it's lovely for a little girl and you grow into it well too. X

PattyPan · 05/04/2021 21:44

I love Catherine, I actually took it as my own confirmation name. I agree you should introduce her as Kate or ‘Catherine, Kate for short’ to prime people.

emmie841 · 05/04/2021 21:42

Catherine is a timeless classic, so elegant and pretty. Kate is also beautiful x

MySocalledLoaf · 05/04/2021 21:40

I love it, but would be tempted to put Kate on the birth certificate if that’s the name you actually like.

riotlady · 05/04/2021 21:39

I think it’s lovely, and Catherine/Kate is a perfectly common spelling combo (and works for Kate Middleton!)

SelkieBoru · 05/04/2021 21:34

So boring
I prefer Cathy to Kate tbh

BackforGood · 05/04/2021 21:32

If you introduce her to people as Kate, then that will be what people call her until she gets to school when you have no control over what she is called by other dc

If you are going to call her Kate though, I'd go for spelling Catherine with a K too, otherwise it gets annoying that everything will be addressed wrong.

Edenember · 05/04/2021 21:25

If you are very particular on the shortened form, I’d tell everyone she’s called Kate but put Catherine on the birth certificate. Then drop it in later on a ‘need to know basis’ - we’ll she’s actually Catherine in full. It might be helpful to use the diminutive and full version with the same letter though. So Cate / Catherine or Kate / Katherine / Kathryn.

AhmenGwendolyn · 05/04/2021 21:20

I know a Kathryn who is a Kate

It's a lovely name.

MrsTerryPratchett · 05/04/2021 21:09

If you call her Kate, chances are it will stick. Kit or Kat are also nice.

PandaFluff · 05/04/2021 21:08

I know a Catherine and a Katherine who both like Cat/Kat

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