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Mumsnet's most loved baby names

235 replies

SmeleanorSmellstrop · 10/03/2021 03:01

I feel like there are a bunch of names that Mumsnet posters unanimously adore. I have never seen Josephine or Rosa get a negative comment, for example. As for boy names, I think Edward seems really well-loved. What do you think?

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MMM2 · 11/03/2021 14:54

olivia and Rosie always seem popular

Lanique · 11/03/2021 14:53

*think

Lanique · 11/03/2021 14:52

Juliet is always mentioned on here. Always, always, Juliet pops up. Personally I thing it sounds a bit wimpy.

MimiDaisy11 · 11/03/2021 14:42

I think names which are classics but not overused as best-liked here. Names disliked the most are American ones (like surnames as first names), nicknames used as the official name and unusual spellings of names.

Chunkymenrock · 11/03/2021 14:37

Bloody Margot, Rory, Elizabeth. The lovely Hazel is occurring more though.

KirstenBlest · 11/03/2021 14:28

I think Wren an Quentin names may be inspired by fictional characters, so would have started fairly recently. They might not be ones you've heard in your area yet.

You also get the regional effect where a really unusual name gets used, then someone else uses it and it becomes more mainstream in that area, but not in other parts of the country.

Isn't Kobe swahili?

Wondermule · 11/03/2021 14:22

[quote Drunkenmonkey]@kirstenblest personally I don't think that's usually true. If someone asks about Charlotte or Alexander or Edward, they are usually mostly loved. You will get the odd person saying "that's dull" but the vast majority will like it and say things like "timeless, classic, strong" etc.

The names that get called "boring and dull" are usually the ones that are currently trendy and popular (Amelia, Eva, Sophia etc) because people get bored of hearing them I imagine (no disrespect to those names).[/quote]
Yes because MN attracts a certain type of poster - it is mainly aspirational white mums, who then soak in others opinions on what will happen if they give their child a non-classic name.

Timeless and classic aren’t really compliments on the name as such, they’re more objective observations that the name is one that has stuck around throughout history.

I’m not against traditional names at all (although I like them more for boys than girls), but I feel a lot of mumsnetters limit themselves in naming their child as the names they like are dismissed as something that will ‘date badly’ or is ‘naff’. It’s a shame as the name they float is often gorgeous but they end up settling for something plain.

micc · 11/03/2021 14:16

My childrens names got slated by some people on MN! Haha but some people were really nice about them and liked them as much as I did.

Names like Sophia, Alice, Anna, Olivia.. I see them doing well all the time.
MN tends to not like more out there names imo

Drunkenmonkey · 11/03/2021 14:13

@kirstenblest personally I don't think that's usually true. If someone asks about Charlotte or Alexander or Edward, they are usually mostly loved. You will get the odd person saying "that's dull" but the vast majority will like it and say things like "timeless, classic, strong" etc.

The names that get called "boring and dull" are usually the ones that are currently trendy and popular (Amelia, Eva, Sophia etc) because people get bored of hearing them I imagine (no disrespect to those names).

Violetlavenders · 11/03/2021 14:07

I love the name Ottilie, I think it's very pretty and classically English.

It's originally German, the feminine version of Otto. Pronounced O-TEE-lee-eh

Violetlavenders · 11/03/2021 14:01

I've never met a real life Quentin of any age!

Really? I know three under age 12. And most people know of the illustrator Quentin Blake or film director Quentin Tarantino.

I, on the other hand, have never met a real life Wren, which is often suggested here.

Must be very regional!

KirstenBlest · 11/03/2021 13:57

But it's white middle class names that get a lot of stick too. Beige, boring, dull, bland etc.

Irish and Welsh names get love because of the need to give a nod to the child's heritage, then you get the arguments about spellings and pronunciations.

Drunkenmonkey · 11/03/2021 13:21

Reading through the posts, it's true that it's white middle class names that get a lot of applause.
When we say 'classic' what we really mean, is used historically by the white middle class and fit for a king or queen (Charlotte/Katherine/Alexander etc)
It's actually quite sickening to think of the level of unconscious racism and classism that occurs. It isn't intentional necessarily.

I saw the name Kobe torn to shreds once. A name with a lot of history in other cultures. Same goes for lots of names traditionally used by ethnic minorities.
My DH is Irish and really dislikes the English obsession with class, he wouldn't entertain a typical English middle class name, worse still if it was a royal type name (Henry/William etc) or a 'posh' name (Barnaby, Monty etc)
It was very difficult for us to find names that we both liked actually! Names can mean very different things to different people.

KistenBlest · 11/03/2021 13:06

I don't love Marianne. I don't hate it but Anne seemed to be every other girl's middle name when I was at school, so it seems dull and like all the Julie Annes, Karen Annes and Kerry Annes, etc

Anne-Marie was quite popular in my age group, and despite it being hyphenated I don't think it's too bad, but the names run into each other a bit so it sounds like Amery.

Drunkenmonkey · 11/03/2021 12:54

Marianne is a good one. Everyone on Mumsnet loves Marianne. I think it's because it hits that sweet spot of classic, uncommon and has never been trendy so not dated. I love it.

Champy87 · 11/03/2021 09:37

@RedLlama

Esme, which I personally think just sounds so ugly
In My Girl 2, Jamie Lee Curtis suggests Esme for a girl and her husband says "it sounds like a noise your nose makes" and then says it in a really nasally manner. That has always stuck with me and put me off.
ConnieDobbs · 11/03/2021 09:24

Choosing names is usually a compromise between two people. I love a lot of these names, but my DP preferred more traditional names, so the actual names we used for our children were more common names that we both liked.

I wonder if a lot of the mumsnetters suggesting names like Otillie and Clementine or Atticus and Reuben would have liked to use these names but couldn't persuade their partners?

cafedesreves · 11/03/2021 09:12

Benjamin always gets lots of love on threads

AliasGrape · 11/03/2021 07:27

@FlashBathroom

Someone always pops up to suggest Claudia Confused

Also Marianne. I just don't get it Hmm

I like both those names and know people with them 🤷‍♀️
FlashBathroom · 10/03/2021 23:09

Someone always pops up to suggest Claudia Confused

Also Marianne. I just don't get it Hmm

SenecaTrewe · 10/03/2021 22:55

Sylvie

Drunkenmonkey · 10/03/2021 22:52

Samuel.

RedLlama · 10/03/2021 21:52

Esme, which I personally think just sounds so ugly

Habbyhadno · 10/03/2021 18:26

That's why I said I hadn't meant to put that at the end Wink

Wondermule · 10/03/2021 17:02

@Habbyhadno

I love the name Ottilie, I think it's very pretty and classically English.
It’s French.
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