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Name preference - Ffion or Felicity

113 replies

JazzyPa · 15/01/2021 22:17

Hello,
My second baby is due this summer and I need help with names. We are having a surprise and already have our boys names selected (and keeping to ourselves) but girls names we need help with deciding.

We already have a little girl, Beatrice, who we call Bea, and if we were to have a second daughter we are thinking of either Ffion or Felicity. We like unusual, uncommon but not too 'out there' names.

We aren't Welsh and have no Welsh heritage but always loved the name Ffion (Fee-on), since we holidayed there years ago and heard it said for the first time. Since then it's stuck. We really like how unusual it is. However, I was wondering if it would be seen as out there or weird to name a non-Welsh girl that? The Ff clearly shows it's Welsh but this is the spelling we would go for. And secondly, l've just read somewhere that the slang term for ass in French is 'Fion'. The two words sound different but this has upset me slightly, not because it's put me off the name as such but because if we were ever go to France or French speakers, would her name be laugable? Would this put you off the name? Anyone French, or French-speakers, would you have associated the two? Are there any Ffion's out there who have experienced negativity in regards to this? I'm sure there's many slang terms/meanings from other languages I don't know about for lots of names but I now know about this one, which is unnerving. I do know some French people but would rather not ask for their input, incase it puts me off their name completely. Plus I never share names with anyone I know due to bad experiences previously.

On to our other choice, Felicity. Again I think a really pretty name and I haven't heard of many. The issue I have here is we love to shorten names. Beatrice, is knows as Bea and Felicity would likely be knows as "Flick" (as I've loved it since Neighbours heyday) & I'm not really a fan of "Liss" or "Lissy" as a nickname. So if we put the names together... Bea and Flick... someone said (years ago) oh like "Flick your bean" ... and it's this reason why I no longer share name choices with anyone I know (but equally glad in a way we're thinking about this now and not when it's too late). My question is, did combining Bea and Flick make you think this? Would this be enough to put you off a name? Or am I just being oversensitive?

I can't believe that the two names I love so much, I've almost over researched and it's causing such concern (as I'm convinced this little one is a girl too).

What are your thoughts on the above? Any help would be much appreciated. And any other name suggestions would be greatly received.

Many thanks,
Jaz

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DacwMamYnDwad · 17/01/2021 10:42

It's not a translation, Paris - you'd be calling your baby son Sticks. Like walking sticks. Grin

ParisJeTAime · 17/01/2021 10:38

Oh love the Welsh translation! Ffyn!

DacwMamYnDwad · 17/01/2021 10:38

or seeing as I'm a Welsh speaker, Ffyn, Ffiyn and Ffiwn.

Definitely not Ffion.

ParisJeTAime · 17/01/2021 10:37

Yes, I say it a bit like fun, as I'm from Ulster. Basically, if you aren't from Ireland and you like the name Finn, the best bet might be to spell it Finn Smile.

DacwMamYnDwad · 17/01/2021 10:36

I listened to the 3 and one was how I'd say Fun,one was how I'd say Fyun, and the other was how I'd say Fune or Fewn.

ParisJeTAime · 17/01/2021 10:04

It varies between different regions / dialects.

www.teanglann.ie/en/fuaim/fionn

It is not usually Finn as the English and Welsh would say it IME though.

DacwMamYnDwad · 17/01/2021 09:56

@ParisJeTAime, thanks, but I don't really get it.Are you saying it's either Funn or Fionn rhymes with Yonn?

Cowgran · 17/01/2021 09:37

I prefer Felicity. I have known a few and they all had different nicknames.

Fliss
Fel
Flick
Liss

ParisJeTAime · 17/01/2021 09:32

Fionn is not really pronounced Finn. In Ulster it is a bit like how they might say Finn, so with a but of an uh sound, like fun. Elsewhere in Ireland it is Fyon (all one syllable but with a clear 'y' sound). I am from Ulster.

DacwMamYnDwad · 17/01/2021 09:20

@FunnyInjury, as pp, Ffion means Foxglove, so it would be a strange name for a boy.

There is a rugby player called Ffion warriors.co.uk/teams/ffion-lewis/

The wife of a former Tory party leader is a Ffion.

I have a relative called Ffion, she's female, as was the Ffion I was at school with.

Fionn, I think, is pronounced Fin.
Ffion is pronounced Fee-on.

ArosAdraDrosDolig · 16/01/2021 23:43

Welshie here, Ffion is a fairly common (girls’) name where I live. It is most definitely a girls’ name and means foxglove.

I’d be very surprised if the rugby playing guy on Anglesey is actually called Ffion. It’s like being called Lily or Isabelle in England. My money is on him being Fionn (pn Finn and not a Welsh name).

I think op that the Ffion confusion in this thread probably shows that you should go for Felicity! Also think it goes really well with your other dd’s name.

I would assume Ffion was Welsh. But then once met a Geraint who wasn’t!

SemperIdem · 16/01/2021 23:17

@FunnyInjury

All those saying Ffion is a girls name will be Welsh, where it is indeed overwhelmingly used as a girls name. I’ve never known a male Ffion or even heard of one. Male Ceri’s - lots over about 40 and Celyn’s - a fair few 30ish and older. Never a Ffion though.

Fionn, the Irish Gaelic name is a different name from a different language that just happens to sound similar.

SemperIdem · 16/01/2021 23:11

I really like and would use both of them.

Beatrice and Felicity sounds very upper English middle class in a vintage sort of way.

Beatrice and Ffion more like you named them as individuals not a sibset, if you get what I mean?

Either way, both lovely names and both sound nice with Beatrice.

RuthW · 16/01/2021 22:22

Felicity is my preference.

Do you mind having a Bea and a Fi?

nancyclancy123 · 16/01/2021 20:51

Also if you go for Ffion, you could potentially have Bea and Fee??

nancyclancy123 · 16/01/2021 20:50

Felicity with the nn Fliss is perfect with Beatrice/Bea. I do like Ffion too, but prefer Felicity!

Liana2021 · 16/01/2021 20:36

Please don’t call her Ffion it gives me anxiety just reading the name 😅 There’s so many French people living in the UK especially if you live in London (and the Fanny I know was teased relentlessly when she was holidaying in England). All the other suggestions are really lovely, love Thea, love Philippa, love Felicity.
Sorry to bash one of the names you like I never ever do this except this once as of, as you say, your fear is that your French friends will raise eyebrows, believe me they will.
Xxx from a Frenchie

NoSquirrels · 16/01/2021 19:55

If you like the ‘f’ sound then Phoebe goes well with Beatrice? Felicia would give different nn options to Felicity. Or how about Frances/Francesca?

bearfood · 16/01/2021 19:14

My dd is Felicity, known as Flossie or Flo. Can't stand Flick!

Cherry321 · 16/01/2021 19:06

Ffion is lovely and I think English (and other people) could cope with it.

Btw Ffion Hague was definitely Welsh.

ParisJeTAime · 16/01/2021 18:59

Oh Philippa is lovely too!

CoffeeRunner · 16/01/2021 18:56

Have you considered Philippa? Or even just Pippa?

I love Ffion but Felicity is really not for me.

CaffiSaliMali · 16/01/2021 18:36

I prefer Ffion to Felicity generally speaking. I have a relative called Ffion (in a very Welsh speaking area of Wales) and am not aware of her being teased about the French 'fion'.

However, Felicity goes better with Beatrice then Ffion IMO. Bea and Fliss sounds fine to me - surely you'd use the eldest child's name first so 'Bea and Flick' rather than 'Flick and Bea' even if she did go by Flick. Fliss is nicer as a shortening IMO, Flick has a slightly harsh sound.

Ffion is also quite a Welsh Welsh name so I would assume a Welsh connection or heritage. It's not a name like Owen or Megan which is so commonly used outside of Wales that you wouldn't automatically think 'ah, they must be Welsh'.

I have a Welsh name in England which I would say was similar to Ffion in terms of how Welsh it sounds. I get a lot of 'what's your Welsh connection?' questions (Welsh Mam). So bear in mind that you'll get asked that a lot.

whattodo2019 · 16/01/2021 18:33

@DramaAlpaca

Felicity goes better with Beatrice. I'd be inclined to go for Fliss as a diminutive, I don't like Flick.
Gorgeous. I second this!!
carlaCox · 16/01/2021 18:33

I know a couple who recently had a baby daughter Ffion. They have some French extended family and apparently there were eyebrows raised at the name choice. So yes I think it is an issue in France...!